This too Shall Pass

 Hello my friends, 

Phew, it’s been a difficult year so far. 
The recent threat of redundancy, has compounded worries of financial difficulties and complications in 2025, which has left me somewhat vague and distant and distracted at times. 
At 63, no one should experience such worries
No one 

I know several blog readers have reached out to me, sensing my worries and I’m grateful to them and to friends that have shown their offers of support and help without quite knowing what was going on in the usual whimsy world of Trelawnyd, Flintshire.
The gentle face full of sincerity from Mr PozΕ„an comes to mind
He and others have literally kept me going.
One foot in front of another
Bra straps pulled up to their straining limit.

Today, I’ve heard some news that financially I’m now more stable.
I won’t go into details but suffice to say it’s a relief
And relief is an understatement .

This time it’s not just serendipity that had seen me through,
It’s all my own doing,
But it’s a salient lesson of accepting the old saying 
This too shall pass

I’m working my fifth night in six tonight, and instead of feeling tired, I’m invigorated.
Trendy Carol’s hubby brought the dogs back after caring for them all day as I slept and affable despot Jason has called requesting further news about the village Show. 
My sister left a message too about going to see Downton Abbey 
And Chic Eleanor’s Darling I want you to come with me to…….voicemail has made me smile , rather broadly as I sit at the kitchen table with my bucket of coffee.

 The old John is back now. The one that isn’t frightened of what could be. 
The one that’s always pretending not to notice 

And I will leave you with this thought. As I  get ready for work ,I spy a large and rather foul smelling cat turd in the middle of my duvet .
Weaver stalked past shooting me her usual and you can FUCK  off expression 

And I am reminded that these animals will be the glorious death of me.



112 comments:

  1. Jackie5:00 pm

    I am so relieved to read this my friend!

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  2. Anonymous5:02 pm

    Welcome back to the old John! Cheering you on - as always.
    Sydney

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  3. I'm glad you're doing better, especially on the financial side, always a worry.

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  4. Traveller5:17 pm

    Good to hear John.

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  5. So glad to hear you sounding much brighter & lighter!
    Wishing you a calm shift this evening.
    Hugs to you, John dear.

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    1. God it was busy , I’m glad to be off today until Monday

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  6. Oh, this is a good post to read. I'm glad you're feeling brighter and more financially secure. As for the cat turd, what can I say? Have pets, get shit! xx

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    1. Bring it on 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛

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  7. Bloody cats!
    I'm glad things are going better. Although the cleanup of our rental has been a nightmare, the sale will make us solvent enough to pay off our mortgage, for which I'm thankful.

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    1. She’s actually turning into a bitch from hell

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  8. Anonymous5:50 pm

    Other than the turd, I’m more happy for you than I can say.
    Bonnie in Minneapolis

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  9. Regular night shifts or those in a decent block are different to those here and there...still not perfect but better .
    Glad to feel that you are more positive...and well done Weaver.... cats do bring us down to earth don't they?!

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    1. I was spoilt by Albert , I really was

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  10. What a tangled web Weaver weaves. The little shit. Dudo and Moose come and tell us when the litter box has been used, so we immediately scoop it out. But they always leave skid marks on the carpets... oh, yeah, and on the duvet cover! I’m glad you’re feeling a bit more like yourself. I’m awaiting my own return.

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    1. Skid marks? I leave too many of my own

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  11. John, so glad to hear you are in a better place at last!
    FYI: Having cats will change you. Dogs seek to please, cats allow you to care for them. Oh, and make sure you have enough litter boxes - one for each level of your home! Trust me on this.

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  12. Oh, Weaver!!! How could you treat a man so unkindly!!!

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  13. Barbara Anne7:04 pm

    What great news and dear, sweet offers in most of this post, Weaver's down to earth jolt aside, of course!
    You do have litter boxes both upstairs and down, right?
    Drive safely!

    Hugs!

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  14. Big exhale. Glad to hear good news.

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  16. Anonymous7:46 pm

    I'm relieved, too. Funny thing, I don't KNOW you, but still I've been worrying.
    Oh the cats... We have one - who just decided to come and live with us, didn't ask permission - he poops right next to litter box. No matter how many litter boxes we have (there's three in his floor), he poops on the floor. No matter how big the litter boxis, he poops on the floor. He pees in the box ok, even if it is overflowing?
    But this too shall pass. Maybe I'll build an entire room as a litter box.
    Ulvmor

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    1. I’m loving your support , I need it x

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  17. *Sigh of relief*. Nothing like a turd on the duvet to level things up.

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  18. This too shall pass. Thank you. I need the reminder right now. And am glad you're feeling better about everything.

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  19. How exciting! A Lotto win?

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    1. No just some juggling and thoughtfulness

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  20. My sweet little cat died today. I'd be glad of a mess to clear up if it meant more time with her. Glad you are feeling more sorted.

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    1. Anonymous12:23 am

      I’m sorry for your loss.

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    2. Barbara Anne4:02 am

      Sympathy for the loss of your little cat. Hugs!

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    3. Thank you. This morning the house feels empty without her, even the garden looks different.

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    4. So sorry for your loss.

