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I have slept on and off for most of the day and feel ok except for a persistent headache.
The many kindnesses of today have been a tonic better than any doctor could prescribe and although
I don't want to labour the point into something that sounds something saccharine, I can't quite get over the thoughtfulness of others
Today Emma from The Old Crown dropped off her own hens eggs and homemade soup, and more eggs were dropped off by the gate by Heulwen and Derek only a short time before Greta bearing gin popped by.
Jason marched Mary around the Gop and Trendy Carol took the bulldogs all afternoon and Dr Polly and her daughters sent me a video from home wishing me well.
The phone has rung and clicked with scores of messages as I've slept and Sailor John and velvet voiced Linda, ( the head of the street warden initiative) have physically called around to see if I was still breathing.
And at 6pm, as it started to rain, Bridget from Well street left her family to walk across the village with a hot roast dinner just for me.
A home cooked meal a panacea against all known ills

I could have lost my cottage during my divorce
And I am so glad I fought to keep it and was able to remain

These last three weeks of shutdown have underlined that I am indeed home

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  1. X's and O's to you, John.
    Your community sounds like a bit of heaven, complete with angels.
    -Kate

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    1. I have a feeling that thousands of communities rural and city led are experiencing similar kindnesses

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  2. yes, you are home. your dinner looks lovely.

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  3. So relieved you're fighting the virus well and so many are watching out for you! The villagers are wonderful folk. And that dinner looks so good. Now back to sleep and more rest! X

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  4. Anonymous7:02 pm

    You are truly Blessed! How nice to live in such a loving and caring village... you belong there.
    Cali G

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  5. Sending love. Funny John Gray, I know more about you than my brothers, and in this strange virtual world of blogging, I think more about you. Sending a bit more love to go with the bit I sent at the beginning xxx

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  6. I think you are wrapped in a fluffy,warm blanket of love John by those who really care x

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  7. That is wonderful. To be so loved. And my goodness, that meal is not too shabby either!!!

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  8. How lovely and thoughtful your village family are. Take care, hope the headache eases soon x

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  9. It is good to live in a community John. This has made me cry a bit. Good people are in your village, I am glad you are still in the cottage!

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  10. I would have fought tooth and nail to stay there too. You are indeed home and long may you remain there.

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    1. I could have been in some small flat all alone su , that was on the cards too

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  11. Fantastic looking grub right there! Yummo... love the people in your village...a village full of warm hugs, unselfish deeds and as flis said a blanket of love. Dog walkers, dog babysitters, lovely home cooks and egg sharers... wonderful! You are indeed home! Well done to all concerned. Take care one and all!

    Jo in Auckland

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  12. Anonymous7:18 pm

    John, all I can say is that looks delicious. So, so glad you are doing well. You are just where you should be. I also am happy that you have been able to stay put in your village. Don't think you could have ever found a better place. Hugs.

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  13. this makes me so happy. if i lived there i would feed you too. i hope you are well soon!

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    1. I'm going to be the sise of a house soon

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  14. You were meant to be in that community. I get the impression it would not have been the same without your presence, had you not remained in the cottage.

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  15. I'm so glad you have all this support and yes, that you were able to keep your home and your community. I hope the headache is the worst of it!

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    1. Me too Steve,,
      You and your hubby keep safe in London x

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  16. What a lovely looking dinner! You are where you belong John with people who love you! x

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  17. Get well soon , you fing if you are good yo others they will be good to you. God bless, Ali xxx

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  18. I'm so glad you've got friends watching out for you!

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  19. and loved. Ranee (MN) USA

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  20. Marilyn Westphal7:30 pm

    I am absolutely thrilled that you got to stay in your cottage within your wonderful village.

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  21. I was thinking of you earlier, when talking on the phone to my mum, and telling her my dear friend from Wales,may have contracted the virus. That's how close we all feel to you, I'm obviously on another continent but feel close at heart.
    Rest well John,
    Hugs,
    Jo
    X

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  22. Home sweet home.

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  23. Barbara Anne7:38 pm

    What a delicious meal kind Bridget brought to you and it does make a wonderful photo. It's good to hear that you're feeling some better and that the good wishes and assistance provided by you neighbors is a good medicine.

