An amble down Memory Lane

 I’ve ploughed through old posts from between 2008-2013

And picked four that were born on the field of animals I once looked after

I’ve enjoyed reading them once again .

I hope you do too

Ewan Saves The Day

The smaller four chicks photographed earlier in the week 

I was just tucking into my first cup of coffee this morning when I spotted neighbour Ewan running down the garden path.Breathlessly he shouted that there was an alsatian attacking the chickens, and that he had fended the dog off once but it had come back again.
I grabbed a hoe and ran out to the field where the young dog from the riding stables behind the Church was bouncing through the fencing of the smaller run.I shouted and chased it through the graveyard, then went back to survey the hens and ducks.
The big buffs where hiding in their hen house safely and the turkeys and ducks all looked ok. Stanley had moved the larger flock behind the hen houses , so with a heavy heart I realised that the dog had centred his attack on the small juvenile flock in the smallest run. Two sides of the fencing had been knocked flat and I could only see one of the smaller white chicks (top of pic) walking in circles. Big piles of light feathers lay all around (with the quills pulled out by the roots) The smallest hen house was empty so I quickly checked the A frame ark where I found a rather shocked Rogo and the amber hen,Nonnie hiding there, Linda,Bunny and Susan were missing as were the three other small chicks (above).
Thank god, Ewan had spotted the attack ,even though he is not in the best of health, his prompt actions had probably saved many more of the hens and ducks. 
I searched the field and found Bunny (a small black hooker chick) lying in a dust bath in the big enclosure. She was shocked and had been bitten but was alive, I placed her into her coop in the dark (hens can die very easily of shock and need quiet and warmth to recover) and after giving her some antibiotics and water went to search for the others.
After an age the smallest black chick (above) looking battered and worse for wear tip toed out of the long grass by the hedge and strangely allowed me to pick her up to rest in her own coop. The final "mottled" chick I found frozen and also injured up in the churchyard, but she certainly looked a little more alert than the others, and it took an age to catch her.There was something quite valiant, in the fact that all the smaller chicks somehow survived
There was no sign of Linda and Susan, and I suspect that the feathers I found was from one of them, but who knows?, I have been looking for them for most of the day.
The owner of the riding school was incredibly apologetic and agreed to pay for the damage that had been done, I just wish that she had properly invested in fixing her boundary fences, You may remember that I had already complained about the dog a couple of months ago

A Little Miracle

I was not going to blog again today. I have had to get on with harvesting beetroot and swede and the runner ducklings needed their new house to be cleaned and disinfected before they are due to be transferred outside next week, but I just had to share one of the Sweetest little victories I  have been a part of in many a month!

Last night I switched off the incubator after "bobbing" the final few quail eggs. Non were "pipping" and none bobbed when immersed in warm water, so convinced the remaining couple of eggs were duds I shut everything down.

Today at midday, I remembered that I had left the last eggs in the incubator, so I removed them,(throwing them in the rubbish bag) and disinfected the dirty incubator out. As I was drying the equipment I noticed Albert digging through the rubbish bag and  suddenly he stopped dead when the faintest of "peeps" sounded beneath a load of potato peelings and banana skins.

I dug through the crap and pulled out an egg with the smallest of cracks in it. A tiny beak was pushed through the gap and as I looked carefully at it, it gave the smallest of shudders. The egg was literally stone cold, so I cupped it in my hands and blew on it gently. The chick moved slowly and gave another weak peep, so I kept breathing on it willing the little scrap to survive.
The eggs had been cold over 16 hours, so it is unbelievable that the chick had found the reserves to hatch but hatch it did and half an hour later it kicked free of its shell, still hidden away in the palm of my hand.
I transferred the baby to the hastily re assembled incubator (you try setting one up with one hand!) and here he is 2 hours later!

What with everything going on in our lives......(Chris has a multi million pound research bid to complete! and the bloody coalition Government is still bleating on about the unemployed and benefit cutting) the saga of a tiny chick no bigger than my thumb is hardly of any importance.........but to be honest, as the tiny quail valiantly raised his head as I lifted the incubator lid, I literally could have wept.