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    5. Anonymous2:36 pm

      My bestest cat ever died on 9/11 2001. As the rest of the US dealt with the shock of the tragedy in NYC, I was devastated by the loss of my Lizzie. RIP to all our lovely companions who have enriched our lives.
      weavinfool

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    6. Hugs veg xx hugs 🐈‍⬛

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  21. Anonymous9:07 pm

    Oh. John. I’m relieved and happy for you!
    Good news! Sending BIG hugs and lots of love. Will you share your email? I want to keep you posted on my trip. Carol in Atlanta
    csmr@comcast.net❤️ .

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  22. I have a friend who would refer to Weaver's gift as a Big Stinky.
    So glad you have had some good news to make your future look a bit more comfortable. Lots to look forward to with your friends and family.
    Hugs
    Bun

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  23. Naughty Weaver.
    Good news is always so appreciated, especially after a bit of a scare.

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  24. Anonymous10:09 pm

    am SO glad to hear things are looking and feeling better for you....other than the cat turd! That Weaver is a cat with attitude, for certain and I'm sure there will be more to follow....knowing sassy cats!
    Susan M/ Calif.

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  25. Anonymous10:25 pm

    Weaver was just telling you that you have been missed all those night shifts. She wants you in that bed. We had cats that after we came home from a trip, would barf on our pillows. Gigi

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    1. Her cat tray was bloody full….my fault

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  26. So glad you can breathe easier for now. I know the feeling and I’m a decade plus older than you. Keep that front foot forward and you’ll be right. Cats always bring us back to reality a little too abruptly which must be why I consider myself a dog person. Keep on keeping on.

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  27. Nice to know that you are back on the Gray train and maybe the Gravy train too. Somebody pull that hooter! Toot! Toot!

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  28. Anonymous11:44 pm

    Very happy for you! Glad all is good in your world. Cali

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  29. Anonymous12:12 am

    Yay! So glad for you. Olivia

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  30. Jo in Auckland12:30 am

    I've been a bit absent for the last 10 or so days; sick as a dog! Been catching up. Sounds like you're more safe in your finances now which is just fabulous! Glad for you. Cat shit smells like no other but on the bed.....urgh

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  31. Anonymous1:36 am

    Happy for you. I was worried you were ill. Kathy

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  32. Glad that you have jad good news. Shame about the turd.

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  33. Good news. It's never good to hear of peoples woes. For the second morning running I have come down to poo and pee on the sitting room floor. Not pleasant first thing in the morning!

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  34. I feel your relief John and i second that... Hugs! deb

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  35. Anonymous6:21 am

    It's a Glorious feeling to be back and to forget the downs and outs and come back to the ups again. I know you are not religious, but God does look after us in his own way sometimes.

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  36. I am so glad that the worries have passed and things are looking up again. Even better that it was of your own doing. Very happy for you and that all's well in your world. Except for the present on the duvet of course. Ouch.

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  37. Good news, John! Weaver, not so much. Cat is truly a piece of work.

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  38. So happy to know that you are in a better place now John
    Wendy (Wales)

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    1. I’ve never had such a cat that’s a stranger

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  39. Very happy to hear this (not the cat turd!) xx

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  40. I was happy to read this post, John. Being able to breathe and relax about finances is a huge boon to your soul, I am sure. Isn't it wonderful to have such caring friends who look after you? They are your army of love. That Weaver and the great Turding!! They don't care what's going on in their human's life as long as their lives get to stay the same. Selfish little shits.

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    1. Her attitude continued today , she’s a cow

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  41. Anonymous9:29 am

    So pleased that you are more stable financially, you deserve to be more settled.
    Cats are funny creatures, snooty and not as needy as dogs can be. Turd on the duvet is a grim thought though. Carole R.

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  42. Pleased to read that you have turned a corner and feel positive, I enjoy your blog, pets and village life so much. Look forward to cheery posts going forward (within reason!) Betty :)

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  43. I'm so glad to see you back to your cheerful self! Financial worries can suck the joy right out of life. Good for you, my friend.

    It makes me chuckle that Weaver's personality is so very different from the lady she was named for. I'll bet Pat would have a good laugh at her shenanigans. :)

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  44. I'm really pleased for you that things of your own doing have come to fruition this time. Girl cats nearly always have attitude, which is why I stick to boy cats and girl dogs. :-)

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    1. I should have asked your advice before getting twin gals

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  45. Smiles and hugs from afar.

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  46. Anonymous12:41 pm

    Great news about the finances, what a relief for you...... as for the naughty puss cat , well, shit happens ( sorry!)
    Alison in Devon x

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    1. Weaver has just arrived home after 24 hours away and she has fucking attitude

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  47. Glad you are feeling better. xo

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  48. John, there's a Japanese proverb that says: If you feel like you're losing everything remember that trees lose their leaves every year, yet they still stand tall and wait for better days to come. Also, make sure you have enough litter boxes, at least one for each level of your home (trust me regarding this)!

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    1. Joy adamson , many thanks for that 🦁

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  49. Anonymous6:44 pm

    Je suis si heureuse pour vous amites de France Paule Caillou

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  50. Anonymous6:47 pm

    Oh squire I sensed something was wrong
    I’m lucky , I’m safe financially , it must be awful not to have that security

    Lee

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  51. So glad to read that the financial weight has been lifted, Dear John. May it continue to be so going forward. Sending hugs from here in CA. x0x0 N2

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  52. That's great to hear, John. Just a shame about the duvet. X

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