Lunch


 “ Darling John , you’re wearing a jacket ! It’s very becoming “
Chic Eleanor has never really seen me looking neat and tidy before and I was glad she was impressed . We drove down the coast to meet Mimi Fernandez our friend and partner of Pask who sadly. couldn’t make lunch this time and it was a lovely to have a civilised and robust Sunday lunch at Conwy’s Erskine Arms

The World Is Your Lobster

 


My trip was lovely, despite the weather and a Big Brother Airbnb host.
Such is life.
I’m home and the weather is glorious. 
Dorothy, as bulldogs have a want to do, is playing I love my home Diva and after a walk has taken herself off to sleep under my duvet with a contented sigh.
Mary is sunbathing on the back of the trendy blue sofa.
I have a day free today. I’m not planning anything more than pottering and cleaning and reading.
Tomorrow I’m having lunch with Chic Eleanor Darling john I simply can’t wait” and Affable Despot Jason and I are going to the comedy club evening at Theatre Clwyd.
Today it’s home.

Mrs Trellis stopped as I was sorting logs out for the fire. She’s written to Putin about the war.
The cost of stamps have gone up , she noted. 95 pence for a first class now
Still good value we agreed.

We were still chatting when the postman dropped off a parcel 
In it was a lobster and a card which read simply “ The World Is Your Lobster” 
Mrs Trellis was intrigued as a while ago she had bought me a smaller one in a jumble sale 
Hilda Ogden used to say “ The world’s your lobster” on Coronation Street 

Which was an endearing malampropism in itself.
There’s no return address or even a name on the card or packaging so I am intrigued too
Thank you to whoever sent it.


I’m making curried vegetable soup 
Albert has been sneezing at the spices 



Salad Day Thirties and an Airbnb Disaster



 Lol, well everything went tits up at the Airbnb 
I thought things may not be as stable as they could be after the owner refused to dog sit Dorothy after finding out out that her “aura”  was apparently “fraught” with anxiety. ( I had provisionally booked the service prior to coming over to Sheffield)
Dorothy was happily oblivious to this assessment but the apparently experienced dog sitter owner 
Said it was something she couldn’t possibly cope with! 
I let it go and rearranged by arrangements and those of my friends.
This morning I walked into the cottage kitchen wearing only boxer shorts only to see the next door neighbour looking through the kitchen door apparently checking up on me.
It was the same neighbour who contacted the Airbnb owner last night to say incorrectly that the dogs had been left in the kitchen, stressed,  all afternoon and into early evening when they had been left  after a six mile country hike,  sleeping together. between 3 and 6 pm only and then walked by myself and my friend Mike soon after. 
The cottage owner texted me her concerns and I told her that her neighbour was incorrect and misinformed .
She immediately apologised but the texts and invasion of privacy had upset my evening somewhat
This morning I felt under constant observation 
And so I loaded Bluebell and drove home with Dorothy quiet and sleeping in her crate which I covered in a throw like a parrot slumbering in a cage. 

I had a lovely break wed and Thursday and the girls were well behaved in their new surroundings  but I only saw half the people I originally planned to see. 
Which was a shame.


The four friends I did catch up I’ve known for over 33 years 
We are greyer ( except in Mike’s case) , we are older, slightly wrinkled, fatter, wiser, more sanguine perhaps. We have all been put through the wringer, at times, with losses and life brickbats ….but we hugged each other, just as we’ve always did, with love and gusto and with the warmth we’ve always had when we were in our salad day thirties.

Thursday pm

 


The dogs were walked until they dropped today.
I left them sleeping for a couple of hours and met my friend Sarah for tea in All Bar One which was lovely 
I then picked up my old mucca Mike from work and we walked the dogs then went to the pub ,just around the corner for a few drinks and chats which was also lovely .

I’ll leave you with a photo of the village hall in Trelawnyd
The collection for items to support the refugees in the Ukraine arrived today





Day 2

When Nursing a hangover, there is one sure fire cure and that is a brisk walk in the dales.
I haven’t been to Derwent and Ladybower for years, and it’s wonderful to see the beauty of the place once again. 
Had lunch in Hathersage and am just about to meet another friend for a early tea in town.



 

Sheffield



 The journey was a fucking nightmare 
Dorothy barked solidly from inside her crate for 2 hours solid 
Even the insertion of an emergency sausage roll only gave me a respite of around 50 seconds
And snake Pass being closed, I had to drive to Sheffield via Woodhead Pass which was shrouded in mist worthy of any Jack- The -Ripper 1970s thriller.
The Airbnb is a sweet little terraced house in the surburbs, an area I know nothing about even though I lived only 2 miles away for 20 years.
My friend Jane turned up on time with a bottle to match mine  and we put the world to rights as Dorothy made goo goo eyes at her. 
Tomorrow I’m meeting Jane for a walk at Ladybower Then tea with Sarah and an evening with Mike 
I went to Morrisons to buy provisions , a visit to an old supermarket I haven’t been to in 17 years
Rather emotional all told 


Sheffield bound

 The roadtrip begins



Breakfast Out, St David’s Day, a very small world and A Pure Heart

 

Americans seem to do " Breakfast Meets" . Brits less so. 

I like them. Ive Just got Dorothy out of her car crate( which went much better than I dared hope, -probably because of the pigs ear I'd hidden in her blankets) and after a walk on the beach I'm off to meet my friend Polly for breakfast at Bryn Williams in Colwyn Bay

Breakfast always tastes fabulous after a walk

And it did.

Film studies  on zoom lecture thus afternoon, then choir....




My film studies course is an in-depth review of five world famous movies. This week the film in question was the 1935 musical comedy Top Hat.
It’s not a film I particularly like or indeed have ever sat through for its entirety , but I enjoyed the forensic dissection and discussion of the movie, which is also stimulating . 
In one of the breakout groups I met a woman from Kent who, as it turned out knows my ex mother in law.
It’s a small world.

The “professional “ Trelawnyd Male Voice Choir singing Calon Lân


Choir was hard tonight. Jamie ( sans 1940 RAF moustache) only had 13 of us to deal with and decided we
Should sing the traditional version of Calon Lan which is one of the most famous Welsh Hymns ( it means a pure heart) 
The harmonies proved to be very difficult for me as the bass lines are so different from the original tune.
We also sang an anti war song which had incredible resonance with the news from the Ukraine and today I’ve been reminded of my own Ukrainian Village here on the field which also has its own resonance .
One of the village wardens , Jo ( the powerhouse that runs the toddler group in the hall) has organised a collection of necessary goods to be sent out to the Ukrainian refugees and within hours had pledges of all manner of items by village people.