I’ve named him Red

Grown Red

Baby Red

The Great Escape 

We have this 1930's postcard stuck on the fridge! and boy did I wish that the pig enclosure followed these four simple rules!
Last night, just before I was to drive to Llandudno to meet up with Chris, I raced around the field locking up the turkeys, ducks and chicks. Hazel had agreed to come round later to lock the hens up, so after a bit of racing around , I was good to go!
Or so I thought! 
Just as I was walking back up to gate, I heard a burst of hen clucking from behind me and Gladys and Nora pushed themselves through a hole in their fencing and shot past grunting and squealing! Nora dropped kicked the hen fencing and trotted over to the hen feeder to bolt down huge mouthfulls of layers pellets while Gladys, excited at her new found freedom, galloped back and forth in piggy hysteria.
Now, for those who don't know, pigs are notoriously difficult to round up; they need to be "guided" and coxed rather than herded and prodded back into their quarters, so after 20 sweaty minutes, I was no nearer returning them to their home. 
It was time for more drastic action when I spied two passersby walking their dog in the lane and called to them to help me. To be fair both of them (two ladies in their late sixties), gamely agreed to lend a hand, and I asked the less robust woman to guard one path next to the allotments, to prevent the pigs from running in circles.
She looked a little nervous, so I "armed" her with a lid from the compost bins.
"What do I do if the pigs come my way?" she worriedly asked
"Look fierce!" I replied!
I gave the other lady (who I found out later was called Anne) a dustbin lid and we slowly cornered both pigs in my lowest vegetable patches, where they had chomped their way through some baby sweetcorn and parsnip tops.
After a bit of hard work and a bit of shouting,and dustbin lid pushing, we managed to get Gladys back into her pen and after waving a bowl of pasta at Nora (I had cooked some for Susan who is still not too well), we managed to get her in too, but the whole exhausting, messy experience had lasted 45 minutes!. The ladies looked a little fraught but somewhat exhilarated and after thanking them and fixing the fence I managed to drive to meet up with Chris and we had a nice meal out!
Poor Hazel!,
My rudimentary repairs to the fence failed soon after I left and Hazel (who is the size of Audrey Hepburn) was left with two escapee pigs when she called in to lock the hens up an hour later!
Bless her! without help, she gamely tried to get the girls back, and an hour later she was still battling away.....
This morning, all I have been doing is patching up the fence holes!
Animals are therapeutic? pah!!!!
Hazel and I are off to the cinema later.....my treat me thinks

Pigless

Walking through the village with the dogs a few minutes ago, I spied affable despot Jason ambling down Chapel Street with his daughter on his shoulders.

"Have they gone?!" he called over and when I shouted out that they had, he added with a chuckle

"Bet you feel like that chap out of Schindler's List"

Sweet natured number 12 and the killer-on-trotters number 21 left the 8field peacefully this morning. The Red Faced Welsh Farmer and his ever cheerful son Ed turned up exactly on time as did my farmer friends Eirlys and John, who had kindly agreed to give us a hand and after a quick chin wag and "plan of attack", we set up  a whole line of hurdles leading a path up to the waiting loose box by the gate.

No 22 as a baby

I filled a bucket with corn, opened the enclosure gate and called the pigs out. Number 21 followed me immediately, with number 12 tottering up rather shyly behind, and within five minutes we had just about loaded 12 into the trailer where he peacefully scooped up big mouthfuls of corn with relish. The more sly number 21 played up just a little and tiptoed gaily around the field for a few minuteds, presumably searching for a spare hen to kill, followed by all of my helpers with their pig boards at the ready.

Neither pig was stressed, that's all I was truly bothered about, and when we eventually loaded 21, they both looked as though a trip in a trailer was the most natural thing in the world for both of them to be doing on a cold Tuesday morning.

Their calmness made me feel so much better, I just couldn't bare seeing them anxious and frightened.