    I echo what Jo said, we're far away, but feel very close in friendship.

    Hugs!

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  24. You are indeed home. Add me to the very long list of people sending good wishes from afar.

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  25. Thinking of you and wishing you well.

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  26. SO glad to read that you are managing to eat and enjoy the wonderful kindness of your friends in the village. This is what community is all about. You are indeed home - and hope you never need to leave. I bet the dogs all think it's Christmas with lots of walks and fusses made. Get Well Soon John.

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  27. Anonymous7:52 pm

    When really unselfish and loving hearts are joined what goes around comes around, John. Your ever giving heart and actions are why you're loved by so many,near or far away from you. xx oo - Mary

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  28. When I saw your photo I did a double take! I thought you and your virus went out for Easter dinner at the cafe! It looks delicious, how fortunate you are. And I am so relieved you are up and able to post, I have been so worried. Sending love and get well Easter wishes, from NY.

    lizzy

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  29. Sarah7:56 pm

    Wishing you a speedy recovery xx

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  30. A village pulling together to keep an eye on you and caring. Can't fault it xx

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  31. You have wonderful neighbours and friends. To echo what some have already said, after reading your blog for so long now, I feel like you are the first person "I know" to have potentially (but hopefully not) have contracted the virus. You are being well looked after and hopefully things will continue to be relatively mild, soon to be over. Hugs from Canada, -Jenn

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  32. They love you in Trelawnyd, John, and quite rightly so! I hope that headache subsides soon.

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  33. It really does "take a village" and fortunately you has one of the best that's for certain John!
    I keep coming here to look for you - getting quite nervous when you haven't appeared. Thanks be you seem to be doing OK - and your neighbors are incredible.
    Keep calm and keep on, say I.
    Love at Easter, Mary

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  34. There's no place like home. So glad you are healing. Love and hugs.

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  35. Rest, take care, wish we were closer.

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  36. I did cry when I read about the love and warmth you are surrounded by, but then you do the same for others. x

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  37. You are lucky man John. I sure wished I lived in a village such as yours. Glad you are on the mend. Though it has been a strange one, Happy Easter.

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  38. I expected nothing less John. I knew the whole village would rally behind you - take care of yourself and stay home and safe for now.

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  39. I have kept checking in to see if you have posted. so glad you are being looked after, you and your furry friends. I have been telling my family how you are doing. We all feel for you and I send love and hugs , get well soon dear John. xxx
    Kathy

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  40. LikeMary above I have been coming here on and off all day lookin for you. Glad you were well enough to post.

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  41. Relieved and happy to hear that you feel well enough to post. Pleased (but not at all surprised) that your real life friends are pitching in to keep you fed and loved. Keep getting better. We need you.

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  42. What wonderful friends and neighbors you have!

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  43. ....and what a wonderful home you have too,Hope you are still sleeping.

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  44. Your neighbours are glad you are still there too! Keep safe, and keep blogging if you can, because we'll all be checking in.

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  45. You reap what you sow John, you’ve given so much support to the village and they are now looking out for you..speedy recovery...Tweetart

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  46. Like so many others I have been checking in all day to see if you felt well enough to post - thank goodness you did. Sleep well tonight, John, surrounded by all your caring Trelawnyd friends, and I hope the headache is gone by the morning x

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  47. one foot. next foot. repeat

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  48. What you write, it feels like you got a warm hug from an entire village. You are blessed.

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    1. And it's not an exaggeration....it's all perfectly true

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  49. Anonymous10:07 pm

    Hi John, sorry I haven't posted for such a long time, but I always read your blog and the comments, though sometimes three or four days in one go. I am so sorry that you might have this virus, I pray that it is a mild version, or something else benign and fast going. So glad that you managed to stay in the village and your lovely cottage, with your adorable pets and wonderful, caring neighbours. A few more meals and soup like that, cooked and delivered to you should have you fighting fit in no time. Just don't go rushing back to work before you've had time to recuperate and get your land legs ready for the busy job you do. Take very good care of yourself young man, and stay safe, lots of love, Terry in Reigate xxx

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    1. Thank you Terry , it's been a long time

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  50. Anonymous10:24 pm

    Sorry, but if you have been patting the dogs, then they go and spend the afternoon in the home of someone else who pats the dogs, and with a virus that apparently spreads by touch... Sounds like a perfect route to spread the virus, if you have it. Are we not supposed to be avoiding touching anything touched by members of other households?

