Underpants : a metaphor for 2023


2023 has passed rather quietly 

In the list of special or even notable years , it has pretty much limped by, largely unnoticed by most of us.
Unseen, rather like the pair of underpants that straddle one of the beams above the kitchen patio
The ones with the holes I flung out of the bathroom window in the autumn.
Damp and somewhat unnoticed
The underpants and the year.

Now don’t get me wrong , there have been the highlights
The Sagrade Familia, the only building to have ever made me cry in public.
The Grande Canal in Venice,the biggest film set in the world.
Don Quixote at the Royal Opera House 
Falling in love with Sheffield all over again with “ Standing at the Sky’s Edge” 

The joyful ABBA Voyage, Les Misterables, Miss Saigon and La Traviata 
The reopening of the National Portrait Gallery,
Pedro Peascal, The Last of Us 
The proud return of the Trelawnyd Flower Show

Perhaps there was more to 2023 that met the eye!
The Stirling work by the TCA in saving the village hall for another couple of years, 
Auntie Glad’s death
Albert’s too
And being the oldest on my University course which now dominates every Tuesday with its hard work and challenging ways.

And here is 2024, just ahead
And I won’t lie, it daunts me a little.
I will still book things ahead of time
Things to look forward to…it’s my way
Indeed in two weeks it’s Backstairs Billy at The Duke Of York’s with Nu
What fun! 
But the loneliness remains a little hard to take especially on winter days like these

Where the wind gives you a shiver only a hug can remove 


Affable Despot Jason , has just knocked on the lane window
It’s almost dark , but you can still see his wide grin in the gloom
He invited me up to the Hall Party later tonight

Happy New Year xx

 

129 comments:

  1. Thank goodness for your furry friends. There's a gap where Albert should be sitting but the little gang is still together, even if they don't leave room on the chair for Dad to join them. Go into 2024 hopeful and it will reward you with everything that you deserve ... and you deserve a lot you crazy maudlin old man. Happy New Year from me and Alan. xx

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    1. My dear Sue, thank you for all of your support three mins to go

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  2. A very nice family portrait!
    All ya need is love...love is all ya need!
    Now A love is on the list.

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  3. I hope that 2024 is a happy New Year for you.

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  4. You want to get yourself one of those. giant furry on the inside hoodies John - they hug you loverly x 🐻

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  5. Jan from Perth3:04 pm

    Happy New Year, John, and greetings from Downunder! Jan & Dean from Perth.

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  6. Your wrap up of 2023 sounds pretty good, John! Not a bad year at all! Wishing you a New Year filled with good health, fun adventures, and lots of love!

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  7. Anonymous3:05 pm

    Do you mean 2023 has passed?

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  8. We all tend to focus on the bad and forget the good. Perhaps you need a Thankfulness journal. Every day you write down 3 things you're thankful for, even if it's just a raindrop glistening on a cobweb. Something to read when the going gets tough. Wish I could remember to write one! Wishing everyone the best for 2024. Thanks, John for sharing the good, bad, ugly and indifference of 2023 with us. xx

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    1. I thought I was focusing on the good x lol

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    2. Yes, but your final couple of sentences have a hint of sadness about them. xx

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    3. Anonymous4:50 pm

      I thought those two sentences where sad, honest and beautifully written

      Keith

      Xx

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  9. Here's to 2024 John, may it bring us peace. Thank you for sharing your wonderful blog.
    Hugs,
    ~Jo

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    1. Yes, I won’t touch on the news , but I hope that peace is the most achievable news

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  10. Happy new year to you and good luck with the uni stuff.

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  11. Wishing you ALL the best, JayGee - with good health, absolutely OODLES of it - for you and the 'kids', and to all your notable and loved friends and acquaintances. Looking forward to 'seeing' you here in this spot next year.