It was the same story when we arrived at the butcher's abattoir, where a huge South African Butcher, gently encouraged them both into their holding pen. "He's a big friendly bastard" he commented when number 12 ambled forward to sniff at some tiny looking porkers in the next stall, and a second later I was off to complete the paperwork . It was as quick and as simple as that.. no time for "goodbyes....no time for second thoughts!

I was glad I was with the RFWF He would have stamped on any indulgent emotional romp if  I dared to perform one.Things had to be matter of fact...that is the rule with farm animals.

"You are now a real farmer!" the RFWF said  as we drove off......."welcome to the club "

Balance

  

The cottage is cold. Night shifts mean a day in bed and lighting the fire is a luxury rather than a necessity.

It’s five pm, and the winter dark has descended 

It’s cold. 

It’s my last night tonight which I’m grateful for. 

Then a weeks holiday, which I’m also grateful for

I’ve scheduled in operation dogsnot removal and the week so far looks dry.

Using my Christmas vouchers I’ve booked tickets to see The Kite Runner and renewed my membership to the Storyhouse and in ten days I’m London bound to take Nu to see Backstairs Billy for her Christmas Pressie. I suspect the comedy will be gentle and nothing more, but I’m looking forward in seeing national treasure Penelope Wilton and Luke Evans in the flesh so to speak.

Nu’s between houses, so I’ve booked a hotel near Covent Garden for a snip, which I’m glad about.

On the home front, I’ve informed some of the TCA of my intention to resign at the next trustee meeting. It’s not a decision I’m doing lightly, but comes on the back of some complaints we’ve had about the sponsorship of the Hall windows, which state they’ve been waiting too long for results to appear. 

Bureaucracy and listed buildings is a nightmare journey to navigate, and work and college can’t get in the way of that. College come first, and work second.

So something has to give.

I will tell the committee that I will continue as a general volunteer and will continue to run the Flower Show.

I feel better that the decision has been made.

And so dear reader, I share my merge news with you over a cold kitchen table.

The room is scented with thyme as hand tied bunches, lie in small heaps with the veg

I need to have a hot shower before work and a strong coffee

Night times in hospices can be conspiratorial places

With honesties shared in the confessional dark.

Order

 

2 nights then holiday. 

I’m not doing anything on my holiday but getting things in order

All those jobs that need doing

Discipline is the word du jour in 2024

From last will and testament, college, health, the works  

Everything gets ticked off 

Sex Over Sixty

Hummm a knotty subject for sure.

Either bloggers don’t do it , or they don’t want to talk about it.

Me thinks it’s the latter

With provisions lol.

I’m not Julie Andrews.

I never said I was, so the subject of sex, remains on the table , here on Going Gently. It’s the opportunity which is somewhat lacking.

I have a friend called Dan. I met him when I sizing up aubergines in Sainsbury’s a few years ago. ( I know it’s stereotypical but aubergines do make incredibly realistic penguins for a novelty vegetable class in a flower show), well I’d met him a while before when I was a nurse on ITU and he was a student.

We’d fancied each other for years but only got together occasionally after I was single. 

A lot older now, but still a spring chicken,  he’s moved away, but when back in the area he looks me up for a “reunion” of sorts. 

I call him Helen Keller in my head, and when talking of him to friends.

For he’s not a strong conversationalist .

There is nothing more flattering than someone who finds you physically attractive who is a dish themselves .And he’s a dish …..

Hey ho

Today I’m paying the price 

Sex over sixty ! Pah! You can keep it

I have a pulled at least one muscle in my back and can’t cough without pain 

I feel as though I’ve. just been hit by a bus

Bloody hell

Rain

 Sometimes you just have to push through the miserable weather and claim the day as your own.

I’d arranged to meet a friend in Chester but I cancelled because I was skint, but found myself meeting another more local friend for a short walk and take out coffee

Soaked, but invigorated, getting wet during a winter shower has done me good

Fancy A Chat?

 Sometimes I wish we had a dishier king. 

