A Pack Of Welsh Wolves

 

Regular readers will know that I seem to have an eye for the sweetest of small human moments. I’m recalling one such moment now, from the village tea party of a few weeks ago. 
A friend to many in the village , is a chap called Nick
A bright and lively man, Nick, is facing a rare neurological illness which has affected him physically and psychologically, but still he arrived with a friend to the party and seemed immediately surrounded by more male friends from Trelawnyd. 
I watched them carefully, and was reminded of the close bonds forged by the male pack members of a wolf family. 
Without fuss, one friend brought a chair, another a drink and yet another put a gentle hand on a shoulder as they chatted away, watching the band play and the visitors gossip. 

As one pack member moved away, another took his place and for a group of Welsh men, not always known for their emotional intelligence , I saw a great deal of love and care in those simple interactions. 

I too joined the pack circle that afternoon, and thought at the time just how lucky I am to be a part of such a group of such genuine people .

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  1. What a lovely thing for all those men to do, and I suspect not one of them did anything consciously. Just friends instinctively supporting a friend, as it should be. xx

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    1. Yes that’s why I likened it to a wolf pack
      Everything unsaid

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  2. Anonymous8:34 pm

    Squire…..quite lovely xx

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    1. Anonymous8:53 pm

      Sorry squire it was ,,I’ve had three 🍸🍸🍸

      Leexxxx

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  3. I love this post.

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  4. caring naturally, no fuss xx

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  5. Anonymous8:56 pm

    John was talking about my husband Nick. It was all very moving at the Garden Party and I continue to see acts of kindness in our daily lives. It gives one faith in humanity and I am glad for it. And we are so very blessed that our John is central to our little community xxx

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    1. That was written by nick’s wife
      The velvet voiced Linda xxx

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    2. Who is a force for good

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  6. Yes, what you find yourself surrounded by and a part of is rare.

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  7. This is a truly strong, loving community. And you know its worth.

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  8. I like your story of kindness among the local men supporting another man, and you are a kind man yourself and of course joined in.

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  9. This is lovely and you made me cry John!

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    1. Anonymous1:39 pm

      I cried too. JanF

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    2. πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ™„

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  10. Barbara Anne10:25 pm

    How heart-warming that these friends of Nick continue to welcome him and help him settle in needed but not pushy ways. We should all be so lucky and can be. Kindness is free.

    Hugs!

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  11. Sometimes men surprise me with the way they act, and this time it was a beautiful sensitive kind away.

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    1. Yes bob , I suspect you would lead the charge

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  12. Wonderfully observed and communicated as always, John!

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  13. Anonymous11:42 pm

    this is what kindness and love IS...comes from heart and soul
    Susan M/ Calif.

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  14. Kindness, compassion and loving care at its best. Nick is embraced by his friends and the community. It warms the heart to hear about good people.

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    1. Ian , village leader , has been a lead in nicks support, working quietly and out of the limelight

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  15. Anonymous12:32 am

    Very sweet story. We all need to be surrounded by good friends! Cali

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  16. It is often women that many assume is quick to offer support but I have witnessed many examples of men doing the same.

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    1. They are often beaten to the post or told it’s not their job

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  17. Anonymous1:32 am

    Men can be so quietly kind. Love this story!

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    1. They have had a bad press too much me thinks

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  18. MarisAna6:10 am

    I love this too. How good to start the day reading something so uplifting.

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  19. Yes, genuine folks are rare these days. It's heartwarming to know that this human action still exists

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    1. I don’t think I agree, I’ve always subscribed to the notion that people are inherently kind

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  20. Nick is very lucky.

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  21. John, I loved this, the circle of care with these men. All men need good friends.

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    1. And it’s been researched that many do not, I hope that stereotype is changing

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  22. A real sense of belonging.

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  23. Anonymous12:12 pm

    Men watching out for a friend, brought a tear to my eye. You live among very caring people. Linda is lucky to have a husband with a “pack” around him. And you do too. Gigi

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    1. There are caring people everywhere, they just need a shout out

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  24. I watched my husband care for and tend to an ailing friend for years and it made me love him even more. Men are not thought of as particularly nurturing but I think they surely can be. They just do it in a different way.

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  25. Lately, we hear so many stories about the haters but I've always found many helpers everywhere I go. We just don't hear those stories as much. Thanks for sharing this one, John.

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    1. I agree and men seldom get praised

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    2. Anonymous9:46 pm

      Ellen I so agree , men get vilified too much

      Keith

      Xx

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    1. Xx. Men can impress , but you know that xx

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  27. Traveller7:13 pm

    A lovely touching post. Thank you to Linda for commenting.

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    1. Yes, I asked her permission to post it x

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