Trelawnyd Pre Christmas

 
Mrs Trellis marshalling one of my field open days a few years ago
The Hat!!

It was dark yesterday afternoon, when there was a tiny tap tap tap at the Lane window.
It was so quiet even Mary missed it.
It was Mrs Trellis with a gift,a card and some bad news.
Farmer Basil’s sister Mona had passed away last Monday 
She was in her nineties and he is in his eighties, and they both had shared the glorious old  Georgian farmhouse overlooking the village  since they were children.
The farmhouse is called ochr y Gop ( side of the Gop Hill)
I invited Mrs Trellis in but she refused due to covid, so we talked in the dark wet cold until my teeth chattered 
Mrs Trellis is cooking a partridge for Christmas dinner……a pheasant, she informed me, if Basil accepts a plate.
This morning I popped up to Ochr Y Gop with cake and a sympathy card , Basil is a darling man and one who has always been kind to me. His sister, Mona was the school mistress at Gwaenysgor School ( our neighbour village) in the 1940s, and also often cooked a mean ( and bloody massive) scotch egg for my flowers show’s cooking section….I remember that they looked like robust hand grenades 
The chimney still has not been fixed as yet so I’m relying on oil heaters to take the chill off the cottage
Without the fire , the living room lacks cheer so last night I lit the candles on the mantle to warm the living room 


Chic Eleanor has  just messaged……she’s had a hard week all told 
” Darling John “ she trilled breathlessly  “ Meet me for a G&T at 5 pm,……I insist ! “
I was touched as I always seem to be by her

The last bit of morning, I’ve been pottering around the village. I dropped off matching Christmas decorations to affable Despot Jason’s girls , both still in their pyjamas I must say. 
Liv, who is twelve tomorrow, lay on the couch covered in a blanket with her computer games. She saluted me cheerfully, eyes not leaving the screen.
I think I’ve forgotten what it’s like to be a pre teen off school.

I dropped off final cards and got home after midday to a sweet bowl of hyacinths and card left by Bridget & Family who live on Well Street. She had pushed chocolates into the card envelope.
Colin the postie dropped me a personal card on his rounds, I left him a small bottle of port.
I’ve just opened the last of the posted Christmas cards
And sat quietly with the dogs at the melancholy some of them caused
Hey ho
The bulbs were infact a gift from the village nursery 

Anyhow !
Tomorrow I’m meeting up with Gorgeous Dave in the afternoon for a brusque ( brisk? )  walk, Villagers velvet Voiced Linda and hubby , for an hour, early evening with a bottle of nice Sherry  and my Sheffield friends Jane and Mike on zoom at 10 pm so socially Christmas Eve has seemed to have worked itself out alright.

I’m cleaning Bluebell in the morning at the jet wash.
A real treat in itself .

Thank you to everyone who has sent me a card or gift. I’ve been very touched by everything received
I will leave you with Madge & Bisket 






65 comments:

  1. I know several people with non functioning fireplaces who put fairy lights in with some pretty white bark birch logs. It's very festive.

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  2. Have you tried the shotgun solution. Fire a shotgun up the chimney, and all with be fixed; even it it all falls down!

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    1. Lol now there’s a plan ….. thank you for your email today cro xxx

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  3. Will your chimney be fixed in time for Christmas - do hope so. Otherwise I think Karen's idea will at least make it look warmer. What a lovely village you live in John - I can feel the warmth of all your neighbours and friends from here.

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    1. Don’t worry pat , I have heaters xx

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  4. Joan (Devon)2:05 pm

    And that is why, understandably, you wanted to stay. The people of the village aren't neighbours, but family.

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  5. Alternative heating will do for a short time and candles and fairy lights certainly add ambiance. That said, you need your fireplace working! What's the holdup? Sending sympathy on the loss of your friend and neighbor Mona.

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    1. The company I’ve worked with before, they are popular and busy

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  6. Mrs Trellis suits a hat-she has a knack of making them most stylish x

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    1. Thank you for your gift today flis x

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  7. Barbara Anne2:31 pm

    What a wonderful post that greeted me this morning. Love the photo of Mrs Trellis and am glad to read news of chic Eleanor, Gorgeous Dave, affable Jason and daughters, Linda and hubby, Colin, Bridget and family, and Mike and Jane. It seems I've gotten news from distant friends!
    My sympathy to dear Basil, too. This is such a sad time of year to lose someone. Did Mona ever teach you to make a grenade size Scotch egg?
    I vote for fairy lights in the fireplace, too.

    Christmas Eve eve hugs!

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  8. Sorry to hear that Farmer Basil will have a sad Christmas. As you and Mrs Trellis have already shown, I'm sure the village will rally around him in his time of loss.

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    1. I hope so , he’s been invisible for a long time now because of ill health

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  9. What a lovely, warm village you live in. I'm so glad you're surrounded by good people this Christmas. They're so lucky to have you in their fold as well.

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    1. I think generally covid has brought out the best in people everywhere.

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  10. Re. Madge and Bisket: That's what they call "beer goggles," LOL!

    I love how tight-knit your village is. You're having quite a social time!

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    1. I’m glad you like Madge and Bisket.
      I’m an avid follower

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  11. Merry Christmas John. xx

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  12. Just as a village should be

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    1. In Sheffield with my friends , it was the same too

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    2. Sheffield is indeed a friendly place.
      I hope you have a very Happy Christmas.

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  13. A pheasant is a pheasant and a partridge is a partridge, neither of them can be both. A brisk walk is what I assume you are going on unless you are planning to be short with another. A lot of people were around my village outpost today and delivered cards and I did the same. I gave the postman a tenner. He is also called Colin.

