Three gifts

Yesterday was a day for gifts.
While Chris was in church, and I was busy stuffing a chicken for lunch,
I spied two ladies peeping over the garden wall.
I went out clutching a bowl of eggs
When the elder of the two women burst out with an excited
" we read your blog" comment.
Now they didn't look like a couple of bunny boilers,
but I was put on a bit of a back foot for a minute or so.
( it's always a bit odd to meet two strangers who think that they know you)
As it turned out, the two ladies were mother and daughter who had relatives who lived in trelawnyd
some years ago. They were leaving the area and wanted to donate some old French Church candlesticks to Trelawnyd Church. 
Through Going Gently , I was the only person they " knew" to pass the gifts too.
Whaddu you think Tom Stephenson?
I promised to pass the candlesticks on, made sure I took the ladies names and thanked them with 18 fresh eggs from the morning collection when they gave me a whole pile of
Welsh history books that they had collected, which was a lovely gesture
Amid the titles of local information, there was a comprehensive guide to New York City
" I remembered that you love the city"  the mother said
Power of the blog eh?

The second gift arrived an hour or so later, when a Woolly hatted Mrs Trellis turned up
With a piping hot homemade rice pudding sat snugly inside a cake tin.
She thought we would appreciate the pud on such a cold day
It was a cracking pudding....with a skin on the top, so thick
that it took two hands to break it
Wonderful

The final gift of the day turned up after lunch
Another orphan of the storm 
This time from the Bonny, smiling lady from the Still House.
Her dog had killed several of her hens and the last survivor needed a new home
So meet 
Bodica




August Osage County

We went to see this this evening
and after two hours of bile
Chris was biting the back of the chair in front
I must admit , Streep & Roberts were on excellent form
But the film was an exhausting over indulgence
Into one family's dysfunction
Frothy it wasn't 
I did , however love Robert's line
" Eat the fish bitch!"

Bodnant Welsh Food

Now, there is nothing that pleases a couple of old poofs more in this world  than a classy venue.
Give us the clean, expensive lines of a National trust tea rooms or the sleekly clean crispness of the Ritz cafe ( yes I have been! And in a clean pair of trousers too!).... And we will wander around with smiles on our faces and a spring in our step
Unfortunately in Wales , these venues are rare as a shy bulldog, so when they do surface, we get excited as Tom Stephenson at a Germaine Greer lecture.
It was St David's day here in Wales yesterday, so we drove over to the Conwy Valley to visit Furnace Farm, the Bodnant Centre for Welsh Food.
Lovingly restored, the seventeen century farm boasts a restaurant, tea rooms, farm shop, cookery school,wine shop and bee centre. It's all slightly aseptic, but it's undeniably and reassuringly expensive and classy
We ate cawl in the cafe ( cawl is a rustic Welsh stew) and I came over all unnecessary when I spied a massive pile of BLACK PUDDING SCOTCH EGGS  in the farm shop. At 2£'each , they proved to be somewhat of an extravagance , but they were BLEEDING WORTH IT!
Never has this old poof tasted anything better!
Scotch eggs of the gods!

Hey ho


Good old Camilla knocking back the scotch eggs at the opening of Bodnant food a year back

Era's End

In the beginning of the war, the city of Liverpool suffered considerable and devastating bomb damage. As the windows blew in on the occupants of a small terraced house in Everton, the mother of the household picked up a heavy horse hair sofa and covered her children with it,
After the all clear the family staggered off to a neighbour's house. The mother heavily in shock, the teenage daughter shivering and silent, and the ten year old boy in his pyjamas , kept warm with a chenille curtain wrap and wearing a pair of ladies high heel shoes to protect his feet from the broken glass.
As children we were brought up on this story
The mother of the story was my grandmother. The girl was my mother and the boy was my Uncle Jim.
I learnt yesterday that my Uncle Jim had just died. He was in his eighties.
I have not spoken to my uncle for many years, I always sent Christmas cards, but ill health and family  spats and the fact he lived a long way off, meant that a close relationship was not really on the cards.
Having said this....I am truly sorry that he's gone.
His death has heralded the end of an era.
It has highlighted that the last tie to my grandparents has now been severed and a life in that devastated city three quarters of a century ago seems a little more distant and unreal.
Like I said
It's the end of an era.

Sexually Molested by Buster Keaton

Most dogs crave affection
Scottish terriers like George love an occasional rub
Welsh terriers adore to lap sit
And bulldogs
Well bulldogs will seek out and initiate
a full on, 
No hold barred,
hug, smooch and snog
I have likened it to being
sexually molested by a hairy, four legged Buster Keaton

Favorite Person Thursday

Generally I get home just before midnight on Thursday Evenings
It takes me a while to go to bed
So from tonight I will start a regular feature here on 
Going Gently
That is...."favorite person Thursday"
Tonight's choice is
A fat lady who is greatly missed

Flower Show Schedule, Dog Toys and Other Stories


After yesterday's Committee Meeting
( photos of which can be seen on the previous entry)
I have finally updated the Flower Show's schedule on the website
For those that are interested
Please see


Anyhow, on the back of Tom Stephenson odd " foo foo" request 
I have a request of my own.
Can anyone out there in blog land tell me something more
about this little vintage toy terrier, who has sat on our chest of drawers for years?

The toy is on small wheels
And has a hollow inside which can be extended and removed
Initially I thought it was for pencils but the body is not really long enough


Anyone got any ideas?
Answers on a postcard please.

Talking of terriers George is now looking mighty fine 
after his professional haircut


Much better than William, who is presently undergoing daily baths for an irritating 
Skin condition
Why do dogs always look like they have been inappropriately molested
When in the bath?

This afternoon
I have been planting out
It's almost ALMOST spring

Trelawnyd Flower Show Meeting

The Flower Show Committee met around Auntie Glad's kitchen table tonight as it always has done. We have a large lively committee of around a dozen souls, most of whom have been doing the show for years.
Everyone knows their job, so the show generally has a habit of  " running itself" this makes my job as chairman pretty easy. The meetings are more social than really functional.

Julie, Derek, John F and animal helper Pat

Terry ( above- left ) and I have challenged each other in entering five flower show classes. Last year we both entered the infamous " quiche challenge" which Terry unfortunately won. ( a fact he has not let me forget ) so we now have a cash wager agreed upon. A ten pound  note on the person who wins the most categories.


The committee meeting is halted so that Tea and scones 
Are served
( yes Gladys is STILL baking)

Pat, Auntie Glad and Ann

The Trelawnyd flower Show is scheduled for Saturday 9 th of August. We are now in our 42nd Year.