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    1. Thank you Raymondo
      Same to you my friendo

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  12. Anonymous4:03 pm

    Without that special someone, life is tough. I understand, but keep doing the things that bring you joy. Your good moments were great! I wish for you a very happy 2024 John. Gigi

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  13. Anonymous4:06 pm

    That last sentence resonates so loudly with me….. maybe 2024 will be kinder to us lonely souls xx

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    1. Anonymous4:06 pm

      Libs x

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    2. We will share a large gin bottle soon x

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  14. Anonymous4:11 pm

    I've been feeling a bit gloomy about '23 (health issues, yada yada) and need to make a list of the high spots like yours! May all have happy and healthy '24s.

    The dog picture is very Rembrandt, eh?

    Ceci

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    1. Funny I thought that too x

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    2. That's what I came down to comment: it does look like a painting! You should frame this like the fine work of art it is. 2023 has been a rough year for the world. May 2024 be easier for everyone. I doubt it will be, but I cannot help hoping.

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    3. They seem all the same colour x

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  15. Maybe there's a business opportunity here for somebody - "Rent-A-Hug" in which professional huggers arrive on mopeds like Deliveroo drivers to provide warm hugs. There would of course be an online menu to choose from with add-ons as required.

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  16. Colour coordinated dogs - my favourite. May 2024 be as kind to you as you are to others.

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  17. weaver4:32 pm

    What the dog pic emphasises loud and clear to me is that dogs are happier when heaped up in a bunch rather than stretched out on their own in front of the fire. How they must love one another (and you too - I am sure they consider you 'pack leader'! Happy 2024 xx

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  18. happy New Year John.

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  19. Yours is the only blog that I have read every day of this soon to be done year. It's always interesting. Thanks for writing it. It is hard for me to think that 2024 will be a good one for the world, but I can hope. Our first grandchild is due to enter the world very soon, which makes me wonder about the place humanity has prepared for him (yes, he's already been identified as a him, thanks to the wonders of ultrasound scanning). Good wishes, Andrew.

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  20. Wonderful experiences and accomplishments don't mitigate loneliness and depression, as you point out. May the new year bring you health and joy.

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    1. Are your underpants still hanging up there in the garden?

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    2. They are still on the wood frame, another job for my decliuttering week off

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  21. I'm glad you've got a party to attend. Hugs will be in order! You've had a busy year (despite your assertion that it passed "rather quietly") and I think you should be particularly proud with the return of the flower show. As Joni Mitchell wrote, "Something's lost but something's gained in living every day." Happy New Year!

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  22. Wishing you all the best for a happy and healthy 2024. It is exciting to think and dream about all the new adventures to come. Hold that thought.

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  23. What a precious way to end the year then with a picture of the dog brigade.

    I hope you for a Happy Shinning New Year dear man.

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      Thank you deArheart

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  24. Anonymous5:17 pm

    Happy New Year to you and the furrballs. Jen

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  25. A Hall party!! Say happy new year to the Manleys for me, if they are there...and a happy New year to you and the dogs.
    2023 has certainly been pants in parts.. here's hoping for better!!

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  26. Wishing you peace, laughter, wonder-filled adventures, good health, and love in 2024!

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  27. Shelly Williams5:31 pm

    Happy New Year , John . I read your blog everyday and I wish you happiness and peace in 2024 xx

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  28. That all sounds like a pretty full year, at least compared to mine. Happy New Year John.

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  29. Have a great time at the hall tonight. I love the familly portrait.

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    1. I’ve decided not to go , and I’m ok with that xx

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  30. Happy New Year John. Here's to a happy and healthy 2024 x

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  31. Love that photo of your sleepy dogs! Your 2023 sounds just fine to me, with many friends and fun activities! Enjoy the New Year's Eve party at the Hall!

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    1. I’m back at home now after a meal with family
      Onwards and upwards x

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  32. Poetry-prose. Beautiful, John. Hoping the best (and many hugs) for you in the coming year.

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  33. Anonymous7:04 pm

    Wishing you a happy, healthy new year, John. Irene in Arizona

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  34. Anonymous7:40 pm

    Happy 2024! Jackie

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  35. Happy and Healthy New Year!

    May we all have happiness in our lives.

