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 I haven’t  made breakfast this morning .
Today’s final treat is a macDonald’s on the way to Chester. 
I’m dropping Leo off in Chester so he doesn’t have to brace himself against the vagaries of Aviva trains Wales. It makes going home easier for him.
He’s an easy guest.
Last night after dinner he curled up with his ipad, something horrific called Love Island , and covered in dogs enjoyed his last night here.
It’s been a lovely, slightly tiring  weekend, with occasional memories that have  stirred up more melancholy memories of days gone by.
The weekend however was Leo’s and not mine. I hope he will continue to laugh at the animal stories shared over long drives. And the two Welsh terriers that never left him alone for a minute.

The cottage seemed quiet on my return, I walked the dogs and collected Hawkbit from the hedgerows which I put in the little IKEA jug I bought years ago



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  1. Funny how Mary and Roger were totally magnetised by Leo. I hope he has a safe journey back home.

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    1. He’s home and safe and is presently in the cinema ( again!!!!)

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  2. A boy who interacts with dogs easily , shows good character.

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  3. Traveller9:28 am

    Sounds like a wonderful, if somewhat exhausting, weekend.

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    1. I’ve driven 500 miles in three days

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  4. What a gift, if exhausting, for you both. I wonder if Leo slept the entire way home. Poor dogs will miss him, I’m sure. You’re a great uncle!

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    1. I never really had the opportunity to be an uncle to my own nephews , there wasn’t a need , so it’s nice to have that relationship with Leo

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  5. And now you can rest! What a whirlwind weekend, but I'm sure you wouldn't swap a second of it. xx

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  6. I love how we have all enjoyed hearing about your weekend w/Leo. It is as if we know him too. ♥

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    1. That’s very sweet of you, I’m sure we’ve bored you all enough x

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  7. A strong young man, finding his way in the world.

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    1. He’s grown up a great deal. He couldn’t remember Janet , he last met her at my wedding, but he sat and asked her about her favourite plants knowing she was a gardener

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  8. Anonymous11:01 am

    Lucky Leo, Lucky You, Lucky Dogs. - Jackie

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    1. The dogs have been spoilt, Roger slept with Leo last night, it was his turn lol

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  9. No doubt the dogs will sleep and sleep now, and have happy dreams of Leo and cuddles.

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    1. I’ve had a siesta today and a long one

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  10. You had a good visit. I was going to ask if you'd now take time to relax, but I'm guessing that will be a no? You seem to be like me and can't sit still for long, lol.

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    1. I will my friend, even my sister said I looked tired

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  11. Love the choir, I see your man in there.
    Love that Leo and pups had such a good time. Happy new memories for you all!

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  12. All joyousness x

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  13. Anonymous2:21 pm

    Time to buy yourself a dictionary, you hope he will "confuse" to laugh at the animal stories!

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    1. Predictive text you moron

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    2. Anonymous3:36 pm

      Yayyyy

      Lee

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    3. I know Lee , as you would say Jesus get a life

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  14. I still think of Leo has a teen. How old is he now? He looks like he had a wonderful time with you. Good uncle.

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  15. I had visitors for several days also and it was lots of fun but really tiring too! So I'll miss them but it is nice to have peace and quiet again. ;)

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    1. I’m sat with a gin watching Andre Rieu in the dark

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  16. Barbara Anne2:55 pm

    You and Leo are lucky to have each other in this wild and crazy world. The dogs are joyful cherries on top! Safe journey to L Leo.

    Hugs!

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    1. The dogs made it for him, he enjoyed Dorothy’s legacy of stories and ones from Winnie et al
      They suited his view if the world

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  17. Safe travels Leo. Until the next time.

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    1. He knows he’s welcome , on good days and bad ones

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  18. Lovely to have such a nephew!
    Now you can be relaxed with happy memories...and you can all look forward to his next visit 🙂

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    1. It’s nice to be needed and it was lovely to be the looker afterer

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  19. It's clear you both had a good time. It's so important for young people to have reliable adults in their lives. I hope Leo continues to take holidays 'with family, in Wales'. You are a wonderful uncle.

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    1. I would have loved to have had a child of my own E

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    2. If a man can father all of his life....there is still time.
      Wow, I never thought of that option, but where there is a will there is a way.
      One of my girlfriends told me she thought I was being selfish not having children. I told her I wasn't so sure that folks who had children weren't selfish. Anyway, I make a good aunt but didn't want the responsibility of a child. I didn't feel fit to raise one.

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  20. "Covered in dogs," hahahahaha! Great turn of phrase.

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  21. I love the comment it was Leo’s weekend and not yours.

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    1. Anonymous7:36 pm

      The cottage feels a little quiet now John?

      Lee

      What you have done is a good thing for both of you. I hope Leo’s family is grateful to you. I note you are not in any of the photos , have you taken a dignified back seat for Leo’s social media

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    2. Anonymous7:49 pm

      Aw…I am foul mouthed but I’m a bright cookie.
      Nice one John . Nice one

      Lee

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    3. Potty mouthed is a better phrase

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    4. Anonymous8:13 pm

      Acid tongued my ma says

      Lee

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    5. Anonymous9:43 pm

      Lee, why don't you have a blog of your own?

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    6. Anonymous11:30 pm

      Anon why don’t you fuck yourself

      Lee

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    7. Anonymous5:52 am

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    8. Anonymous2:24 pm

      A perfectly normal question Lee, you spend such a lot of your time on here I wondered why you don't have a blog of your own. Life not interesting enough perhaps?

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    9. Anonymous3:09 pm

      and John will keep Lee's nasty "go fuck yourself" comment but delete anything said about Lee.

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    10. Anonymous4:02 pm

      Lee aka flis

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    11. I like Lee anon , she is real and honest , unlike you

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  22. I was not able to comment, but I loved reading about your weekend with Leo. Every lonely person should have a person/people in his life that he knows will celebrate him...always. You and your sisters are good people.

    So are those dogs.

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  23. I like 'normal' more and more as I age.

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  24. Anonymous3:41 am

    You are the one with such a big heart ❤️ Yael

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  25. You planned a great visit for him and there was so much love and enjoyment - for the dogs too. Time to recharge as it takes energy to care for visitors staying, even loved ones.

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  26. What a collection of special memories he's gone home with.

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