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    1. I have kept touch to a minimum and have bathed the dogs too
      Carol and jason are taking clear precautions too

      Let's get real,here too eh?
      You are not the only person who thinks of stuff you know anon!!!!

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    2. Anonymous10:49 pm

      And you are not the only person clearly breaching clear social distancing rules. But from a nurse it is surprising. How strongly you react to anyone who dares to post anything but saccharine sycophancy. I am merely genuinely concerned. Goodbye.

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    3. No , Ursula , I have reacted to you with a rational and measured argument
      I even wear gloves when touching the dogs leads
      You continue to argue

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    6. Sorry, John, delete me as much as you like. Doesn't alter the fact that I am NOT anon.

      Here is an idea: Maybe the true Anon can do the honorable thing and come forward.

      U

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  51. And pudding as well, you are loved and respected in your village John, that is obvious. Hope you continue to improve, we are nearly three weeks into pretty much total lockdown - hope it works. Numbers declining rapidly - recoveries outstripping new cases. Sadly our deaths have been elderly who have all had pre exisitng conditions - so sad for their families though. Take care and much Aroha.

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  52. I'm moving to Wales. What nice friends and neighbors you have there. Continue to feel better.
    Barb in USA

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  53. As the actress said to the bishop - Is that pork? There's enough meat on that plate to feed a family of four. It's nice to hear that you are coping with whatever it is - COVID or not.

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  54. All those times I have read about your many kindnesses towards others have come back to roost, dear John.
    I am so glad you were able to stay where you belong - in Trelawnyd!

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  55. Home is where the heart is...true that! Take care.

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  56. Anonymous12:26 am

    It was always hard to imagine you living anywhere else.

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  57. "Anything from John" has been an early morning query in this house while we anxiously waited to see how your illness played out. Glad you are feeling better.

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  58. I was so happy when you fought to keep your cottage and village !
    You all works so well together.
    parsnip

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  59. Along with everyone else except Anonymous, I'm glad you were able to make the decisions and changes in your life that allowed you to stay in your cottage. And I'm glad the village has your back, all the time and especially in these challenging times. Feel better soon. Or as the man said to his dog, "Heal!"

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  60. As bad as things are, the world has changed into a kinder place. Kindness begets kindness and it is coming back two fold to you.

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  61. We all said you'd be crazy to move; the proof!

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  62. This is so sweet, it brought a little tear to my eye. Glad you have found your home. <3

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  63. Well, I've got some catching up to do. I hope you're feeling better, and I'm so glad that you're staying put, it has always sounded like a wonderful place. Be well, my friend.

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  64. Looking good, JayGee, though still too early to count one's chickens. Let's push that pesky headache out the door and get you back to your operating best. I'n not uncrossing fingers for you yet, but maybe will be able to soonish.

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  65. I am so glad to hear you are being looked after by loving neighbours x

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  66. Absolutely wonderful!! What a heart warming post. The kindness and thoughtfulness of others is just amazing in these uncertain worrying times. No wonder you feel at home and thank goodness you have been able to stay in your gorgeous cottage surrounded by so many kind, thoughful, caring souls. You are indeed home and obviously very well loved. You're a lucky man.

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  67. I am so pleased and relieved to read that you are doing well and are so clearly loved by your neighbours. You are indeed home xxx

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  68. Surrounded by love and kindness, what a worthwhile fight to stay. Village life would have been the poorer without you. Get your health back, your wealth is the love that surrounds you in Trelawnyd.

    LX

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  69. The first thing I did after my divorce was create a new home for me. 15 years later it is my save place.

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  70. Great news and what lovely friends and neighbours you have. Your ex must have been a fool to leave such a place.

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  71. Looking at that dinner, i fear a coronary will take you sooner than Corona....

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