The Sooty cupboards are now empty and the mortuary type black plastic rubbish bags are in growing lines outside the backdoor.
Papers have been read and filed
Christmas decorations of happier times wiped clean and boxed.
It's therapy time for the old and the unused.
Old photographs will be posted away tomorrow.
I buffed the silver teapot my mother gave to me when she was drunk until it gleamed
And the Virgin Mary sent to me by Charles in the south of France has been dusted.
I'm not religious but I can't quite place her in the unwanted bin...it wouldn't seem right.
Twelve shelves in two faded green cupboards
57 years of someone's life
School reports, nursing certificates, and a graceful Staffordshire flatback greyhound bought from a Lincolnshire antique shop one romantic Sunday.
I polished him and placed him in the window
A Garfield with sooty eyes still smelling very slightly of 1980s perfume
Old pens, a screwdriver with a Scotty dog bitten handle
A pebble in the shape of a heart
£3.42 in change
16 old batteries
A cheap vase my grandmother once held, I saved that....
I could go on ..........
But I haven't the time
Well done sir. A bit of Swedish death cleaning is in order at my place too.
ReplyDeleteJulie
Swedish death?
DeleteGetting your house in order, cleaned and sorted. And keeping only that which brings you happiness and that you don't mind people sorting through after your death.
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DeleteI love a good clear out and clean. puts my brain in order
ReplyDeleteControl
DeleteWe're doing some Marie Kondo-ing as well. Must be the time of year. :)
ReplyDeleteI have the rest of the house to do
DeleteWhy do we all collect such 'stuff'? My wife is off to the dump this afternoon; your mania is catching.
ReplyDeleteTaking your wife to the dump seems a bit extreme though...
DeleteThree bin bags here to the tip one to the charity shop
Deletei am closing in on my 59th year - and i have been looking at the things that i have carried with me in my life - i have started clearing out too. Some of the things just seem to way us down and at this stage of my life i don't need them anymore. i wish you well!
ReplyDeleteThe stuff I want to keep moved me today. To hold and look at things long since held and looked at
DeleteThat makes me think of all the things I lost when they were in my house that torn down and put it dump. I had no chance to make a decision.
ReplyDeleteHow awful .....how awful
DeleteCathartic and practical. We hold onto things until we are ready to release them or ready to deal with them. Emotional release has to come in its own time and place. Practical head v the heart doesn't always come out with logical outcomes but each to their own at their own pace and in their own time. xx
ReplyDeleteNicely put x
DeleteI've been letting go go go. My little house doesn't like being overfilled and so I am making lots of boxes of clothing and stuff and freeing myself of it all.
ReplyDeleteMy megre clothes collection next
DeleteGod save the Virgin Mary
ReplyDeleteHe did
DeleteYou'll have room for your fat ponies now!
ReplyDeletePride of place
Deleteat least you found money!
ReplyDeleteNot enough
DeleteI admit I'm a horder & a clothes horse they say. I have tons of clothes I don't wear but hang on to them because I love them. Yes, love them...the fabric, the cut, the style. I grew up very poor living on dirt floors with no electric or running water. I attribute my hording to growing up poor...at least that's my excuse. I do keep a fairly clean house and yes I deep clean at least once a year and throw out some stuff...even clothes.
ReplyDeleteNo excuse needed dearheart x
DeleteI need to do that too. It's hard to be ruthless but what a great feeling to get stuff out of the house. It weighs you down.
ReplyDeleteI've never felt weighed down, but I suspect I have been
DeleteInspiring!
ReplyDeleteXx
Deletethe problem with going to thrift shops is that i always picture all of my stuff there after i die. so, i've started giving a lot of stuff away. right now, i have 6 boxes of dishes, vases, etc. packed and ready to be delivered to a girl that just got her first job as a cook, moved out of her parents home and has nothing of her own. i don't know her but i bet she will like getting all of these things. sometimes gifts from a stranger are the best.
ReplyDeleteMy removal of the clutter has freed up some head clutter
DeleteDo you feel lighter and brighter as a consequence? I hope so!
ReplyDeleteLXX
Satisfied
DeleteI need to follow your example. Bigly I need to follow your example.
ReplyDeleteYes you do
DeleteA friend of mine recently had a fire. Had made me give my head a shake and set to!
ReplyDeleteA bad accidental fire?
DeleteSpring cleaning in January? You're ahead of me but I applaud your progress.
ReplyDeleteWill you paint the shelves/wall before putting things back in place? Have you chosen a paint color yet?
Hugs!
No, I've scrubbed them clean ....the. Living room will bewallpapered with a gentle yellow
DeleteGentle yellow wallpaper sounds lovely. :)
DeleteHugs!
It is good.
ReplyDeleteI love washing the glassware the best thing. Washing it, making it sparkle and replacing it precisely
DeleteCrackin. Very impressed.
