2023 has passed rather quietly
In the list of special or even notable years , it has pretty much limped by, largely unnoticed by most of us.
Unseen, rather like the pair of underpants that straddle one of the beams above the kitchen patio
The ones with the holes I flung out of the bathroom window in the autumn.
Damp and somewhat unnoticed
The underpants and the year.
Now don’t get me wrong , there have been the highlights
The Sagrade Familia, the only building to have ever made me cry in public.
The Grande Canal in Venice,the biggest film set in the world.
Don Quixote at the Royal Opera House
Falling in love with Sheffield all over again with “ Standing at the Sky’s Edge”
The joyful ABBA Voyage, Les Misterables, Miss Saigon and La Traviata
The reopening of the National Portrait Gallery,
Pedro Peascal, The Last of Us
The proud return of the Trelawnyd Flower Show
Perhaps there was more to 2023 that met the eye!
The Stirling work by the TCA in saving the village hall for another couple of years,
Auntie Glad’s death
Albert’s too
And being the oldest on my University course which now dominates every Tuesday with its hard work and challenging ways.
And here is 2024, just ahead
And I won’t lie, it daunts me a little.
I will still book things ahead of time
Things to look forward to…it’s my way
Indeed in two weeks it’s Backstairs Billy at The Duke Of York’s with Nu
What fun!
But the loneliness remains a little hard to take especially on winter days like these
Where the wind gives you a shiver only a hug can remove
Affable Despot Jason , has just knocked on the lane window
It’s almost dark , but you can still see his wide grin in the gloom
He invited me up to the Hall Party later tonight
Thank goodness for your furry friends. There's a gap where Albert should be sitting but the little gang is still together, even if they don't leave room on the chair for Dad to join them. Go into 2024 hopeful and it will reward you with everything that you deserve ... and you deserve a lot you crazy maudlin old man. Happy New Year from me and Alan. xx
ReplyDeleteMy dear Sue, thank you for all of your support three mins to go
DeleteA very nice family portrait!
ReplyDeleteAll ya need is love...love is all ya need!
Now A love is on the list.
Happy new year deArheart x
DeleteI hope that 2024 is a happy New Year for you.
ReplyDeleteDitto jaycee
DeleteYou want to get yourself one of those. giant furry on the inside hoodies John - they hug you loverly x 🐻
ReplyDeleteYou are right flis, I should
DeleteHappy New Year, John, and greetings from Downunder! Jan & Dean from Perth.
ReplyDeleteLove to the both of u
DeleteYour wrap up of 2023 sounds pretty good, John! Not a bad year at all! Wishing you a New Year filled with good health, fun adventures, and lots of love!
ReplyDeleteThank you Ellen
DeleteDo you mean 2023 has passed?
ReplyDeleteIt has almost
DeleteWe all tend to focus on the bad and forget the good. Perhaps you need a Thankfulness journal. Every day you write down 3 things you're thankful for, even if it's just a raindrop glistening on a cobweb. Something to read when the going gets tough. Wish I could remember to write one! Wishing everyone the best for 2024. Thanks, John for sharing the good, bad, ugly and indifference of 2023 with us. xx
ReplyDeleteI thought I was focusing on the good x lol
DeleteYes, but your final couple of sentences have a hint of sadness about them. xx
DeleteNotedxx
DeleteI thought those two sentences where sad, honest and beautifully written
DeleteKeith
Xx
Thank you Keith xx
DeleteHere's to 2024 John, may it bring us peace. Thank you for sharing your wonderful blog.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
~Jo
Yes, I won’t touch on the news , but I hope that peace is the most achievable news
DeleteHappy new year to you and good luck with the uni stuff.
ReplyDeleteWishing you ALL the best, JayGee - with good health, absolutely OODLES of it - for you and the 'kids', and to all your notable and loved friends and acquaintances. Looking forward to 'seeing' you here in this spot next year.
ReplyDeleteThank you Raymondo
DeleteSame to you my friendo
Without that special someone, life is tough. I understand, but keep doing the things that bring you joy. Your good moments were great! I wish for you a very happy 2024 John. Gigi
ReplyDeleteAnd to you Gigi xx
DeleteThat last sentence resonates so loudly with me….. maybe 2024 will be kinder to us lonely souls xx
ReplyDeleteLibs x
DeleteWe will share a large gin bottle soon x
DeleteI've been feeling a bit gloomy about '23 (health issues, yada yada) and need to make a list of the high spots like yours! May all have happy and healthy '24s.