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    1. Rachel, before I go out to run my last few pre-Christmas errands (make that "rectifying errors"), thanks for the smile. Pheasant and partridge. Brusque and brisk. Still, as I keep banging on about the famed British and beautiful "giving people the benefit of the doubt", John was probably in a rush. He usually is.

      A tenner for the postman? That's good of you. If there are three things that makes my heart sing they are generosity of heart, of purse and, not least, of mind.

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    2. Rach
      As always I think I’ve covered the bases and realise I never have
      Mrs Trellis explained that she was cooking a partridge for herself on Christmas Day …but if she was cooking for Basil she would cook a bigger pheasant ( I hope that brings some clarity )
      I was given the port and recycled it , Colin was very pleased
      As for brusque I always thought it means brisk , I stand corrected lol
      Villages come more alive when people are hand delivering cards..it’s a phenomenon of village life, never seen anywhere else

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  14. Your village 'stories' are always amazing and make me wonder why I ever left my own in England. Of course I didn't expect to never go home again after the planned one year working over here - which has now reached 59!!!
    Thank you John for sharing yet another year of village living - and please don't ever move to the city!!!!
    Happy Christmas, stay well, be happy - and here's to great year ahead for all.
    Hugs - Mary

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    1. Mary , it’s not uncommon in villages everywhere , see Rachel’s comment. The difference between our blogs is that I bang in about village life and she doesn’t

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    2. The same is also true about communities within big cities, they can be like villages, like you said Sheffied too; Norwich is known locally as one big village.

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    3. I'm in a village but though there is a lot to be involved with-I don't though as my time is filled with the dogs and no energy left-When I feel like it I pop in but not a daily or weekly commitment x

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    4. Yes rach, Sheffield is renown for it as are big towns in the east

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    5. Flis
      Sometimes it’s just being visible to others that opens things up.

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  15. Condolences to Farmer Basil. I know the village will surround him with love. You seem to have Christmas Eve all sorted. I agree with others, logs and fairy lights in the hearth will make it feel warmer. My Mum always called the lights on the electric fire "the psychologicals". Makes you feel warmer even if there's no heat! Wishing you a safe, happy Christmas, and a much, much better New Year! xx

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    1. Perhaps I should watch this on YouTube

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siZ-oI95rlM

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    2. Perfect video! Ta! xx

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    3. I may rest my iPad in the grate

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  16. What a wonderful morning post today, but sorry to hear about Farmer Basil.
    It seems you will have your holiday days filled up. That is fabulous.
    It is very quiet here for us.. Brothers Open Heart Surgery has been postponed because of massive outbreak of covid here. No beds or nurses.
    I told Daughter's family to stand outside their home and I will drive by with the top down on the car and just toss the gift out. She doesn't have a chimmy so I think this might work !! !
    Merry Christmas !
    xx

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    1. I hope he gets rescheduled soon. I’m hearing the staff at my local hospital are all going down again with the new variant
      So far the hospice staff are intact…but we’ve days before omicron hits wales

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    2. Nice to hear that your Hospice is so far OK !
      It is massively super bad here in Tucson/Pima County.

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  17. Sounds like you have a bit of fun planned! Enjoy the holidays and stay safe, John! xx

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  18. Nadolig llawen John. All the best. 🎅🎅🎅🎅

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    1. Nadolig Llawen a Blwyddyn Newydd Dda i ti
      Xx

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  19. G&T with Chic Eleanor - I'm so envious!

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  20. Happy Christmas John dear. Thank you for blogging every day it's a happy part of my morning to read about your life and the village. I love the comments (tho I don't comment much which is a bit rude, I know). Happy Christmas to all your followers too. They are lovely people. I hope we have a happier 2022 x

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    1. I hope so too
      Blogging daily is something that is just a part of me

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  21. Just a holiday hug from California.

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  22. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas from S. Colorado ... may the New Year be filled with health, happiness and a raise in your paychecks!!

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    1. Amen
      And my love is sent to you over the pond x

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  23. Ah, the lovely village life of John the Dogs! I hope you and your family and friends (including the fur babies) have a peaceful and happy Christmas. Cheers!

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    1. And I’m sending my love to my best lesbian follower ( that I know of ) lol

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  24. If Chic Eleanor is touching you inappropriately you should speak to someone in authority. Lovely picture of angelic Mrs Trellis to begin this blogpost.

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    1. I’ve just returned from The Crown after two and a half hours in her company …we had a lovely time

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  25. You have a very full and also fulfilling life, it seems to me. Of course, there is loneliness too and yes, melancholy. I hope that the light from your candles, your friends' and family's hearts, dispel most of the darkness.

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    1. You understand the darkness better than most
      Thank you for those words x
      Merry Christmas to you x

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  26. I love your stories! The hand delivered gifts and chit chat with neighbors is something we don’t have much of here in the U.S. I’ve recently learned that it’s possible to be lonely even with people around. It will be a contemplative Christmas for me; maybe just what I need. Merry Christmas, John!

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  27. I have been trying to send you a photo of a Christmas center piece on our family table. I thought you might enjoy it. Merry Christmas https://photos.google.com/photo/AF1QipMDLc3ur9IYPGzSbUa9KrhaoWTMMnCOAs7c7oof

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    1. Can you try again , there was an error on the link xx

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  28. So sorry to hear about Basil's sister. What a sad time for him, especially if he is unwell too.
    I expect your animals are missing the comfort of the fire very much too, as there is nothing quite like it to curl up in front of in winter.

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