ReplyDeleteCheers molly
DeleteNow you and your home will attract happy times John.I have to make the effort too but I am ashamed to say I have piles of stuff stagnating around me.It is very intimidating x
ReplyDeleteI did it when we left my house in Sheffield , that was 2005 , so today's sort out is only 15 years of life
DeleteWell done! Bet you feel all the better for that. I think I'd find a quiet corner for the virgin.
ReplyDeleteShe's on the top shelf behind my armchair
DeleteFrom there she's looking over me
Clearing out is such an emotional experience, I think its why we put it off. It's good when its done though don't you think?. xx
ReplyDeleteYes...very freeing
DeleteI too am having a clear out... too much stuff that I haven't used for a while. My spare room is bursting with stuff that will eventually be used around the house once totally decorated but then there is "the other stuff" that is the collected stuff that was put there as I couldn't quite bear to part with it but didn't know what to do with it. It took me 3.5 hours of constant sorting and throwing just to find the top of the office desk the other day. It's a start, but certainly a work in progress. Chucking stuff out makes one feel better in the long run but usually happens when one can't stand the clutter!
ReplyDeleteJo in Auckland
I was at it for 5 hours solid
DeleteToo long.
DeleteI have to finish things ..I cannot leave them halfway through
Delete"The Sooty Cupboards"? Hell, how many Sooties have you got? I bet you have got at least one Sweep and maybe a Sue too. And knowing you I bet you have got a Ramsbottom!
ReplyDeleteHummm there's nothing like rams bottom!!
DeleteHard physically and emotionally but very therapeutic - and a lot less dusting to do.
ReplyDeleteFour bin bags so far!!
DeleteSpring cleaning in midwinter. John is way ahead of the time (or very far behind, perhaps).
ReplyDeleteFar behind.."ohso far behind x
DeleteIt's not spring here yet, so no cleaning here yet either. Not that we couldn't use it.
ReplyDeleteI find I'm such a visual person I value things for the memories they bring me, not necessarily for their intrinsic beauty. That leads to a lot of keeping of "junky" things. Multiply that by two such people in one house and it's hard to get the clutter under control.
When you are ready, just take photos of all the memorabilia and let them go on to another life elsewhere....sooo space saving.
DeleteGood idea x
DeleteI think the cleaning part of my day is more therapeutic than the. Chucking out
ReplyDeleteThe cleaning was more therapeutic than the throwing out
ReplyDeleteYou are so smart to do that. I need to come up with a plan I can stick with so I don't give up due to being overwhelmed.
ReplyDeleteSmart. Naw... just sick of the dirt x
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ReplyDeleteSorry for the delete, corrected a typo . . .
ReplyDeleteSomethings we are ready to recycle, toss . . .
And some things always stay from year, after year, after year.
Appears others have the “Spring Cleaning bug” as well!
I’d be keeping the Staffordshire flatback greyhound for sure.
I have held on to a beautiful small Nippon vase, from the early sixties.
It held pens pencils . . . at my MIL’s desk.
Much too lovely for pens and pencils.
I wish I knew its history before the sixties.
I've kept him for sure
DeleteWash off the soot, maybe a lick of paint - clean fresh shelves full of possibilities.
ReplyDeleteThe glassware is all back sparkling and clean
DeleteI hope your mind feels clearer too after the clear out.
ReplyDeleteMy drawers do
DeleteI can't wait to clear out and spring clean my house. I have been going through a house remodel and have been confined in a tiny room with no access to all the things and clothes I thought I loved. I found out I don't really miss them too much.
ReplyDeleteI have celebrated those things I really love and will keep them
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ReplyDeleteI hope you are not sending old photos--happier times---to ex?!
ReplyDeleteI hate clean outs, I m a collector, I love my stuff.My parents did this and their house looked so forlorn afterwards---the lovely collection of china birds, the herbal stitchery, the almost-vintage books I grew up reading---the big collection of cooky cutters!---gone all gone.
I am sending him photos of himself and his family
DeleteI don't want them
Destroying them would be wrong too
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DeleteI think you're right to send them. Its gracious
DeleteGood on you John sounds like your spring clean is going well. I think the yellow wallpaper will be the icing on the cake. I think your ex and family probably have copies of those photos??? still I can't criticize you for being the kind considerate man you are for sending them at least they will be out of your hair.
ReplyDeleteSo satisfying. I couldn’t part with the vase either.
ReplyDeleteIs the flatback in the photo? SDon't think so. I was curious because I have one.
ReplyDeleteMine stands alone
DeleteI had a good sort through of my clothes again the other day and took another bag full into the charity shop. I was going to have a good look around but as lots of the clothes on the rails were from my bag full last week it was a bit pointless :-)
ReplyDeleteIt was very freeing to walk out empty handed for the second time.
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