Even when he was a young man, Kind Charles was never a looker, so to speak. 

I think even his mother would contest to that.

Now the new King Frederick in Denmark is a real corker!, beaten only to the top spot of hottest Royal totty by King Filipe of Spain, who I would drop my drawers for, before you could say Patatas bravas.

I’ve always liked Queen Margrethe Of Denmark too

She looks a feisty, pragmatic and entertaining old lady who probably doesn’t suffer fools gladly

Her abdication was, rather moving 

Anyhow , last night I had a lovely meal at my sister’s house, and was home at 11.30 before the “ bongs” 

Despite a late invite from Affable Despot Jason to the big hoolie at the Hall. I thought it best to go home and chill. Something I am doing today.

I have a friend who is a bit low at the moment 

So I have loosely invited them to dinner this afternoon 

I am making a chicken roast dinner with all of the trimmings 

The leftovers I can play around with over the next few days if needed.

I’m starting the Year as I mean to go on

Optimistically 

Underpants : a metaphor for 2023

2023 has passed rather quietly 

In the list of special or even notable years , it has pretty much limped by, largely unnoticed by most of us.

Unseen, rather like the pair of underpants that straddle one of the beams above the kitchen patio

The ones with the holes I flung out of the bathroom window in the autumn.

Damp and somewhat unnoticed

The underpants and the year.

Now don’t get me wrong , there have been the highlights

The Sagrade Familia, the only building to have ever made me cry in public.

The Grande Canal in Venice,the biggest film set in the world.

Don Quixote at the Royal Opera House 

Falling in love with Sheffield all over again with “ Standing at the Sky’s Edge” 

The joyful ABBA Voyage, Les Misterables, Miss Saigon and La Traviata 

The reopening of the National Portrait Gallery,

Pedro Peascal, The Last of Us 

The proud return of the Trelawnyd Flower Show

Perhaps there was more to 2023 that met the eye!

The Stirling work by the TCA in saving the village hall for another couple of years, 

Auntie Glad’s death

Albert’s too

And being the oldest on my University course which now dominates every Tuesday with its hard work and challenging ways.

And here is 2024, just ahead

And I won’t lie, it daunts me a little.

I will still book things ahead of time

Things to look forward to…it’s my way

Indeed in two weeks it’s Backstairs Billy at The Duke Of York’s with Nu

What fun! 

But the loneliness remains a little hard to take especially on winter days like these

Where the wind gives you a shiver only a hug can remove 

Affable Despot Jason , has just knocked on the lane window

It’s almost dark , but you can still see his wide grin in the gloom

He invited me up to the Hall Party later tonight

Happy New Year xx

 

Lyndy

I didn't know her very well.

Hardly at all in fact.

I knew her name and that she was a tenor in our choir

and I knew she laughed long and often at things I too found funny.

I didn't know anything else about her

was she married? did she have children? I wasn't sure

she had a dog called Charlie that much I did know.

a hairy long legged thing that moved slowly

and in lockdown I saw only her on camera during our zoom sings.

Her living room looked cosy

but I knew nothing of her job, her friends and her life.

Choir is like that

you turn up and generally you JUST sing.

Lyndy died a few days ago "after a short illness"

Her son posted the news on her facebook page.

and I will miss her, even though I did not know her.

During Lockdown when Charlie lugubriously appeared on screen. 

I would call out like some demonic Victoria Wood fan "I can see your Charlie "

and she would crack a crooked smile of recognition at the double entendre 

a silly joke at a very bad time

and I will always be grateful for her ability to play along with it

Shiny Things

 

I’m on night shift tonight, so on a whim, I indulged myself in one of those jobs, that’s not very important but which takes up a bit of spare time. I searched the cottage for Christmas Tree decorations.

Since my husband left, I have never bought a Christmas Tree. 

Some of me felt as though it was an indulgence, 

Most of me didn’t want to revisit a happy time

But I remember when I was packing all of his possessions, ready for collection,

I took care to place in sturdy box, his collection of tree decorations, we had bought from places such as Sydney, London and from the Queen of Christmas decoration sellers , New York City.

