Hillsborough Park


Hatim was thirteen but was the size of a small ten year old girl.
His wheelchair was a child's size, expensive and lightweight.
Hillsborough Park Sheffield
Springtime many years ago now.
It was one of his first forays out in public
A broad smiling Iraqi boy paralysed by accident by a stray British infantry man's bullet.
Rehabbed  in a Northern English City
He wasn't nervous or self conscious
That's what growing up in a Spinal Injury Unit does for you
He was just a little boy taking a Welsh terrier out for a walk.
The terrier was my Finlay and his lead was tied to the wheelchair in a tight knot
It was their second time of meeting

I watched them both from a distance .
Cheerful little boy and bouncy friendly dog,
Daffodils and bright sunlight,


And I felt like a father for the very first time

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    1. yes, kylie has chosen the exact right word

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  2. What has happened to him since, do you know?
    It would be lovely to hear that he is still doing so well.

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    1. He is doing very well. He was finally adopted locally and is all grown up now.....

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  3. Some memories are to be treasured. Pulled out in the moments when we most want to relive them, to re-feel the thoughts that meandered through our minds at the time they happened. To feel again the love, the happiness, the calmness or the sense of rightness they gave us then. And then carefully laid back to rest ready for next time they are needed. And some exquisite memories are what keep us sane. xx

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    1. This memory came out of nowhere...as i was walking to the village coffee morning past the spring flowers on the green

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  4. I came here through the back door to avoid looking at the three, fat, bearded homos jumping up and down, but now I am here I find I have nothing to say. Carry on.

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  5. ...and what a good father you would have been. Un'abbraccio forte - Ro xx

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  6. You would make a great Dad :)

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  7. Made me smile, thank you.

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  8. What a beautiful memory!

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  9. A touching memory. And a kind soul to bring your dog in. Dogs in my opinion are a great therapy and works wonders on the soul and mind.

    Your picture also reminds me of Mercer Castle here in my fair hamlet. It was my card submission to your contest.

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  10. You would be a WONDERFUL father!

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  11. There are times that you take my breath away dear man.

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    1. A memory brought back by my recent work.
      On Intensive care I never saw a wheelchair
      But after a break of 13 years I now see them every time I work.....
      Memories revisited x

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  12. Barbara Anne1:59 pm

    What a lovely memory. I hope it was a heartwarming moment again as it came to mind. Ta for sharing.

    Hugs!

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  13. You are wonderful in your own right, John. No need to be a father. Just keep sharing your warmth and humanity.

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    1. I regret not having children , but the timing was never quite right

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    2. I am content that I didn't have children. Had a couple of chances over the years to be the 'donor' but declined....phew.

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  14. Beautiful memories, usually last the longest.

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    1. Indeed.... some don't unfortunately xx

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  15. Who would I be if I had had a father like you? A man who is tender and funny and loving and caring and willing to do the hard work it takes to be a parent?
    Much better off. That's the answer to that.
    I don't see you as a father figure but I do see you as someone I would have liked a father to be like.

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  16. And it matters not to the dog who its friend is, as long as s/he's open and big-hearted. Animals teaching us all a lesson as only they can do.

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    1. Finlay was more feisty than gentle William but had more emotional intelligence ..he was ideal with patients as he often was able gauge their moods

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  17. I think your patients were all very lucky to have you as their nurse.

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    1. Hatim had dozens of nurses that went the extra mile

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  18. Thanks for the injection of warmth, that felt good.

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    1. Finlay saw a lot of patients ....ones on bedrest he was incredibly gentle with

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  20. Thank goodness every now and then our brains will throw up a pleasant memory.

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  21. Heloise4:37 pm

    John, you would be even more wonderful a Dad to children than you are to your fur babies. You are a rare and special person.

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  22. This brought tears to my eyes John - I thought just what Heloise has said above. Do you know where the little boy, who will now be a man, is now and what he is doing?

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  23. Simply beautiful.

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  24. I could call you Daddy :p

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  25. You and Finlay obviously gave him a good start..as any father would..you did well.
    a lovely memory

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    1. Finlay was a delightful dog...bright and sweet....he did a lot of good

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  26. John, you've gotten to me again. This post is most touching. Have a good day.

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  27. Beautiful memory! You could adopt me even though I might be a little older.

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  28. How nice it was of you to share Finlay, and how perceptive to know where he would do the most good. Aren't we fortunate to have animals in our lives?

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  29. Lovely memory and yes you would make a wonderful dad I think you have filled that role many times over during your nursing career finding the right words to make patients feel at easy young and old alike.
    I think that there are many out there who remember you and share pleasant memories about you as you do them.

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  30. What a perfect memory. Glad you shared it with us, and great to hear that the little boy went on to happiness and success . x

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  31. Thank you. I think your stories and life would make a wonderful movie, with a unique and poignant story. Or a BBC series. I mean this as a sincere compliment. Best to you.

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  32. We have to meet some day John - I want to hug you so much!

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  33. Thank you for sharing that sweet memory. XO

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  34. What a marvelous few moments. Thank you.

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