We all have our own trajectories in life.
Some like the ones I have with my friends of long standing are running more or less parallel
Others occasionally Veer away or in the case of one , Jane, intersect on a surreptitious level.
Many many moons ago Jane and I were an item. She is a free spirit and has an empathic and generous soul
And I came out shortly after we had split up.
I hurt her badly and I regret that hurt to this day.
But she , forgave me ( after planting a fully iced birthday cake in the centre of my new lawn) and eventually we became good friends again.
That seemed a lifetime ago.
Jane has a husband and two beautiful grown up daughters and lives in Sheffield
We speak regularly.
Last week she went on holiday to a tiny mountain house in the middle of the Andalusian mountains.
She went alone which took some balls, but she did it and FaceTimed me several times sharing the triumphs of that bucket list adventure.
We are both feeling our ages.
Next week the both of us are off to Barcelona another first since we were together a lifetime ago and I know it will be lovely.
Lockdown allowed us to share our worries and our dreams and thoughts about getting older, both have embarked on changes in work snd study late on in life.
Both feel we have lots of things undone, rather than unsaid
And now it’s the time to do them