I never thought I’d have another collection, which have gathered a little dust over the past five years, but I have.

Gifts from bloggers, friends, but mostly from my sister, who has carefully added a bauble here and a fluffy dog there to the name tag of a parcel.

Thirty Eight all told. Some hidden inside tea caddies, put away in obscure corners of the little writing desk in the lounge and in drawers, in boxes throughout the cottage.

Forgotten about until now.

So the useless job of the day was to dust them off and place them all together, like the sweet ending of Pixar’s Toy Story where Andy’s toys are all reunited.

Next year, I have decided, I will have a tree

One Life

I went to see the story of the “ British Schindler” this morning. 

It’s a story many British people know from the 1980s That’s Life programme, where unknown to Nicolas Winton , the grown up children he helped to save from the war ravaged Czech lands during the war, surrounded him as he sat in the audience, and with quiet nobility made themselves known to him by standing quietly. 

It was a moment , in a usually tacky tv programme that lingers long in the minds by whoever saw it, for it was strong, moving and immensely  dignified .

In the end of One Life , this scene is reenacted as the story is told of Winton and his wartime efforts to secure the release of over 660 Jewish children by beavering behind the lines in London, securing visas, sorting out foster parents and raising money alongside his forthright, powerhouse mother Babette ) Helen Bonhem Carter in fine form) 

We see the idealistic and self effacing Winton ( Johnny Flynn) grappling with the numbers of children he had to leave behind and despite  the wise pragmatism shown by his mother, this anxiety and grief never left the older Winton (downplayed nicely by Anthony Hopkins) and only in his 80s , after meeting the first of “ his children” on That’s Life does the old man let his guard down and in one tear jerking scene sobs uncontrollably for the children he couldn’t save.

It’s a gentle film and highlights beautifully the work ordinary heroes did during wartime.

The real Winton on That’s Life

Following the film, I went to the new Asian supermarket in Chester Market to buy pancakes for Chrispy duck, gochujang paste and ramen noodles as well as some tikka pies from the deli next door

Hey ho

Bored

 All or nothing. 

I’m a bit bored today 

Typical. 

I took the dogs to the beach and uncharacteristically Dorothy waded up to her nipples in the surf before running for home with her eyes like saucers 

I bought halloumi fries from Aldi for tea with homemade curried soup

They always remind me of the Balcony Bar ar the Sydney Opera House

It’s wet and there’s nothing on in the cinema that I want to see

I’ve only spoken to a nice looking man on the beach who asked me how Dorothy’s puppies were getting on.

Kindness

 

It’s been a restful day

I feel whole again after hospice shifts which have proven challenging in ways you never expect .

Because of my experience and gender, I often work with the more challenging patients at work, yet I have the same mental mechanisms and reserves  as everyone else, so downtime today has been therapeutic and necessary 

My sister plated a lovely dinner for me today followed by a fuck off sherry trifle to die for. 

Kay, from work, got her chef husband to plate me up a wonderful dinner too as did a friend from the village who left me a selection of Tupperwared goodies worthy of a Queen’s Ransom, left on the ubiquitous kitchen wall. 

I’m watching the Kylie concert from The Albert Hall which is nose to nipple with gay men and I will be going to bed soon ….

The dogs are crammed in close 

But I concede that the cottage needs a cat again ….

A friend’s Queen mother has given birth late in the season and will be looking for homes in the new year

Boxing

 I was too tired to go to my sister’s house last night, and mooched on the couch.

Dorothy was indignant at Mary’s entrance and sniffed around her with the expression 

“ Where the fuck have YOU been!!!” 

We shared a bowl of pigs in blankets and watched old reruns of The Great British Bake off when Mary Berry had longer hair and Hollywood looked like a car salesman .

