For Sale

 Old Trefor’s house is on the market and already I’ve seen three 4x4 couples giving it the once over.
He was always careful with his money so the asking price would have made him wet himself.


You can see my cottage from his back bedroom ( below) , and in his later poorly years , he would sometime signal me with a flash of the lights that all was well. 


Trefor was always kind to me and always accepting that I was gay, something that may have been a challenge to someone in a tiny village and was 80 years of age. 
I remember introducing The Prof into the conversation as my partner one afternoon as I helped him collect apples from his small orchard and for Trefor  saying rather nonchalantly that he already knew and that  Auntie Gladys had  told him in passing at Friendship Group ! 

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  1. Trefor and Auntie Glad...gems of the community xx

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  2. Trefor was another wonderful surprise in your little village. What’s a 4x4 couple?

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    1. Anonymous1:40 pm

      people with 4 wheel drive (big) cars.

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    2. Anonymous3:48 pm

      I was curious too. haha
      Dee

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    3. A thirty something was having a butchers around the garden today

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    4. LOL. What’s a butchers?

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    5. Cockney rhyming slang. Butcher's (hook) = a look. xx

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  3. The elder folk in the village where I grew up were such fun, not what you expected, they had see so much and was accepting of everyone.

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    1. Yes I’ve had that gay friendly support

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  4. That's cheap! a place like that in Suffolk would be £500,000 or more!

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  5. £375,000? That's a bargain compared with house prices in south west Sheffield. Stick Trefor's bungalow in Dore or Ecclesall and you are talking about £800,000.

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    1. Really? I thought it was bloody expensive

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    2. Yellow Shoes10:06 am

      Yorkshire Pudding, you've just said what I was thinking.

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  6. Yorkshire Liz8:52 am

    A lovely home, so I hope you get nice neighbours who become part of the community rather than flash second homers or city types going rural, which sucks the heart out of a village by the death of a thousand apathies. And that they don't have yappy annoying dogs/teenagers and the blight of the garden trampoline!

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    1. "The Blight of the Garden Trampoline" sounds like a horror story!

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    2. Oh GOD the POTENTIAL horror

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  7. Prices are the same around here. Once 'rural backwater', now 'highly sought after'.

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  8. They are getting expensive here in West Cork.

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    1. My best friend has recently bought a cottage in Kenmare

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  9. I would love it. Those views are spectacular.

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    1. I do hope they will be lovely neighbours

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  10. Anonymous9:46 am

    Wow, that house of Trefor ,with a little work will be fabulous, and such a bargain.. I think it will sell fast. Hope you get a nice older couple that will fit in to the community. Gigi

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    1. Three. Bedrooms ? It deserves a young family but I doubt many could afford it

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  11. I hope the right people buy Trefor's house, someone that will integrate themselves into the village properly.

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  12. Cute house! What are the track-like things on the ceilings? Not lighting? IDK about Wales, but the house prices in the U.S. are insane. People are asking $400k for houses with holes in the kitchen floor and chalk outlines of bodies in the living room. We moved 5 years ago, before the prices started getting crazy, and I am so very thankful for that.

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    1. Anonymous11:05 am

      They look like tube lights in ballasts Gigi

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    2. Anonymous3:53 pm

      Flourescent light tubes, known as strip lights. Very common in older properties which haven't been modernised.

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    3. The house is as seen , from when it was built , I take in the 1960s

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  13. If that house was nearer to Yorkshire, I'd be phoning the agents. It's just what we're looking for. I hope your new neighbours are proper village people, not weekenders or Airbnbers. I love that you and Trefor had a signalling system. Flashing lights = all is well. xx

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  14. I hope whoever buys the house become good neighbours and friends as well.

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  15. It is hard to lose good neighbors. I hope you get new good neighbors. The house has possibilities, the garage is a real plus.

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    1. I was disappointed by my last neighbours , the other three households I get on with very well , which says something I think

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  16. Is it too large for one person ?

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    1. I saw the link you put in, too late. Now that I have looked, my offer is in the works!

