I like working with Lyn
She's a support worker with a big heart and an enquiring mind
Like myself she is in her 60s and single
And like me she's an empath.
A few years ago we shared a moment at work which will bond us forever.
A relative who lived in another country rang to say goodbye to their sibling, who was unconscious.
It was a terribly busy shift but the both of us took some time holding the phone to our patient's ear,
hoping against hope that they could hear the messages and the murmurings of affection and
love only siblings can share.
Lyn and I looked at each other during that long phone call
Both knowing what the other was thinking
It was a privileged moment neither of us would forget.
I was busy with a patient last night
It was a complex problem
And Lyn was there in the background as always
Halfway through the shift she made me a sandwich and a cup of tea and set it down next
To me as I worked
Its nice to be looked after
Sometimes its lovely
It's good to have someone who "gets" you. Lyn is one of the good guys! That was a special moment for you to share. xx
ReplyDeleteShe’s worth her weight in stone ❤️
DeleteTwo like minded souls, nice to share that very special moment. Doesn't a cup of tea and a sandwich feel so special when they are made for you just when you need them most.
ReplyDeleteAnd boy I needed both
DeleteThat goodness for people like you two Gigi
ReplyDeleteWe work well together, always have
DeleteThe world needs more Lyns. They are worth their weight in gold though they are paid their weight in buttons.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right x
DeleteYou both are doing amazing work, for each other, and for your patients.
ReplyDeleteWe had a nice staff nurse on with us too. A triple whammy
DeleteTake care of those who take care
ReplyDeleteAnd that is especially true in the hospice. , I could cry at that comment David
DeleteI think such small acts as these define what humans are and can be.
ReplyDeleteAnd it underlines why we work in the place we work
DeleteYou help each other through difficult work. What you do is so important. xo
ReplyDeleteLittle kindnesses keep nurses going
DeleteHow wonderful that you and Lyn have such a bond and shared the moments together to benefit your patient and the family member. Two people at their best to help two other people. I loved being a nurse and making a difference in the lives of my patients and their families.
ReplyDeleteHugs!
Cheers babs
DeleteTwo good people taking care of patients and each other. Goodness still exists in the world.
ReplyDeleteWe talked about “ that day” last night , it was a terribly busy shift, and that moment together with that patient and that telephone grounded us
DeleteIt really seems as if the strongest bonds are forged by the most challenging of jobs.
ReplyDeleteEvery job needs an ally
DeleteAh you deserve that care from a friend and colleague and it does make those challenging moments that bit easier . I’m sure you do the same for others . XxBernie
ReplyDeleteThank u x
DeleteI would do her !
ReplyDeleteLee x
Oh lord
DeleteWow I can think of nothing better than having someone like her in ones life. I am glad you have her.
ReplyDeleteWe all need a Lyn in our lives. Kindness is eternal - even in the screwed up world we now inhabit.
ReplyDeleteSmall kindnesses mean a lot. Xx
ReplyDeleteYou obviously experience things that most of us never do. I've always admired nurses, and you make my admiration even stronger.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great friend!
ReplyDeleteBold of you to write a whole post about empathy when you treat other people's feelings like an unwanted opinion or a toy to play with. It must be exhausting for you.
ReplyDeleteI don't usually rise to this sort of thing but for heavens sake what is wrong with you Anon! Get a life.
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