Today! After a glorious lie in, I drove down to my sister’s but missed my nephew and family by minutes. I bought them theatre tickets to a Liverpool theatrical comedy “all the family would enjoy” ( which means I’d hate it) 

My sisters did me proud with some lovely gifts , which I opened when I got home. ( a treat as I get bizarrely embarrassed when opening gifts in public) 

The gifts included vouchers for the Storyhouse and a dvd of Giselle which tickled me pink!!!

Lovely 

So I’m back home and it’s Boxing Day 

And I’m fine xxxx

Mary

 

16.40 Christmas Day 

Nothing sweeter than watching Mary happily tottering along the corridors of the hospice from my vantage point of the central office,

Exploring open doors, following a support worker, quietly saying hello to a patient

Running back to the office with a mini sausage roll in her mouth

She’s a sweet natured old gal who suddenly seemed to have the energy of the time she was a puppy 

Thank you for your Christmas Wishes

Christmas Day

 

It’s Christmas Day and it is as dark as night. Roger and Dorothy are with me down the lane. Mary  is sat in Bluebell, ears pricked. She is coming to work with me today .

Bitches fall out sometimes and never forget a spat, and poor Iwan ( Trendy Carol’s Husband ) found himself in the middle of a noisy bitch fight yesterday, which was unfortunate . 

To help with frayed nerves, my old girl will be coming to work with me , and will be spending time sleeping in Bluebell and being walked and loved and cooed over by a plethora of Hospice staff, patients and visitors. 

Dorothy is too excitable in the car and will bark incessantly during the 3/4 of an hour journey , not something I can cope with on Christmas Morning , so Mary it is.

But at the moment it’s just me, Roger and Dotty

And the dark lane , in uncharacteristic warm weather.

A barn owl , huge and almost silent swoops over our heads but is missed by the dogs in their sniffing, I watch it in awe….

I’m tired and have not slept well

2023 is coming towards its end and  I’m going to think about that over coffee before I leave

I want 2024 to be a happier year, but I’m dammed to know just how I make that happen 

I was four cards short in the living room Christmas card Garland  😰🎅🏼🌲🌈🎄🥃🎊🍷🍹

Hey ho 

Happy Christmas xx

80%

6 am Christmas Eve……..bucket of coffee between cold hands.

Last night I watched a schmaltzy Swedish movie, until late

The Christmas Cards reached 80 % the. Circumference of the living room

Almost there. I will wait until tomorrow to see if my old tradition finally materialises

A minor obsession admittedly, but suddenly ,and strangely an important one this morning

As I leave the cottage ,I spy a small chocolate Santa , standing on the Kitchen wall

He’s sheltering under a bit of bent cardboard

Mrs Trellis has been at work

José Feliciano - Feliz Navidad

The sound worm in my head today. One of the doctors at work has been singing it incessantly, I’m sending a bit of silliness to reader Virginia who perhaps needs the diversion today🎄

Chic Eleanor texted me yesterday afternoon and like a teenager would suggest thumbed an exciting

“Meet you in The Crown in ten minutes” text!

Luckily I was holding my phone when she messaged

We arrived together

It was lovely, 

“I do look a sight darling I’m in my scruffs” she shared breathlessly 

I thought she looked magnificent, 

Even her pashmina looked Christmassy 

We stopped at the pub for a good hour and half before leaving for home 

Hug fest in the car park before we parted.

She made my day, as she so often does.

So today….

The final village cards will be delivered . A book to Mrs Trellis, cards to the Manley’s and to others.

Jackson Nurseries which lie just outside village delivered a pot of spring bulbs to every house in the village, a tradition which is a sweet one.

Before she skipped off home, Eleanor gave me a tiny gift in the shape of a felt heart

“It’s for your first Christmas Tree next year” she cooed

“Now you have enough decorations, no there’s no excuse” 

I thought about the beautiful iridescent glass bauble, the magnificent rubber chicken and now the heart, and a score of others put away in drawers and boxes and in the tea caddy on my desk

And She was right 

Grades

 

No work today!!!!!

I want to go to the cinema but there’s nothing of note to go and see during the day.

I will mooch through NETFLIX later, me thinks

My phone was pinging busily earlier, 

My college Counselling group.

