Sit Down Madam

 


As people know I’m a big Theatre fan. I’m also very clear in my mind how people should act and behave in the theatre. ie there should be a mutual respect for their fellow audience and for the performers on stage.
At the end of lockdown I remember posting about being in the audience of the musical Far From Away where I experienced , what I can only describe as a small touch of mass hysteria .where the house erupted with a spontaneous cheer and standing applause after the very first song.  
There was a hunger for that large scale experience 
A hunger and a need for it.
Recently we are hearing of episodes of bad behaviour in musical theatre productions where mainly drunken women in the audience have stopped the performances by singing along with the leads.
Now, whilst I deplore behaviour like this ( and believe me I’m not shy at saying so) I do have a degree of sympathy for the women involved who , like us all have returned to live theatre in order to have a good joint experience. 
Often the productions are led by popular songs, and at the finale they actively encourage the audience for a joined singalong of best bits so to speak .
Mamma Mia started this trick to leave people happy but the trick has rebounded somewhat, fuelled by alcohol, high ticket prices ( I’ve paid for this ticket and I’m going to have a fucking good time) and a post covid hysteria , the sort I mentioned at the start of the post.
Theatres are to blame a bit too…..to recoup their covid costs many bigger theatres are putting on crowd pleasers which will prey on those wanting a toe tapping , dancing in the aisles evening of fun .
In The Bodyguard a working bar appears on set and is used in the interval to serve the punters in the stalls.
The worst audiences I have experienced in the theatre and cinema have been in,  I’m afraid, the United States, but their British counterparts are catching up, which is a sad fact.
I’m happy to being a bit of a snob where join in pantomime productions are concerned. These are morphing into comedy gigs and concerts which are interactive to an extent and for many are becoming the norm……not in my house they’re not! 
I’m going to see two productions this week. Too Much World At Once at Theatre Clwyd and the Lawrence Olivier Award winning Pride and Prejudice* sort of  at the Storyhouse  and I shall sit there sans toffees and mobile phone and I will listen quietly and with respect.

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  1. I totally agree. It's hard enough for those on stage without any interruption, with it it can be a nightmare.

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    1. Is it a problem that we started in the uk with pantomime ?

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  2. I can understand after reading your post how the lines may have been blurred between audience participation and simply appreciation. Also the feelings after Covid. It must be very hard for the cast when this happens though.

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    1. I was trying to see it from both sides …but I know where I stand on this and if it was me, on most productions the audience would be polite and fucking quiet

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  3. Although I've not been to a London theatre in over 30 years now, the worst experience I had (before this sing-along craze started) was in the Olivier, of all places when, during a performance of 'The Crucible', someone started eating CRISPS! - and the culprit was part of a school group sitting at least 50 yards from me. He or she, along with whoever was supervising them (saying not a word!) fully deserved a very public reprimand. Utter shame on them.

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    1. I always loved the staff at Theatre clwyds cinema who always came in when someone from the mainly elderly audience started to chat and bollocked them royally

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  4. Totally agree, John. When I was a girl and we went to live performances with the school, we were told (probably on pain of death!) not to talk, go to the toilet etc during the performance, and if there was music at the finale, not to applaud until the last note had died away. It's simple common respect, both for the cast and for the other patrons who have paid good money to see the performance and not hear "Joe Bloggs" chatting, singing or eating. xx

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    1. I was never taken to any stage production as a child and only started on my own volition when I was 17

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  5. Precisely why I no longer visit the theatre or cinema. My last theatre visit though was not too bad. It was at the Lowry in Manchester, a dark, gritty tale that needed to be taken seriously. I was fortunate to be handed a neck loop which, when connected to my hearing aids, blocked out all background noise. Bliss.

