Something Quite Beautiful



 I hung the fairy lights behind her bed and looped them around the tracking hoist.
We turned off the main lights and the support worker helped the patient into a pretty blouse.
I twisted the bottles of Prosecco into an improvised ice bucket made from a sharps bin and
We left the friends to enjoy their Chinese takeaway and drinks.

Sometimes nursing is dire, sometimes unforgiving,  mostly it’s a challenge , but often …it’s a pure joy.

I witnessed someing quite beautiful tonight, just before I left for home.
I knocked on the patient’s door to say goodbye
And saw four old friends sitting on a bed together like sisters do
They were all holding hands .
And very quietly , almost in a whisper they were singing as one
I recognised the chorus 
All I needed was the love you gave,

          all I needed for another day

          And all I ever knew, 

          Only you….. 

 

 

54 comments:

  1. Yorkshire Liz9:07 pm

    A perfect moment that stands outside time and tribulation and never to be forgotten by anyone concerned. Thank you for sharing that moment of magic. With a great song!

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  2. Anonymous9:22 pm

    I can only imagine the great joy you and your coworkers helped create was a very important part of the process in this person's journey. Just lovely. You were all part of something momentous, I believe
    Susan M from Calif

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    1. We all need to be able to say goodbye

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  3. If only we could each be surrounded by love to our last breath x 💙💗💨

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    1. Yes flis, I hope I find as much love when it’s my time

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  4. How beautiful to be blessed by such a moment in your final days.

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    1. Honest conversations made this happen

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  5. Joy to balance many other things

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  6. You and your coworkers created a very special event for your patient and her friends. It all sounds perfect. You went above and beyond to make this happen. This was an exemplary deed of kindness and generosity.

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    1. In a hospice this is not a rare event

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  7. Anonymous9:43 pm

    How lovely
    Alison in Wales x

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    1. Anon's real name fits the video. Maybe she also has a friend called Vince.

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  8. Your gift for helping to make it happen.....you heard the angels sing.

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  9. Typing this through the tears. Simple acts that brought so much joy. xx

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  10. Anonymous10:05 pm

    😪

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  11. Anonymous10:07 pm

    Anonymous or Libs… I answer to both… good friends have just run me home after treating me to an early bottle of wine with home cooked dinner for my birthday… I’m blessed..x

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  12. Anonymous12:33 am

    I got goose bumps, reading your... so moving

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  13. Beautiful. In my brother's hospice I held his hand and sang very quietly "Scarborough Fair" two days before he died. I don't know if he heard it for already he seemed far away.

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  14. Damselfly1:10 am

    Touchingly, achingly beautiful.
    Thank you for sharing.

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  15. Proof that there is goodness and love in the world still.

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  16. Barbara Anne4:51 am

    Beautiful, indeed. What a gift to the patiend, her friends, and to you staff members who made it possible. Another appropriate song ... :Unforgettable"

    Hugs!

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  17. When my time comes, I would love something similar.

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  18. A perfect moment at an imperfect time. Special memories made that will last a lifetime, however long or short that may be xx

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  19. Such a beautiful and touching moment. The best of human nature and love.

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  20. Thank you for what you do - it's a job I would love to do but I know I'd take it all to heart and it would destroy me.

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  21. I couldn’t handle the emotional challenges of the work you do, but moments like that are priceless and so uplifting.

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  22. Anonymous9:03 am

    How lovely, should we all be so lucky to have such friends when our time comes....

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  23. Traveller9:37 am

    There is a book in you John Gray….and I’ll buy a signed copy

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    1. Me too...in advance.

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    2. Traveller5:04 pm

      Dearest Anon
      Shouldn’t that first sentence of yours been broken into two sentences because you chose not to use a subordinating conjunction?

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    3. Anon
      People DO get their knickers in a twist !!!!

      I don’t pretend to use grammar properly here.
      I tend to use italics for peoples names , character names in. Movies and tv shows and when highlighting conversations
      I think it makes it easier to read the post.

      But I stand corrected
      Oh good I’ve written !!!!!!!
      To many exclamation marks !!

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    4. Traveller
      Nice reply

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    5. Anonymous3:18 pm

      Traveller - if you read Anon's second sentence you'll see they don't profess to always be correct.
      By attempting to be a clever dick you've just made a fool of yourself.
      Sam

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    6. Anonymous9:32 am

      Chill Sam, chill

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  24. If that was me at the end JG, I would feel truly blessed X

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  25. Joan (Devon)10:52 am

    An ending can't get much better.

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  26. Hearts as big as the moon,

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  27. Oh John, I am crying into my hankie this morning. How wonderful.

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  28. If I could give the thing I value most to others, it would be the deep, abiding love of my dear friends, my soul sisters. How fitting they could be together in life, and in death. Precious.

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  29. Sounds like a beautiful moment, John! I didn't know that song before. Thanks for sharing this sweetness with me!

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  30. I read this with a lump in my throat.

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  31. What a wonderful thing to witness. A truly sweet moment.

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  32. Thank you for the comments , nice to think so many were moved with what I saw xx

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