ReplyDeleteThe dog picture is very Rembrandt, eh?
Ceci
Funny I thought that too x
DeleteThat's what I came down to comment: it does look like a painting! You should frame this like the fine work of art it is. 2023 has been a rough year for the world. May 2024 be easier for everyone. I doubt it will be, but I cannot help hoping.
DeleteThey seem all the same colour x
DeleteMaybe there's a business opportunity here for somebody - "Rent-A-Hug" in which professional huggers arrive on mopeds like Deliveroo drivers to provide warm hugs. There would of course be an online menu to choose from with add-ons as required.
ReplyDeleteFour minutes to go dear friend x
DeleteColour coordinated dogs - my favourite. May 2024 be as kind to you as you are to others.
ReplyDeleteThank u 🎄⛄️👏🏻🎊🍗
DeleteWhat the dog pic emphasises loud and clear to me is that dogs are happier when heaped up in a bunch rather than stretched out on their own in front of the fire. How they must love one another (and you too - I am sure they consider you 'pack leader'! Happy 2024 xx
ReplyDeletehappy New Year John.
ReplyDeleteDear Yael ….peace for you in 2024
DeleteYours is the only blog that I have read every day of this soon to be done year. It's always interesting. Thanks for writing it. It is hard for me to think that 2024 will be a good one for the world, but I can hope. Our first grandchild is due to enter the world very soon, which makes me wonder about the place humanity has prepared for him (yes, he's already been identified as a him, thanks to the wonders of ultrasound scanning). Good wishes, Andrew.
ReplyDeleteWonderful experiences and accomplishments don't mitigate loneliness and depression, as you point out. May the new year bring you health and joy.
ReplyDeleteAre your underpants still hanging up there in the garden?
DeleteThey are still on the wood frame, another job for my decliuttering week off
DeleteI'm glad you've got a party to attend. Hugs will be in order! You've had a busy year (despite your assertion that it passed "rather quietly") and I think you should be particularly proud with the return of the flower show. As Joni Mitchell wrote, "Something's lost but something's gained in living every day." Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteSee you in the new year dearheart
DeleteWishing you all the best for a happy and healthy 2024. It is exciting to think and dream about all the new adventures to come. Hold that thought.
ReplyDeleteAnd watch this space
DeleteWhat a precious way to end the year then with a picture of the dog brigade.
ReplyDeleteI hope you for a Happy Shinning New Year dear man.
My best mistress
DeleteThank you deArheart
Happy New Year to you and the furrballs. Jen
ReplyDeleteThank you Jen
DeleteA Hall party!! Say happy new year to the Manleys for me, if they are there...and a happy New year to you and the dogs.
ReplyDelete2023 has certainly been pants in parts.. here's hoping for better!!
Thank you deArheart xx I will
DeleteWishing you peace, laughter, wonder-filled adventures, good health, and love in 2024!
ReplyDeleteBeautifully said x
DeleteHappy New Year , John . I read your blog everyday and I wish you happiness and peace in 2024 xx
ReplyDeleteThank you Shelly xx
DeleteThat all sounds like a pretty full year, at least compared to mine. Happy New Year John.
ReplyDeleteAnd to you deArheart x
DeleteHave a great time at the hall tonight. I love the familly portrait.
ReplyDeleteI’ve decided not to go , and I’m ok with that xx
DeleteHappy New Year John. Here's to a happy and healthy 2024 x
ReplyDeleteHere here
DeleteLove that photo of your sleepy dogs! Your 2023 sounds just fine to me, with many friends and fun activities! Enjoy the New Year's Eve party at the Hall!
ReplyDeleteI’m back at home now after a meal with family
DeleteOnwards and upwards x
Poetry-prose. Beautiful, John. Hoping the best (and many hugs) for you in the coming year.
ReplyDeleteAnd to you my gentle friend
DeleteWishing you a happy, healthy new year, John. Irene in Arizona
ReplyDeleteTo us all 🍾
DeleteHappy 2024! Jackie
ReplyDeleteAmen 🎄🌈🥰⛄️🍾
Deletehappy new year xx
ReplyDeleteDitto
DeleteHappy and Healthy New Year!
ReplyDeleteMay we all have happiness in our lives.
