Regular readers will know that I seem to have an eye for the sweetest of small human moments. I’m recalling one such moment now, from the village tea party of a few weeks ago.
A friend to many in the village , is a chap called Nick
A bright and lively man, Nick, is facing a rare neurological illness which has affected him physically and psychologically, but still he arrived with a friend to the party and seemed immediately surrounded by more male friends from Trelawnyd.
I watched them carefully, and was reminded of the close bonds forged by the male pack members of a wolf family.
Without fuss, one friend brought a chair, another a drink and yet another put a gentle hand on a shoulder as they chatted away, watching the band play and the visitors gossip.
As one pack member moved away, another took his place and for a group of Welsh men, not always known for their emotional intelligence , I saw a great deal of love and care in those simple interactions.
I too joined the pack circle that afternoon, and thought at the time just how lucky I am to be a part of such a group of such genuine people .

What a lovely thing for all those men to do, and I suspect not one of them did anything consciously. Just friends instinctively supporting a friend, as it should be. xx
ReplyDeleteYes that’s why I likened it to a wolf pack
DeleteEverything unsaid
Squire…..quite lovely xx
ReplyDeleteIs that Lee?
DeleteSorry squire it was ,,I’ve had three πΈπΈπΈ
DeleteLeexxxx
Good for u
DeleteI love this post.
ReplyDeleteThank u blobby
Deletecaring naturally, no fuss xx
ReplyDeleteOrganic support
DeleteJohn was talking about my husband Nick. It was all very moving at the Garden Party and I continue to see acts of kindness in our daily lives. It gives one faith in humanity and I am glad for it. And we are so very blessed that our John is central to our little community xxx
ReplyDeleteThat was written by nick’s wife
DeleteThe velvet voiced Linda xxx
Who is a force for good
DeleteYes, what you find yourself surrounded by and a part of is rare.
ReplyDeleteXx
DeleteThis is a truly strong, loving community. And you know its worth.
ReplyDeleteI do indeed
DeleteI like your story of kindness among the local men supporting another man, and you are a kind man yourself and of course joined in.
ReplyDeleteA rare story
DeleteThis is lovely and you made me cry John!
ReplyDeleteI cried too. JanF
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DeleteHow heart-warming that these friends of Nick continue to welcome him and help him settle in needed but not pushy ways. We should all be so lucky and can be. Kindness is free.
ReplyDeleteHugs!
And it’s catching babs
DeleteSometimes men surprise me with the way they act, and this time it was a beautiful sensitive kind away.
ReplyDeleteYes bob , I suspect you would lead the charge
DeleteWonderfully observed and communicated as always, John!
ReplyDeleteThank you Debra x
Deletethis is what kindness and love IS...comes from heart and soul
ReplyDeleteSusan M/ Calif.
Indeed xxx
DeleteKindness, compassion and loving care at its best. Nick is embraced by his friends and the community. It warms the heart to hear about good people.
ReplyDeleteIan , village leader , has been a lead in nicks support, working quietly and out of the limelight
DeleteVery sweet story. We all need to be surrounded by good friends! Cali
ReplyDeleteAmen π❤️
DeleteIt is often women that many assume is quick to offer support but I have witnessed many examples of men doing the same.
ReplyDeleteThey are often beaten to the post or told it’s not their job
DeleteMen can be so quietly kind. Love this story!
ReplyDeleteThey have had a bad press too much me thinks
DeleteI love this too. How good to start the day reading something so uplifting.
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DeleteYes, genuine folks are rare these days. It's heartwarming to know that this human action still exists
ReplyDeleteI don’t think I agree, I’ve always subscribed to the notion that people are inherently kind
DeleteNick is very lucky.
ReplyDeleteKarma more than luck elle
DeleteJohn, I loved this, the circle of care with these men. All men need good friends.
ReplyDeleteAnd it’s been researched that many do not, I hope that stereotype is changing
DeleteA real sense of belonging.
ReplyDeleteKarma my friend , nick’s karma
DeleteMen watching out for a friend, brought a tear to my eye. You live among very caring people. Linda is lucky to have a husband with a “pack” around him. And you do too. Gigi
ReplyDeleteThere are caring people everywhere, they just need a shout out
DeleteI watched my husband care for and tend to an ailing friend for years and it made me love him even more. Men are not thought of as particularly nurturing but I think they surely can be. They just do it in a different way.
ReplyDeleteNicely put xx
DeleteLately, we hear so many stories about the haters but I've always found many helpers everywhere I go. We just don't hear those stories as much. Thanks for sharing this one, John.
ReplyDeleteI agree and men seldom get praised
DeleteEllen I so agree , men get vilified too much
DeleteKeith
Xx
Too right both of u
DeleteTouching.
ReplyDeleteXx. Men can impress , but you know that xx
DeleteA lovely touching post. Thank you to Linda for commenting.
ReplyDeleteYes, I asked her permission to post it x
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