Thought for the day

"There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future."
~Unknown

Back to a dirty reality and field jobs

Sorrel went home this morning and she seemed to have enjoyed her visit very much, despite the gloomy weather.
Obviously it is nice for Chris to have her up here; my immediate and extended family all live nearby, so I suppose this fact does make Chris feel slightly isolated from his family from time to time.
Having said this, Chris does have a rather special and close relationship with Sorrel and together they do resemble a bit of a double act. They banter away all day long like an old married couple and obviously enjoy each other's company in a way I never ever experienced with my parents, yet, I never feel pushed out when they are together.It's just nice that they get on so well.

Anyhow, this afternoon I have regained my usual scruffy (and dirty) daily garb and returned to work on the field. The weather, we have have been told will take a turn for the worst, so all of my cauliflower seedlings have been covered safely with cloches and polytunnels.

The old guinea fowl coop that was broken into by the badger has been recycled into a passable shelter for Boris and Gloria (below), and not surprisingly the opportunistic hens have used it all day during the heavy showers we have experienced. Perhaps the turkeys will get a look in tomorrow.

Gloria's neck has just about healed since her rather nasty turkey poult attack. She has started laying eggs this morning too!

Bodysgallen

The final "Sorrel Birthday" treat was a trip to the Elizabethan Bodysgallen Hall for afternoon tea.
We had the works! whatever type of tea you wanted-----( I had not got a clue) sandwiches cut into slices (without the crusts), freshly baked scones and a shop front of pastries and cakes!
Everything tasted better given the lovely historical surroundings, the peace and quiet and the classy decor.
You felt as though you wanted to curl up in front of the fire in the huge grate with a good book and read the rainy day away

Below the main staircase

Below a quick shot of the walled garden, which originally dated from 1620.

Sorrel goes home tomorrow. I was going to get on planting out cauliflower, onions and shallots but there is some talk of snow being on the cards again, so I may have to postpone the work.

I am slightly jaded, just two hours sleep this morning

Libera, O SANCTISSIMA

The visuals are a bit....well twee!.....
but the music is just right for a lazy sunday

Thoughts on A Single man

The homophobia of 1962 mid America was perfectly judged in the movie A Single Man. Living in 2010, I can honestly say that bigotry and prejudice never really features in our present day lives and existence.
Now I am sure that they (the bigots) are there! I know for sure that there is a "Christian" faction within the village that despises our existence, but to be honest it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I don't see homophobia because I just don't look for it.
Now, is that because I fit into that heterosexual stereotype image of middle class professional? ( at 11 hours a week at the hospital, perhaps that is pushing it!)..... a professional that is "settled down" with dogs, a garden, a mortgage and with a partner who is a Doctor and who has a great repertoire of curt one liners?
I think there must be some truth in all that. Being a part of a partnership, being a part of a couple does perhaps makes us feel "part of the group" as it were. In this world of "twosomes", having a partner does I guess makes life and the whole damm living thing a whole lot easier, and even today, in our enlightened times, it oils the wheels of social interaction and community a little more than it once did.
However I digress.
In the movie, Colin Firth's character had to suffer the painful rejection by his dead partner's family. To them, the relationship was seen as nothing more than a moral embarrassment, and that disregard IS something I have experienced from certain family members many years ago. Thankfully by a process of osmosis, patience and natural (charm! ) things got ironed out quite nicely and today it never crosses my mind that I wouldn't have the same say and status within my relationship with Chris as the Queen has with Prince Philip!
It is just a given to me.

Anyhow, I am working nights tonight, so Sunday will be a quieter day. No trips out, no birthday treats for Sorrel. Tomorrow we take her to Bodysgallen Hall for afternoon tea (so English you could scream), but today it is Sunday lunch at home, Church for her and Chris and some planting out for me.

A Single Man

I think that Sorrel has experienced an enjoyable Birthday.
After multiple Birthday card opening at home, we drove over to Llandudno to have a leisurely lunch at Osborn House, which was a real treat. Sorrel has a somewhat child-like ability to thoroughly enjoy things that have been organised for her, so, of course she makes an ideal guest.......she even seemed to enjoy the rather thought provoking movie A Single Man, which we took her to this evening.

A Single Man, has an interesting premise as the film chronicles the "last day" of the suicidal University Professor George Falconer (Colin Firth). He observes neighbours in their everyday lives,takes a class; meets up with an old flame and best friend Charlie (Julianne Moore) for dinner; has an encounter with a gay student (Nicolas Hoult) and has painful flashbacks to happier days he spent with his longterm partner (Mathew Goode),before his recent death in a car accident.

It is indicated that the love affair was profoundly deep and affectionate, so Firth's depression is not a guilt ridden, self depreciating romp, but is simply an understandable reaction to a deep deep loss and Colin Firth (not an actor I generally find appealing) captures quite wonderfully the slightly blank, pointless affect of a man numbed by grief.

It is a cracking and, I think brave piece of casting as Firth, (to me) is not really known for his more tortured characters.

The characters in this adaptation of Isherwood's novel remain for the most part precise and slightly enigmatic..a fact that seems complimented by a slight stylised cinematic style...with only the brief glimpses of George's lover in everyday normality and the full on cameo from neurotic best friend (Moore) giving the film the heart that it is so desperately needed.

Julianne Moore's performance, for me is a standout as she captures perfectly a woman who is stuck needing a man who is unattainable.....and yet I had to agree with Alex http://boycottingtrends.blogspot.com/ (who wryly described Moore as "ripe")

Her star turn perfectly balances Firth's depressive blandness.

A Single Man, isn't a gut wrenching romp into grief. It is a quiet, thoughtful study of loss and acceptance ( the scene when George receives a "cold" call informing him of his partner's death is subtle yet oh so traumatic), so I suspect the movie will be disappointing to some, who may be expecting more....well histrionic cinema .

For me, I thought it was pitched just right

8/10

How Apt

With Easter just around the corner, I think it is apt that Jesus has been sort of resurrected from him illness of the past week and has bounced back with a vengeance.
This morning he greeted me with his usual growling welcome when I let him and Halleh (the duck) out of their hen house. The four hybrids hens that usually live with them, have moved in with the gentle buffs, which is rather amusing.
Now I will post later...we are off for a posh lunch over in Llandudno now (I will have to make an effort and scrub up the best I can---been cleaning out pig sh*t all morning!)

Sorrel does country

My mother in law doesn't "do" the country....well you can't can you? with designer jeans that you could eat your dinner off, two inch heels and a beautiful green coat (complete with sun glasses!!!)......she is just not slummy enough to be pottering around the allotment and field.
Bless...she was game enough though!
She tottered down the muddy paths, fed the pigs with some bananas that she had brought all the way from Kent as a treat for them, then braved her phobias by looking at the chickens and turkeys

It was all a bit like watching an episode of The Good Life when Margo braves the elements to help save the piglets!

This morning she and Chris have gone to Chester....shopping!