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    1. The lowery is a classy but relaxed Theatre, as is the exchange in Manchester

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  6. Well yes - I always think people should be civilised at the theatre - As school girls were to visit Sratford but warned to be on our best behaviour whilst inside - One girl opened her flask of soup causing a stir x

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    1. No one told her not to take soup x

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  7. Traveller7:46 am

    We enjoy live broadcasts at the cinema. A few weeks back we saw Lohengrin broadcast live from the Met. I man opposite me rustled his way through a bag of crisps for a chunk of the first act. CRISPS!

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    1. Crisps and the like are selfish and inconsiderate and should be banned

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  8. I've been on stage when 'gate crashers' have burst into the auditorium. An on stage game of Trivial Pursuit had someone from the audience shouting the answers. In a tiny theatre when someone's phone rang during a lengthy monologue by another character. The phone was NOT switched off and rang and rang for the entire speech. In the dressing room afterwards we gave the actor a standing ovation for continuing flawlessly.

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    1. Yes phones are always a bind, and no one has an excuse anymore as turning your phone off is now a theatrical habit

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  9. If I might respectfully say...I think you mean " Come" from away? We saw it some years ago and it was the most moving thing I have ever seen on a stage! Enjoy your theatre visits this week.

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    1. I did indeed mean come from away , it’s a title I just cannot remember which is odd given the fact it’s my favourite musical . Blame tiredness on night duty lol
      I agree, I was moved to tears by the whole production , pure pure class and beautifully observed.

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  10. In my opinion, theatregoers should show quiet respect for fellow audience members and the players on stage. I think audience participation and singing can be delightful things but only with regard to productions that encourage such involvement. Drunken fans are often barred from entering football stadiums and the same should apply to theatres.

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  11. Anonymous8:07 am

    Lockdown was three years ago! Surely enough time to get back to normal for heavens sake! I don't think it's in response to lockdown - I think it's middle class ar*e* who think lockdown is a catch-all for bad behaviour - a bit like these middle class 'eco warriors' - they're never working class - they're too busy at work.

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    1. I don’t quite agree although the entitled aspect of some post covid may be of some significance here

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  12. Anonymous8:24 am

    Having done the great Oklahoma, I'm now booked in for Moulin Rouge and the Sondheim tribute concert. I might just be getting back into theatre....Bel Ami

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    1. Good for you….happy to accompany u if we see anything we both want to see xx

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  13. I saw “Dreamgirls” in 1983 in Los Angeles. The audience stood and cheered and danced and called out throughout the production. None of it was negative or violent but it made it impossible to hear the show. We were grateful to have already seen the show in NYC. What's going on lately is disgusting and unsafe -- and would make me want to stay home.

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    1. It’s just made me clear that there are some productions I just won’t go to. Having said this, me nephew and I went to see SIX in London and the audience was impeccably behaved throughout

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  14. My grandmother taught me to behave.

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  15. Anonymous10:45 am

    When my daughter was 15, she begged me to take her and a bunch of her friends to see Rocky Horror Picture Show, the movie. She didnt expect me to stay but I did. I was shocked when the audience stood and shouted and sang the whole movie along with opening umbrellas and flicking lighters at the appropriate times during the movie. It wasn’t until many years later that they told me about the joint being passed up and down the row stopping before it got to me and I was oblivious. The only plays and performances that I've been to have been calm and respectful. I would hate whats going on now but that was a day I will never forget. I hope the shows you will see this week will go well. Enjoy GG

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    1. I’ve never liked Rocky horror , for the very reason I hate audience participation

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  16. Anonymous10:49 am

    Oh my daughter is your age John, did the same thing happen when you saw Rocky? GG

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  17. Anonymous11:57 am

    Proud American here but hanging my head in shame right now

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    1. Don’t, it’s only my experience for what it’s worth

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  18. None of my theater experiences in NYC, Boston, MA and London have featured the raucous behavior that you describe. I would probably leave the theater if something of a hysteria broke out.

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    1. I would have argued my corner and got into a fight lol

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  19. Singing along is fine if it's a specifically "singalong" play, film or concert, but not otherwise! I didn't pay the high ticket price to hear some untalented arsehole belt out the big tunes!

