I’ve delivered most of the village Christmas cards today
Lots of walks up to postboxes and to doorways decorated with wreaths and ribbons.
With the sky turning opaque,
And the temperature dropping considerably
It was cold
by mid afternoon.
Mrs Trellis was sat quietly on her sofa,
I saw her through her living room window
Hands neatly on her lap.
Eyes off on some distant thought
And my heart broke for her, just a little.
I prepared a beef stew with dumplings made from scratch with suet and herbs and flour and salt.
And found a tablecloth and napkins in the back of a drawer,
And lit candles in holders as Weaver watched, with narrow eyes
And the German man I know cancelled supper far too late with a brief text of explanation but with no apology.
I could weep a little.
The dark seems to make everything a little worse, a little more lonely. Wish I could give both you and Mrs. Trellis a hug and a cup of tea.
ReplyDeleteAnd a cake
DeleteOh, John. Hugs. xx
ReplyDeleteHugs right back
DeleteI know the feeling , sat in my parents apartment , with no one calling at Hanukkah.
ReplyDeleteBe brave as you always seem to be
Lee
DearHeart xx
DeleteHow rude of him.
ReplyDeleteI was surprised
DeleteSounds lovely and delicious. Maybe you should have invited Mrs Trellis to fill in? Or Chic Eleanor?
ReplyDeleteEleanor is winging her way to Italy to stay with her sister
DeleteYou are worth much more than an unexplained cancellation, you really are xx
ReplyDeleteAgreed!
DeleteI think the German man's husband is worth more than the German man and John, who are trying to hook up together. Where's everyone's morals gone? You just don't do shit like this. How would you like it, John? Not so much, I'm sure. From Ruth.
DeleteThe German man was single. He was dating when I met him , not married and was single soon afterwards, you are quick to think the worst “ Ruth”
DeleteNot cool of the dinner guest. The problem is with him not you. If you have leftovers why not take some over to Mrs Trellis. Try and do something pleasing for yourself today.
ReplyDeleteI’ve boxed some up for a friend in the village and for my colleagues tomorrow night . The chilli in it would be too spiced for Mrs Trellis
DeleteHow disappointing of your new friend not to apologize wholeheartedly.
ReplyDeleteHope you consider having Mrs Trellis and a couple of others in for leftovers. You and they will be guaranteed a good time!
Big hugs!
I agree. You need to ask Mrs. Trellis over for dinner. Doubt she'd want anything fancy, a stew and bread will do, she just needs some company and some pets to love on. Roger would love it.
DeleteI’ve boxed a portion up for my friend E . It’s a bit too spicy for Mrs T
DeleteI’ve added chilli flakes
DeleteThen please cook some tamer food for Mrs Trellis and other guests and a seasonally chocolate dessert, too?!
DeleteHugs!
Sorry about the cancellation but dinner sounds great. And I can't decide whether that top picture is you or Ed Asner!
ReplyDeleteHe lived to 91
DeleteAnd sometimes it is good to weep. XO
ReplyDeleteI think I needed one tonight
DeleteThat does seem very rude to cancel at the last minute, knowing that you would have already gone to some trouble.
ReplyDeleteWe will see where things go
DeleteDon't wait to see where things go. I think you already know.
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DeleteNot nice of him. Freeze half for when you come home knackered and too tired to cook!
ReplyDeleteI’m at work tomorrow so it will taste bloody lovely then …I’ve boxed some up for my friend across the village
DeleteHow reliable did you expect him to be when you already know he's in a relationship with somebody else. As he told you when you first met him.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree. Why you even going there? Why come in between a man and his husband? Sorry, but it's crap of you. And I think that about men and women doing it too. You just don't, because it's a shitty thing to do. It's Ruth by the way.
DeleteHe was dating someone when I met him and was single soon after, but then “ Ruth” you didn’t want to know that fact
DeleteBecause you never told us that fact! Ruth
DeleteAnd I'm sure that's a lie anyway to make yourself look better. Ruth
DeleteI’ve mentioned it several times my odious reader
DeleteRuth is a right old “c*nt “!
DeleteRofl
Keith
Xx
You're an idiot, Keith. Why am I a cunt for not thinking cheating is acceptable? You're the cunt. And John, no you haven't mentioned it several times. I've just been back through the posts and no mention that he's now single. And no he wasn't "dating". Your only post mentioning it says he said he was in a "relationship", which signifies a lot more than "dating". You've shown how odious you are! I'm not.
