Hello my friends,
Phew, it’s been a difficult year so far.
The recent threat of redundancy, has compounded worries of financial difficulties and complications in 2025, which has left me somewhat vague and distant and distracted at times.
At 63, no one should experience such worries
No one
I know several blog readers have reached out to me, sensing my worries and I’m grateful to them and to friends that have shown their offers of support and help without quite knowing what was going on in the usual whimsy world of Trelawnyd, Flintshire.
The gentle face full of sincerity from Mr PozΕan comes to mind
He and others have literally kept me going.
One foot in front of another
Bra straps pulled up to their straining limit.
Today, I’ve heard some news that financially I’m now more stable.
I won’t go into details but suffice to say it’s a relief
And relief is an understatement .
This time it’s not just serendipity that had seen me through,
It’s all my own doing,
But it’s a salient lesson of accepting the old saying
This too shall pass
I’m working my fifth night in six tonight, and instead of feeling tired, I’m invigorated.
Trendy Carol’s hubby brought the dogs back after caring for them all day as I slept and affable despot Jason has called requesting further news about the village Show.
My sister left a message too about going to see Downton Abbey
And Chic Eleanor’s Darling I want you to come with me to…….voicemail has made me smile , rather broadly as I sit at the kitchen table with my bucket of coffee.
The old John is back now. The one that isn’t frightened of what could be.
The one that’s always pretending not to notice
And I will leave you with this thought. As I get ready for work ,I spy a large and rather foul smelling cat turd in the middle of my duvet .
Weaver stalked past shooting me her usual and you can FUCK off expression
And I am reminded that these animals will be the glorious death of me.
I am so relieved to read this my friend!
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DeleteWelcome back to the old John! Cheering you on - as always.
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DeleteI'm glad you're doing better, especially on the financial side, always a worry.
ReplyDeleteIt has been dearHeart x
DeleteGood to hear John.
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DeleteSo glad to hear you sounding much brighter & lighter!
ReplyDeleteWishing you a calm shift this evening.
Hugs to you, John dear.
God it was busy , I’m glad to be off today until Monday
DeleteOh, this is a good post to read. I'm glad you're feeling brighter and more financially secure. As for the cat turd, what can I say? Have pets, get shit! xx
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DeleteBloody cats!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad things are going better. Although the cleanup of our rental has been a nightmare, the sale will make us solvent enough to pay off our mortgage, for which I'm thankful.
She’s actually turning into a bitch from hell
DeleteOther than the turd, I’m more happy for you than I can say.
ReplyDeleteBonnie in Minneapolis
Thank you bonnie
DeleteRegular night shifts or those in a decent block are different to those here and there...still not perfect but better .
ReplyDeleteGlad to feel that you are more positive...and well done Weaver.... cats do bring us down to earth don't they?!
I was spoilt by Albert , I really was
DeleteWhat a tangled web Weaver weaves. The little shit. Dudo and Moose come and tell us when the litter box has been used, so we immediately scoop it out. But they always leave skid marks on the carpets... oh, yeah, and on the duvet cover! I’m glad you’re feeling a bit more like yourself. I’m awaiting my own return.
ReplyDeleteSkid marks? I leave too many of my own
DeleteJohn, so glad to hear you are in a better place at last!
ReplyDeleteFYI: Having cats will change you. Dogs seek to please, cats allow you to care for them. Oh, and make sure you have enough litter boxes - one for each level of your home! Trust me on this.
Thank you joy adamson x
DeleteOh, Weaver!!! How could you treat a man so unkindly!!!
ReplyDeleteShe hates me
DeleteWhat great news and dear, sweet offers in most of this post, Weaver's down to earth jolt aside, of course!
ReplyDeleteYou do have litter boxes both upstairs and down, right?
Drive safely!
Hugs!
Babs thank you for your gift xx
DeleteBig exhale. Glad to hear good news.
ReplyDeleteAnd RELAX XXXX
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ReplyDeleteI'm relieved, too. Funny thing, I don't KNOW you, but still I've been worrying.
ReplyDeleteOh the cats... We have one - who just decided to come and live with us, didn't ask permission - he poops right next to litter box. No matter how many litter boxes we have (there's three in his floor), he poops on the floor. No matter how big the litter boxis, he poops on the floor. He pees in the box ok, even if it is overflowing?
But this too shall pass. Maybe I'll build an entire room as a litter box.
Ulvmor
I’m loving your support , I need it x
Delete*Sigh of relief*. Nothing like a turd on the duvet to level things up.
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DeleteThis too shall pass. Thank you. I need the reminder right now. And am glad you're feeling better about everything.
ReplyDeleteThank u kate
DeleteHow exciting! A Lotto win?
ReplyDeleteNo just some juggling and thoughtfulness
DeleteMy sweet little cat died today. I'd be glad of a mess to clear up if it meant more time with her. Glad you are feeling more sorted.
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry for your loss.
DeleteSympathy for the loss of your little cat. Hugs!
DeleteThank you. This morning the house feels empty without her, even the garden looks different.
DeleteSo sorry for your loss.
DeleteMy bestest cat ever died on 9/11 2001. As the rest of the US dealt with the shock of the tragedy in NYC, I was devastated by the loss of my Lizzie. RIP to all our lovely companions who have enriched our lives.
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DeleteOh. John. I’m relieved and happy for you!
