It was shared to me by Hattie
It’s a poem that suits her
All of us who write blogs, have something in common
We leave a little of ourselves here, for always.
I leave a journal of a small life.
One looked on benignly.
One based on reality but one which is gently sanitised, idealised and seen through an optimistic hue
(With occasional warts for balance of course)
I’m melancholy tonight
The dogs know it and have crowded around
Albert , pragmatic as ever, is by himself in front of the fire.
My nephew has just texted with a grown up I will treat you to lunch when we meet in November
He has Aspergers and is 18 so his comment was sweetly atypical
I’ve cut the lawn, washed windows, gardened, visited the vets , got stuck in traffic, shopped and spring cleaned the bathroom
Oh and I had a meeting about the pond with the avuncular Nick from the apt sounding Well Street
I disregarded by diet and treated myself to cheese and crackers for tea
But I’m still melancholy
I’m feeling lonely today
Just today
Hugs. xx
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DeleteYou are not alone my darling I and everyone else are virtually sending you huge love and hugs and if l were to meet you in person you beautiful man the bear hug l would give you would crack your ribs. Hang on in there my lovely tomorrow is another day xxxx
ReplyDeleteI’m fine just a bit sad today x
DeleteMore hugs!
ReplyDeleteYou would be squashed if you could feel all the virtual hugs we are sending you! xx
Oh I’m not complaining charlotte . I just occasionally miss some to bounce against at home x
DeleteI am sorry/ sad that you're lonely. I am lonely too. But I swam in the ocean today, it was good.
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And I sat in the garden in the sun and it was good xx
DeleteThis is what I say to myself when I'm either sad or lonely "you have to have bad days to recognize and appreciate the good days, Ruth so buck it up Buttercup". It doesn't cure my blues but it puts it into perspective. XO Roooth in Oxnard CA > USA
ReplyDeleteGet over it and watch or listen to the news. How can anyone feel sorry for themselves with what's going on in the world today.
ReplyDelete"lonliness" is an inward thinking complaint.
Oh do fuck off
DeleteYou pious fuck
ReplyDeleteSending you big tight hugs.you let go first.
ReplyDeleteMy melancholy does not go away by watching the news. WTF - Different anonymous, can't remember my password.
ReplyDeleteI wish you to meet a lovely man who will love you as you deserve John-There could be the perfick one here on your blog-I hope you don't mind me suggesting it but could you perhaps arrange a private web type chat for a possible meet up xx
ReplyDeletethe ups and downs of life! all of the days that make us think are good ones.
ReplyDeleteYou feel sorry for yourself, and the world, because of what is going on in the world today. That's pretty basic, isn't it? And it takes a brave soul to admit his loneliness to the world. Take a bow, John.
ReplyDeleteA meet up with your nephew sounds great. He is a sweet and thoughtful young man. Everybody, without exception, feels lonely occasionally. It is hard. My meditation for feeling distressed is: Accept things exactly as they are because they are already here. Don't judge. Allow yourself to feel as you do. It is okay. Deep inhale on reading each sentence and exhale at the end (letting go).
ReplyDeleteSending love and warm wishes...
Wish I could hug you. I cried today because I’m tired of being alone and would love to feel someone’s arms around me.
ReplyDeleteYou are the lives you have touched,
ReplyDeleteThe difference you have made
From a distance, or in contact.
Wish you were here, in one of your favorite cities.
Love the poem and it's certainly one for each and every person to take to heart. Ta to you and to Hattie for sharing it.
ReplyDeleteMy friend, look around your home and here at your blog to see all of the ways friends far away have shown they care for you and about you.
If only Scottie had perfected the Transporter, we'd be there to eat you out of house and home in a heartbeat - or maybe we'd each bring food for a magnificent buffet?
Big hugs!
Your story the other day of cloud watching and napping with the girls in the garden is so endearing.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your world, we do.
Sometimes, on days like these, it is too bad that your blogging friends couldn't be gathered up and seated in your garden. There would be so much laughter, loneliness would simply evaporate.
ReplyDeleteNow that would be a good day out. John should organise a big garden party fund raiser. We'd flock to Trelawnyd from all over the country.
DeleteI think that the garden would not be big enough....we would need several large fields for all John's blog friends!
DeleteWe could spill into the church. Another good reason to keep it open.
DeleteBeautiful poem! Thank you for sharing it. And thank you, too, for sharing snippets of your life with readers all over the world. Often bringing a smile to the day. Or a laugh. Or a tear.
ReplyDeleteWhen you're feeling lonely, just read all the comments from your many friends around the world. Count me as one, John. Just now I thought of Charlie Watts. Play some rock and roll, pal, and turn it up loud.
ReplyDeleteSomething to do with living alone John? For the first time in my life I have days like that but they pass. Blog friends help me enormously - dogs would do too if I could stay upright enough to take one for walks - I miss Tess. But just remember you give out huge amounts of love and care to your patients, your blog friends, the villagers - you are the most loving, caring person and know.
ReplyDeleteIt's funny how loneliness works even if you are in a relationship or with a group of people it can suddenly strike - no rhyme or reason for it. Hopefully a good night's sleep will restore your balance. The poem is very good. x
ReplyDeleteHey John. Don't feel down love. Come and spend a day with me and I'll treat you to lunch too.
ReplyDeletelovely poem, i hope the lonely feeling soon passes xx
ReplyDeleteLovely poem. Thinking of you x
ReplyDeleteSometimes you just have to ride it out . Being kind to yourself, with a ‘treat’ meal was sensible. I hope a night’s sleep will restore you. That poem is gentle and insightful. Embracing what you are, including the unfinished bits is hard though.
ReplyDeleteLiking the poem . . .
ReplyDeleteMelancholy sneaks in for me when I least expect . . .
causing me to rearrange . . . breathe . . .
it changes me up . . .
for a minute, plus two . . .
I have the lonely times too John. It's a shame we can't always find the one we need. Words help but don't really substitute for that touch, hug and closeness that a real person gives.
ReplyDeleteMy grandma died 51 years ago and I have a spider plant ancestor of her one-I am quite neglectful of houseplants-I used to drown them but now wait until they ask-money plant,peace lily,Christmas cactus a few others and good luck flinging untidily everywhere x
ReplyDeleteSilly billy me meant to reply on your next post John x
DeleteWhat a lovely poem John I will pass it on, your a wise man like you said "lonely today" just today JUST being the key word recognizing that melancholy is fleeting and tomorrow is a new day.
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