Well said that woman
DeleteWishing all good things in 2024 to your readers and you. Always love seeing the "pooches." They make a house a home. Hugs to you John from the base of the mini-mountain in Maine.
ReplyDeleteHappy new year xx and thank you for following
DeleteJust Happy New Year to you John, you have looked back with mixed emotions on 2023 so allow yourself to wander into 2024 and embrace all it has to offer 🙏. Love from Jan in Castle Gresley x
ReplyDeleteJan ……twelve minutes to go xx
DeleteHappy New Year John... that picture of your dogs looks splendidly like a painting. I agree you should frame it. I hope 2024 brings you luck, love, better health and truckloads of happiness. I read your blog everyday; don't always comment as I sometimes read it on the run for inspiration..but I look forward to what you write.
ReplyDeleteHope you enjoyed the Hall party with a gin or three!
Jo in Auckland
A few minutes away from midnight xx
DeleteHappy New Year to you John. 2024 has to be better, I hope!
ReplyDeleteIt’s not been bad to be honest much love
DeleteA very Happy New Year to you John!
ReplyDeleteMarisAna
We are almost there marisana
DeleteHappy New Year John, I have followed and enjoyed your blog for some time and have only commented once. You seem to be a very kind soul with a good heart, clearly loved by your friends and neighbours. I Hope you have many adventures in 2024 and have a happy and healthy time. Lesley
ReplyDeleteThank you Lesley x
DeleteYou pack a lot of living in, John! I hope you enjoy every minute and my best wishes to you for 2024
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to you kylie x
DeleteHappy New Year and thanks for sharing yourself with us xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you Lisa , we are almost there
DeleteHappy New Year from Ely from long term lurker. Claggle x
ReplyDeleteHappy new year claggle x
DeleteHappy New Year to you too John, may it be one where you regain inner peace and love and maybe have feline companionship come your way too. There is nothing more loving than a kitten or kittens (apart from a pup that is). Blessings Pattypanx
ReplyDeleteJust under the wire deArheart xxx
DeleteHappy New Year to all of my followers
ReplyDeleteYou keep me going
You really do
Just on the dot x
ReplyDeleteHappy new year, John, from this long time reader and seldom commenter.
ReplyDeleteYou’ve been with me the longest I think Joanne
DeleteGood wishes for 2024
ReplyDeleteAnd to u x
DeleteHappy New Year (albeit belated) John, best wishes for 2024.
ReplyDeleteNever late xx cheers jimbo
DeleteI hope you went to the party. Thank you for your posts, always worth reading and I get such a community feeling from them. Have a good 2024
ReplyDeleteI didn’t but that’s ok x
DeleteThank you John for sharing all that you do on your blog , and for your ongoing work at the hospice
ReplyDeleteMy first Christmas and New Year without my darling husband Tony - I have hated every second
Siobhan x
Hugs x
DeleteHappy new year John x
ReplyDelete😮💨🔔🍗🎄🌈😇🍾
DeleteI do wish you a Happy New Year. I was warmed to see over a hundred comments proceed mine. You are a fortunate man.
ReplyDeleteJust reading your blog . Xx
DeleteI had to return to save a sentence in your post that has been on my mind. It is just lovely: “ When the wind gives you a shiver only a hug can remove”. Jackie
ReplyDeleteIt resonated with me today Jackie because of its truth
DeleteIf my wishes came true this coming year would be among your happiest ones,Mary
ReplyDeleteDear John, yes, there's a level of loneliness, and loss - but there's also so much that you've shared - new academic challenges, some wonderful trips, friendships, cinema and live shows, your choir, the resurrection of the Flower show; so your life has been rich. May this coming year bring new successes, new endeavours, new surprises. Hugs, and "Bring On 2024" were ready for you!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year, many hugs in 2024.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year John. Wishing you all the very best for 2024. X
ReplyDeleteYou're lucky John, you have Trelawnyd. From what little I know, it sounds perfect for you; and you are perfect for them.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year's, John.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year. Health + Happiness.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to you, John. Best wishes Louise X
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year John and the dogs! Hope it will be good one.
ReplyDeleteJohn. It’s 1:23am in San Francisco. Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year John xx
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to you and yours John. Lang may yer lumb reek x
ReplyDeleteThank you for letting everyone into your life.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year John! Wishing you health, happiness and plenty of hugs! x
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