The grades are out on our first research pieces of work 

B- for my Essay and B- for my poster and presentation

Marks I’m very happy with and lots of room for improvement which I need.

Lots of deliveries today

A book from Nu, Bespoke scotch eggs from Colin, Bombay gin from Trendy Carol ( sporting something festive in red and white) 

Sing For Water

It’s been a particularly hard shift at work.

I didn’t get back home until well after nine pm.

And so, after feeding and walking the dogs, I lit the fire 

Threw off my crocs and drank a huge Bombay Sapphire and tonic ( with cucumber slice!!!!) before sitting down to a plethora of messages asking where I was!!

Tonight is the TCA matriarch Lorraine’s Christmas Party in the big house on the other side of the village

I’m too knackered to go out and now it’s far too late to do so

Buts it’s lovely to be remembered and to be worried about 

“ You give us a safe space to feel what we feel,

Allowing us to mourn, but mainly, to heal.”

 

This line from Hattie’s poem has a resonance with me as this following post from the winter 2018 outlines

It was the most lonely and saddest part of my entire life

Ise Oluwa

I often write about those beautiful little moments in life that catch you unawares.

I guess it's the drama queen in me 

My recent encounter with a kindness inside St. Asaph Cathedral was one I shall remember for quite some time but tonight's experience will rank a close second in that memory bank of moving moments.

In choir tonight we learned the Nigerian song Ise Oluwa -sing for water

And after a bit of a struggle we nailed it!!!!

Before we finished practice Jamie our eleven year old choir master asked us to sing it again, but this time very Gently and as we did he disappeared and turned off the lights of the little Welsh village hall.

In almost absolute darkness over fifty people sang without the chains of sight and competition and self consciousness and the noise we produced was simply magical.

And the silence after we had finished proved that we all had been moved in the same lovely way, almost everyone was crying

This choir has nourished me 

And has healed me 

 

Rain check

 

Chic Eleanor , stood me up yesterday 

Well technically she did send me an apology by text but as I’d left my phone in Bluebell and forgot where I’d put it, things got all a bit complicated.

Suffice to say I had a KFC supper in a car park , lol

I had wondered if she’d bail, as when I went out with my family on Tuesday night she was there with the girls, and by the look of said girls who had all flopped in front of the restaurant open fire  , lots and lots  of Christmas Prosecco had been quaffed 

“ Darling John”  Eleanor called out flapping her pashmina over her shoulder and she hurried over to give me a big beautifully coiffured hug, much to the surprise of my family who had never seen me , deep in the clutches of such a stylish matron before.

Her resulting hangover had lasted over 24 hours

So I stayed in and cried at The Repair Shop and felt sorry for myself 

Off to work today, bucket of coffee and barabrith at the kitchen table 

This poem was written by Hattie 

It is about choirmaster Jamie ( and his 1940 RAF moustache) 

It describes so well why I love choir and I’m so looking forward in returning in the new year

Jamie

Dashing moustache, a rainbow flash,

Flamingo stance - what a catch!

Spiralling here and there, flailing his arms,

Always a grin - it's part of his charms

He somehow herds us, there's never any fuss,

only grace and fun and the occasional SHUSHH!

Māori, Welsh, Ukrainian, Russian,

What's coming next? Oh yes - a concussion!

On rare occasions he grants our wish,

What a treat! we say, to sing in English

He works us so hard: Stand up! Sit down!   

It's just like a workout! (it makes the men frown)

What fun we have all because of you,

Your dance moves and songs have us boogying too.

Altos, tenors, basses and sops,

We all think you're splendid, Yep, you're the tops!

A nod to absent friends in a moment of clarity,

They will always be part of our choir family.

You give us a safe space to feel what we feel,

Allowing us to mourn, but mainly, to heal.

We take within us this place you have built,

It’s a home you've created, One that will never wilt.

So here's to you our one and only chappy,

JAMIE, simply put - You make us HAPPY!

Hattie, with love, 2023©