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    1. I think that most musicals now have a “ no singing” sign at the beginning alongside no phones no recording

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  20. Anonymous4:14 pm

    This is unacceptable, period. I would be furious if some idiot sang out during a play, when I came to hear professionals singing. And as for the theater manager who decided that drinks on stage during intermission would be a good way to bring in some extra money, boo hiss.
    Nina


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    1. The worst audience I ever experienced was a mostly American on on Broadway at the Phantom of the Opera . And that was just talking and chatting through the production

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  21. Here in the Seattle area of the US, I can no longer stand to attend concerts or music shows of any sort. The crowd sings along with every song so instead of hearing the band you paid to hear, you get to listen to the off key, flat and just plain terrible singers all around you. It doesn't matter if it is a local cover band or big name act. The problem is my husband is a musician and I no longer want to attend his shows.

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    1. I get this, and I guess it depends on the venue and the sound systems involved….my twin sister outsung Tom Jones singing SEX BOMB during his concert

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  22. I'm with you when it comes to being a bit of a show snob. Jukebox musicals (of the sort that encourage audience participation, overtly or not) are not my favorite things.

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    1. No, and I’m glad to say ( in my own snobby way) the more classy the production, the better behaved the audience tends to be

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  23. I don't what happened here in the states, but we seem to be physically incapable of STFU during live performances nowadays. I recall seeing a play on Broadway about ten years ago and having to contend with a woman seated in front of me eating unshelled nuts out of a plastic bag. WTF? And to the folk who think that they are Whitney Houston, I say take it to the karaoke bars, svp.

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    1. Lol…..did she crack them with her bare hands

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  24. happy as larry6:37 pm

    this blog is now pretending to be high brow.
    much prefer the tales of homely life although could do without those pretentious tales of having a 'bucket' of coffee and drying washing on the field gate and hedge and walking in the village in crocs hoping somebody notices. also wearing a holey jumper as you've seen others do the same and wanting to be like them pretending you hadn't noticed the holes.
    the best blogs are the honest ones.

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    1. Well thanks for the compliment and the criticism …I think that given the fact I go to the theatre more regularly that most , I have a right to comment on this subject more than most…….I should take your snideness as a compliment as you just don’t get me at all, which is sad for someone who obviously reads everything that I write
      Smacks of obsession

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    2. Ps if you don’t like it fuck off lol

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    3. Anonymous7:04 pm

      Well said john, some people have too much to complain about but read you avidly every day, I don’t get it…..as you say GO FIGURE

      Nerys

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    4. I think, for some people, leaving snide comments on blogs, is like picking a scab. They know (or at least should know) they shouldn't, but just can't help doing it!

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    5. Lol no more on the subject x

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    6. Hi flis, perhaps you don't realise when somebody is winding you up, that by constantly returning to check for replies you're encouraging them to continue. If you didn't retaliate then there wouldn't be any reason for them to continue. Unless of course you enjoy the repartee!
      When you comment that they're wasting their time I wonder how much of your own time is taken up with constantly returning here, I realise it can be a habit but a habit can be broken.
      I enjoy reading the comments almost as much as John's writing but I do find some of the comments tiresome and time wasting when someone replies to what is obviously a comment designed to wind up.
      There are few enough precious hours in our lives, what a shame to waste them on something so futile as repling to anonymous people just out to cause trouble.
      Namaste flis.

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  25. Anonymous7:13 pm

    oh no, maybe comment moderation was best (?)

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  26. Good for you, John. Civility seems to be in short supply these days.

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  27. pre·ten·tious
    [prēˈten(t)SHəs]
    ADJECTIVE
    attempting to impress by affecting greater importance, talent, culture, etc., than is actually possessed
    How is having a bucket of coffee and drying wash on the gate pretentious??? 😄

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    1. Anonymous3:41 pm

      It's in the descrption Linda, "Attempting to impress"

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  28. Being uncivil in any performance, is just rude. Kick them to the curb and move on.

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