ReplyDeleteGood news! Sending BIG hugs and lots of love. Will you share your email? I want to keep you posted on my trip. Carol in Atlanta
csmr@comcast.net❤️ .
jgsheffield@icloud.com
DeleteI have a friend who would refer to Weaver's gift as a Big Stinky.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you have had some good news to make your future look a bit more comfortable. Lots to look forward to with your friends and family.
Hugs
Bun
Your namesake is a real character
DeleteNaughty Weaver.
ReplyDeleteGood news is always so appreciated, especially after a bit of a scare.
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Deleteam SO glad to hear things are looking and feeling better for you....other than the cat turd! That Weaver is a cat with attitude, for certain and I'm sure there will be more to follow....knowing sassy cats!
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DeleteWeaver was just telling you that you have been missed all those night shifts. She wants you in that bed. We had cats that after we came home from a trip, would barf on our pillows. Gigi
ReplyDeleteHer cat tray was bloody full….my fault
DeleteSo glad you can breathe easier for now. I know the feeling and I’m a decade plus older than you. Keep that front foot forward and you’ll be right. Cats always bring us back to reality a little too abruptly which must be why I consider myself a dog person. Keep on keeping on.
ReplyDeleteThank u lou
DeleteThank u lou
DeleteNice to know that you are back on the Gray train and maybe the Gravy train too. Somebody pull that hooter! Toot! Toot!
ReplyDeleteThank you Neil xx
DeleteVery happy for you! Glad all is good in your world. Cali
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you cali
DeleteYay! So glad for you. Olivia
ReplyDeleteBug hugs Olivia
DeleteI've been a bit absent for the last 10 or so days; sick as a dog! Been catching up. Sounds like you're more safe in your finances now which is just fabulous! Glad for you. Cat shit smells like no other but on the bed.....urgh
ReplyDeleteI hope you are better dearHeart x
DeleteHappy for you. I was worried you were ill. Kathy
ReplyDeleteI was worried too my friend
DeleteGlad that you have jad good news. Shame about the turd.
ReplyDeleteThe turd is a lesson
DeleteGood news. It's never good to hear of peoples woes. For the second morning running I have come down to poo and pee on the sitting room floor. Not pleasant first thing in the morning!
ReplyDeleteUse the toilet!
DeleteHa!
DeleteThe picture this conjured up in my mind Cro Lol!
DeleteSNAP Margo lol. From Jane
DeleteMe too, I thought why?
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DeleteI feel your relief John and i second that... Hugs! deb
ReplyDeleteThank you debs
DeleteIt's a Glorious feeling to be back and to forget the downs and outs and come back to the ups again. I know you are not religious, but God does look after us in his own way sometimes.
ReplyDeleteMy serendipity angel perhaps
DeleteI am so glad that the worries have passed and things are looking up again. Even better that it was of your own doing. Very happy for you and that all's well in your world. Except for the present on the duvet of course. Ouch.
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DeleteGood news, John! Weaver, not so much. Cat is truly a piece of work.
ReplyDeleteShe’s a bitch
DeleteSo happy to know that you are in a better place now John
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I’ve never had such a cat that’s a stranger
DeleteVery happy to hear this (not the cat turd!) xx
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DeleteI was happy to read this post, John. Being able to breathe and relax about finances is a huge boon to your soul, I am sure. Isn't it wonderful to have such caring friends who look after you? They are your army of love. That Weaver and the great Turding!! They don't care what's going on in their human's life as long as their lives get to stay the same. Selfish little shits.
ReplyDeleteHer attitude continued today , she’s a cow
DeleteSo pleased that you are more stable financially, you deserve to be more settled.
ReplyDeleteCats are funny creatures, snooty and not as needy as dogs can be. Turd on the duvet is a grim thought though. Carole R.
I feel that I’ve turned a corner
DeletePleased to read that you have turned a corner and feel positive, I enjoy your blog, pets and village life so much. Look forward to cheery posts going forward (within reason!) Betty :)
ReplyDeleteThe next one is funnier ( just)
DeleteI'm so glad to see you back to your cheerful self! Financial worries can suck the joy right out of life. Good for you, my friend.
ReplyDeleteIt makes me chuckle that Weaver's personality is so very different from the lady she was named for. I'll bet Pat would have a good laugh at her shenanigans. :)
She’s a real cow π⬛
DeleteI'm really pleased for you that things of your own doing have come to fruition this time. Girl cats nearly always have attitude, which is why I stick to boy cats and girl dogs. :-)
ReplyDeleteI should have asked your advice before getting twin gals
DeleteSmiles and hugs from afar.
ReplyDeleteAs usual gratefully received
DeleteGreat news about the finances, what a relief for you...... as for the naughty puss cat , well, shit happens ( sorry!)
ReplyDeleteAlison in Devon x
Weaver has just arrived home after 24 hours away and she has fucking attitude
DeleteGlad you are feeling better. xo
ReplyDeleteI’m lighter, much lighter
DeleteJohn, there's a Japanese proverb that says: If you feel like you're losing everything remember that trees lose their leaves every year, yet they still stand tall and wait for better days to come. Also, make sure you have enough litter boxes, at least one for each level of your home (trust me regarding this)!
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DeleteJe suis si heureuse pour vous amites de France Paule Caillou
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DeleteOh squire I sensed something was wrong
ReplyDeleteI’m lucky , I’m safe financially , it must be awful not to have that security
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DeleteSo glad to read that the financial weight has been lifted, Dear John. May it continue to be so going forward. Sending hugs from here in CA. x0x0 N2
ReplyDeleteThat's great to hear, John. Just a shame about the duvet. X
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