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    2. ; ) You will have to wait and see.;)

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    3. Trefor's tan y bryn

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  17. I think we are getting to an older generation who are very accepting of different orientations ...... I and most people I know in their 70's and 80's don't even think about it.... but, there's always a few aren't there ?!! Trefor always sounded a ' good egg ' when you talked about him and I also love the signalling he did. XXXX

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  18. I love the beautiful stonework all around. I imagine it will sell quickly and I hope your new neighbors are nice.

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    1. The council demands local stone is used even for your garden walls , I had the council visit my new garden to sanction the stone

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  19. I think your presence in the village probably brought a lot of acceptance at first, and then true affection.

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  20. Anonymous1:41 pm

    Not even had his funeral and gossiping about his assets.

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    1. He died 10 months ago

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    2. Anonymous3:56 pm

      However long ago it doesn't change that you're a gossip. You do a lot of gossiping about the villagers.

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    3. Jo in Auckland6:12 pm

      Anon, He's not a gossip he is a blog writer and as such tells great tales about a great village and it's occupants in Wales and his very full and very interesting life and careers. You on the other hand hide behind an anonymous title and bitch and moan in response to this said blog. Go write one of your own or is your life so fricking sad all you can do is bitch and moan. You're sad!

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    4. Anonymous7:44 pm

      jo a raison vous etes un idiot facheux, moi je vous adore monsieur gray bien a vous depuis la France

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  21. Anonymous2:46 pm

    Wow, the sun room.....I love real estate ads with a floor plan so one can envision where the rooms actually ARE. And everything on one level (except a basement garage, perhaps?), also very nice. The views out the windows surely will sell it, however.

    Thanks for the eye candy!

    Ceci

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    1. Looking through peoples homes is always great fun

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  22. It was fun to tiptoe through Trefor's home. It was so very dated, but what wonderful views! The conservatory is a treasure. It seems a house that had grown through the years, one addition at a time. The privacy of the gardens was quite gorgeous. Peter Large will have no trouble moving this one, I bet!

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    1. I suspect it will be a retirement home

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  23. It's a shame we aren't Brits or I'd jump at that. It sure beats living in the hell's front porch that is Louisiana! ;-)

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    1. It’s not to my taste but the views are to die for ( spoilt a little by the terrible new build behind me)

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  24. Anonymous4:00 pm

    "the asking price would have made him wet himself"
    One of your more disrespectful comments.

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    1. Anonymous9:48 am

      And I thought that was a sharp characterization of homeproud Trevor - how differently people can think!
      Ulvmor

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  25. Barbara Anne4:12 pm

    Ah, dear Auntie Glad and Trefor, two beloved and well remembered Trelawnyd neighbors. Hope your new neighbors are as wonderful, kind, and caring, John.

    Hugs!

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    1. I bloody well hope so too…….i will take a bottle of bubbly around on their first day and cross my fingers

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  26. What a marvelous house. It's always nice to find a person that understands differences.

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    1. He had the house made for his mom and it was revolutionary at the time. Remember Trefor was born in Trelawnyd

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  27. Nice house and the land is good too. Soon you'll have a new neighbor.

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    1. There is only. Small garden with three or fourvappletrees

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  28. Anonymous7:50 pm

    How Trendy, like your carol
    It’s split level …..convert that garage with staircase and bingo a new kitchen

    Lee

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  29. Anonymous8:19 pm

    Looks a little like our duplex housing
    It needs total renovation , what an exciting project

    Keith
    Xx

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    1. I think I will be too parochial a neighbour lol

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  30. I hope your new neighbours will be easy to get on with and you can enjoy each others' company. The price of the bungalow seems quite a bit lower than I would expect where I live.

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  31. Looks like a great house, but what is the black thing on the corner of the bath....a ginormous spider?

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  32. Yellow Shoes10:10 am

    Escape to the Country would love this.
    But I think it will go quickly without help.
    A family from south east England who work from home would take your arm off at that price.

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  33. That looks like a rather nice house. The price actually seems pretty good. In London you couldn't get a single room for that much!

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