DeleteYou are even sadder for checking. I remember reading that John said he was now single , not that this even matters . It’s non of my or your business.
DeleteYou are a sad troll and the cunt comment stands
And may I add sad to the cunt
You are a sad cunt
Keith
Xx
Oh lord, thank you Keith for the support and the good memory xx
DeleteI cannot abide online trolling
DeleteAnd John I want to hug you long and hard
Keith
Xx
He was very sweet Keith 🙁🙏
DeleteAnd he hurt you!
DeleteOh John , you have a gentle heart xxxxx
And you will always be bruised by its weakness
Keith
Xx
I’ve just read your urgent email Keith 😈
DeleteI’m ready to bitch slap the troll
With BOTH HANDS
Lee
I can go to bed safe in the knowledge my supporters are here lol
DeleteLove ya squire
DeleteLee
Love you too lee
DeleteBeautiful emotive music.
ReplyDeleteYour German friend - Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
Agreed , I’m upset for me , not at him as yet
DeleteOh, you only want the people that feel sorry for you to comment. What a morally bankrupt person you've turned out to be. We all have a duty to be decent to our fellow human beings. Knowingly entering a relationship when the other person is with someone else is crap and you know it. Shame on you. I won't be reading your blog anymore as you're not a nice person. Ruth.
ReplyDeleteYawn….and have you been decent to me ? No
DeleteHow disappointing that someone would treat you that way. ❤
ReplyDeleteWe will see if it was a negative behaviour
DeleteIts the not apologizing that bothers me. There could be a good reason but an apology is warranted.
DeleteOh hell. I'm sorry. I hate that for you.
ReplyDeleteIt saddened me
DeleteI'll leave you to your arse-lickers and people that like to fawn over you no matter what. You have not mentioned in any post he was now single, but hey, that makes me "odious" lol. Get some morals.
ReplyDeleteHateful comments come from bitterness and pain, you must be deeply pained
DeleteLate to things, as usual.
ReplyDeleteNo decent words except a couple of those paragraphs would be great in that bloody book you need to write!
I am beginning to really like Weaver.
Take care
She takes no shit lol
DeleteJohn, who the bloody hell are these angry haters? I hope they don’t live in your village.
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry this happened to you! Sending love and hugs❤️Carol in Atlanta
No it’s just one woman
DeleteOne woman with many names. And that one woman is not nice.
DeleteLast minute cancellations, get no second chances in my book. It's entirely up to you but that's how I see it.
ReplyDeleteI have no tolerance for ill manners and being treated badly!
Hey ho
DeleteReaders are so quick to judge! They don't know the reason why he cancelled as you haven't said. It could be something more important than supper with a friend. You as his friend will be better placed to judge but don't be too hasty to dismiss him because the cancellation hurt. That's how life is sometimes. Everybody (almost everybody) deserves a second chance. Also English possibly isn't his first language which can sometimes affect how an explanation comes over. If you've got close enough to invite him for supper use your gut feeling.
ReplyDeleteI get this
DeleteYou have good instincts. Use them.
ReplyDeleteHow awful. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." Maya Angelou
ReplyDeleteI'm bracing myself for comments given what's gone before this but I am NOT the same Ruth. I've had a bad/sad day and I just think I want you to be able to relax and Mrs T to feel loved albeit by strangers.
ReplyDeleteMrs Trellis was probably daydreaming about bobble hats and hoping she gets another one this Christmastime to add to her collection. As for the German fellow, extradition seems to be in order. "Sorry" is about respect as much as it is about apology.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry John, but I would not be giving him a second chance to hurt me. But you do you. Hugs. Gigi
ReplyDeleteYour meals always sound so inviting John. I often sit here salivating! I was sorry to read that your guest bailed. Somehow particularly at this time of the year I expect people to be more thoughtful. I had a friend who said she liked curry, so I twice invited her for a curry supper, and each time bailed saying she got nervous before social invites. Anyway, best foot forward, and onwards. Jean in Winnipeg.
ReplyDeleteThey'll be other dinners, I'm sure, but perhaps best with someone else other than that German.
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