I’ve been home all day.
I’ve been mindful and still
Listening to the radio with the fire lit uncharacteristically early.
Donna Ockenden an interesting listen on Desert Island Discs)
And then reading on my bed,
Not a novel but an interesting study of the treatment of PTSD.
I fell asleep for an hour and woke with the Welsh curled up either side of me and the twins at my feet with paws tucked under them making them look like egg sitting hens.
I’ve always been moved by the animals’ need to sit with me
Tonight I’ve made noodle soup with ramen stock, chicken and pak choi, and the cottage feels toasty with the limestone walls warmed by the roaring log burner
The Welsh are sleeping.
And the twins are in the bathroom play fighting in the shower cubical
Home..with good company.
ReplyDeleteCan't fault that x
I forget how happy home makes me
DeleteI miss the company I had
DeleteI know
DeleteThank you for sharing that peaceful scene. X
ReplyDelete🐕🐈⬛🐈⬛🐕
DeleteVery cozy gigi
ReplyDeleteThat you Gigi xxx
DeleteSounds like a lovely, well-spent day.
ReplyDeleteRestful
DeletePTSD book? If this is for your counselling then, gentle advice, you need to learn to walk before you can run John, and remember that counselling is not psychiatry.
ReplyDeleteI had a client with Undiagnosed complex PTSD recently who I referred on to the mental health team . I felt obliged to look into the subject and im glad i did
DeletePerhaps you may have forgotton that im still a registered psychiatric nurse and have seen the disorder many times in my spinal injury nursing. I intend to specialise in PTSD Eventually but need more training in the subject
I think it is important for people to be aware of PTSD in its many forms, there is lots of information available Sometimes people talk loudly, laugh too loudly cry or become aggressive and particularly when working with with and being a parent to children you realise that being interested and kind often goes some way in reassuring the victim that you care . You do not need to be a counsellor to understand and be empathetic towards others
DeleteThe varied care of World War One veterans saw the first serious treatment of PTSD
DeleteI saw many spinal injuried men and women who exhibited many of the symptoms outlined and I will always cherish working with a psychologist called Kim for a decade with such patients
Jayjay
DeleteIs a bit of a know all asshole …John is in his sixties, a grown professional nurse and counsellor , he knows his limitations and doesn’t have to express them in every post.
Ffs
Lee
Yeap
DeleteThank you John. That's fine of course. To clarify, it was your comment 'undiagnosed PTSD' which concerned me, as you appeared to imply it was you doing the 'diagnosing'. In addition, one does not need a mental health qualification or experience to be a counsellor. Indeed, being such can be a problem if prior know-how is not unchecked. My advice was gentle advice, meant well.
DeleteLee, just a gentle reminder to you that, as a 'grown professional nurse and counsellor', that John perhaps does not need you jumping in to 'defend' him. Perhaps some self-reflection of your own would not be remiss? This might help you to unpick some of your displaced aggression.
I visited this blog and commented in order to make a thoughtful and well-intentioned contribution. Alas, this was not received kindly or with the open-minded maturity I expected. I won't be commenting or visiting again.
What concerns me is where YOU are coming from? an anon commentator has no credence
DeleteI suspect you have counselling experience of sorts so will surely know I have a qualified and experienced supervisor as well as a mentor at my counselling centre
Both concurred with my inking that PTSD was the issue and that a referral on was the way forward
The final comment that you will not be commenting again has been made several times by trolls btw
DeleteI want you to note that I know that
That was Lee
DeleteJay Jay
DeleteYou need to prove who u are for credibility
Sorry
Regarding the comment above, it never ceases to amaze how many people feel qualified to advise you, John, on how to run your life! I very much like how YOU choose to run it.
ReplyDeleteLove the word picture of the bed scene!
Im not upset by the advice, ive explained my stance on the subject xx
DeleteSorry John , but I’ve said my piece
DeleteLeex
lol as ways dear Lee
DeleteI want to move into your cottage! Dozing by the fire with a kitty on my lap. A warm and cosy scene of a day well spent. xx
ReplyDeletelol welcome anytime
DeleteCan I come too?Barbaraxx
DeleteI’ve come over from local kiwi alien. I too like being in my house living in simple bliss. I too grew up in a house with lots of yelling and to this day I don’t like hearing loud voices. I will come back again. I just need to find the follow button
ReplyDeleteWelcome Angela xx
DeleteThat sounds like good soup and good things all around.
ReplyDeleteI put lots of chilli in the soup ,it warms nicely
DeleteWhat a blissful day you and the family have had together. How sweet it is!
ReplyDeleteHugs!
I’m grateful
DeleteJust heavenly John, what a glorious way to spend a day. Jan in Castle Gresley
ReplyDeleteAh, quiet days at home are so rejuvenating. And I love the image of the twins play fighting.
ReplyDeleteHope you have a lovely week.
Ceci
Ditto xx
DeleteWhat a lovely thing to wake up to, cuddle buddies. 🐈⬛🐈⬛🐕🐕
ReplyDeleteYou have a very happy and content home. All is well.
ReplyDeleteI have always wondered what folk meant by mindfulness. Now I know. It's lying on a bed with two Welsh terriers and a couple of kittens after consuming a bowl of noodles.
ReplyDeleteAnother wonderful image you have painted with words. I love days like this- mindful, contented and restful days.
ReplyDeleteThe Welsh and the twins. Sounds like a great way to wake up from a slumber.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a perfect day; one I would enjoy too; other than your reading matter!
ReplyDeleteA restful and refreshing day to balance life. It's so good the way animals love to sleep or rest close to their pack. That must strengthen their bonds and help them to relax too. I suppose humans are like it too as we really need to be interacting with others sometimes to feel good. Unlike the terrible Covid times.
ReplyDeleteI found the Ockendon interview hard to listen to , but it also gave me hope that we had such a caring professional carrying out such an important review.
ReplyDeleteShe has set a high standard of emotional intelligence for others to take note .
Just imagining you and the gang all cosy makes me smile.
ReplyDeleteSnuggle up and enjoy the day as often as you can. I made chicken noodle soup on Sunday.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you are creating a nice balance of work, fun with friends, and peaceful times, John. xo
ReplyDeleteYou have a wonderful life John Gray.
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