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  36. Wishing all good things in 2024 to your readers and you. Always love seeing the "pooches." They make a house a home. Hugs to you John from the base of the mini-mountain in Maine.

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    1. Happy new year xx and thank you for following

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  37. Anonymous9:13 pm

    Just Happy New Year to you John, you have looked back with mixed emotions on 2023 so allow yourself to wander into 2024 and embrace all it has to offer 🙏. Love from Jan in Castle Gresley x

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  38. Anonymous9:50 pm

    Happy New Year John... that picture of your dogs looks splendidly like a painting. I agree you should frame it. I hope 2024 brings you luck, love, better health and truckloads of happiness. I read your blog everyday; don't always comment as I sometimes read it on the run for inspiration..but I look forward to what you write.
    Hope you enjoyed the Hall party with a gin or three!

    Jo in Auckland

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  39. Happy New Year to you John. 2024 has to be better, I hope!

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    1. It’s not been bad to be honest much love

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  40. Anonymous10:03 pm

    A very Happy New Year to you John!
    MarisAna

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  41. Anonymous10:12 pm

    Happy New Year John, I have followed and enjoyed your blog for some time and have only commented once. You seem to be a very kind soul with a good heart, clearly loved by your friends and neighbours. I Hope you have many adventures in 2024 and have a happy and healthy time. Lesley

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  42. You pack a lot of living in, John! I hope you enjoy every minute and my best wishes to you for 2024

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  43. Happy New Year and thanks for sharing yourself with us xxx

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  44. Anonymous10:55 pm

    Happy New Year from Ely from long term lurker. Claggle x

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  45. Happy New Year to you too John, may it be one where you regain inner peace and love and maybe have feline companionship come your way too. There is nothing more loving than a kitten or kittens (apart from a pup that is). Blessings Pattypanx

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  46. Happy New Year to all of my followers
    You keep me going
    You really do

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  47. Happy new year, John, from this long time reader and seldom commenter.

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    1. You’ve been with me the longest I think Joanne

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  48. Good wishes for 2024

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  49. Happy New Year (albeit belated) John, best wishes for 2024.

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  50. Anonymous1:15 am

    I hope you went to the party. Thank you for your posts, always worth reading and I get such a community feeling from them. Have a good 2024

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  51. Anonymous1:17 am

    Thank you John for sharing all that you do on your blog , and for your ongoing work at the hospice
    My first Christmas and New Year without my darling husband Tony - I have hated every second
    Siobhan x

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  52. Happy new year John x

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  53. I do wish you a Happy New Year. I was warmed to see over a hundred comments proceed mine. You are a fortunate man.

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  54. Anonymous1:56 am

    I had to return to save a sentence in your post that has been on my mind. It is just lovely: “ When the wind gives you a shiver only a hug can remove”. Jackie

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    1. It resonated with me today Jackie because of its truth

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  55. If my wishes came true this coming year would be among your happiest ones,Mary

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  56. Dear John, yes, there's a level of loneliness, and loss - but there's also so much that you've shared - new academic challenges, some wonderful trips, friendships, cinema and live shows, your choir, the resurrection of the Flower show; so your life has been rich. May this coming year bring new successes, new endeavours, new surprises. Hugs, and "Bring On 2024" were ready for you!

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  57. Happy New Year, many hugs in 2024.

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  58. Happy New Year John. Wishing you all the very best for 2024. X

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  59. You're lucky John, you have Trelawnyd. From what little I know, it sounds perfect for you; and you are perfect for them.

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  60. Happy New Year's, John.

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  61. Happy New Year. Health + Happiness.

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  62. Anonymous7:59 am

    Happy New Year to you, John. Best wishes Louise X

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  63. Happy New Year John and the dogs! Hope it will be good one.

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  64. Anonymous9:24 am

    John. It’s 1:23am in San Francisco. Happy New Year!

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  65. Happy New Year John xx

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  66. Happy New Year to you and yours John. Lang may yer lumb reek x

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  67. Jackie M12:43 pm

    Thank you for letting everyone into your life.

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  68. Happy New Year John! Wishing you health, happiness and plenty of hugs! x

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