A Thought

 I’ve heard death explained in many ways.
Some fearful, many hopeful
But I’ve never quite heard it explained thus

I hope death feels like…….
Being picked up from the back seat
And carried to my bed half asleep,
Where tucked in, and eyes closed,
I can hear those who love me, 
Talking through a cracked door

Isn’t that quite beautiful ?


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  1. Wonderful John, just wonderful.

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  2. It is, very much so.

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  3. Oh, yes, drifting off with loved ones close by. I'm sure that's the sort of death we'd all like. Hope you're feeling a bit more settled today. xx

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  4. Anonymous11:45 am

    Safety, security and love. What a great description. Jean in Winnipeg.

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    1. It’s a kind of faith we all subscribe to Jean

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    2. Anonymous9:05 pm

      Nicely put John. Jean in Winnpeg

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  5. Anonymous11:46 am

    Yes. Beautiful
    Alison in Devon x

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  6. Anonymous12:00 pm

    This is beautiful John. My Mum recently passed away and I hope this is what she felt.❤️
    Robin

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    1. I’m so very sorry robin , hearing IS the last sense to go, so it makes sense

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  7. Jean Ellen12:33 pm

    Love it

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  8. Let's all hope that is the experience.

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    1. We won’t know until we go, it’s a nice thought, and I’m going to try to make it so

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  9. Anonymous1:14 pm

    I remember being carried from the car and tucked into bed and it is exactly that feeling of safety, comfort, and love.
    weavinfool

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    1. We regress to our childhood so it makes sense to me

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  10. It is lovely, I hope it's that way for my Mum.

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  11. Barbara Anne1:34 pm

    Oh, yes ... safely home, carried in arms that love you and that you love. I remember that from my early childhood, too.
    Wishing you all peace and happiness.

    Hugs!

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    1. I never remember that feeling, though I had a sense of it when I was in a surgical theatre

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    2. I worked in the OR (surgery) for a couple of decades and held the hand of each of my patients as they went to sleep under anesthesia. Many had a very tight grip and I was glad to be with them.

      Hugs!

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  12. It is lovely and I hope it's true.

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  13. Anonymous2:14 pm

    That is beautiful. I hope it is like that! We all fear death because of the unknown. Cali

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    1. I don’t fear dying , I fear missing my life

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  14. Given a choice, this would be ideal.

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  15. Anonymous2:30 pm

    I hope I will just go to sleep in my bed and not wake up like my first husband did. Gigi

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    1. It feels a bit unfinished for me, I want a neat finish

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  16. My mum did the classic 'reaching up for something' before she died. I hope it was a loved one picking her up from the back seat. x

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  17. In "Go In Peace" by Sam Baker (singer/songwritier) - Go in peace, go in Kindness, go in love, go in faith; Leave the day, the day behind us; Day is done, go in grace; Let us go into the dark not afraid, not alone; let us hope by some good pleasure, safely to arrive at home; Let us hope by some good pleasure, safely to arrive at home.
    The description of death you cite is beautiful.

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    1. Barbara Anne7:48 pm

      I've just listened to this wonderful song on You Tube, having never heard it before. Thank you, Mona!
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhjYSHLJXDI

      Hugs!

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  18. Anonymous2:59 pm

    Everyone’s wish to leave like cited 🙏. Jan in Castle Gresley

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    1. Many people in my experience die alone, and that is almost a primeval wish, something innate , like a cat hiding away

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  19. sounds soothing...... a decent wish... hope tha's alreet?

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    1. I’m reet my friend, just bruised, will share the story soon x

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  20. I agree.... lovely...

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  21. My childhood memory is my parents' loud drunken bashes, hew haw donkey laughter, shrieking young women. They were young parents, just having fun. But I was scared. So the cracked door and lurking ghosts, esp my dad waiting to criticize me some more] isn't appealing. As above I d like to just sleep forever. And cross the rainbow bridge to be with my first pug, I loved him so.
    I hope you are okay?

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    1. I love the thought to be met by my grandmother and grandfather and all of my dogs running towards me in a meadow of flowers

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  22. Perhaps death could be like this if we were able to voluntarily choose when we died.

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  23. Anonymous6:10 pm

    What a lovely, lovely thought. XXXX

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  24. I believe it will be all that and more.

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  25. The above comment was me ! I wasn’t signed in 🥴 XXXX

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    1. Anonymous6:38 pm

      Jacqueline, I’m loving your photo and your site

      Leex

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    2. Nice to see you dearHeart x. It’s been a while

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    3. Lee stop flirting xx

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    4. Anonymous7:37 pm

      She’s a dish

      Lee x

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  26. Kippy6:58 pm

    That is perfect! Some times when I’m feeling especially anxious at bedtime, I think back to family get togethers when I was a child. Recalling the laughter and love. All of these relatives are now deceased but they are remembered and loved forever.

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  27. Wonderful thought John, I find it comforting. My son started nursery this week and often falls asleep on the car journey home, I find it a comfort that when getting him out of the car seat he tucks his head into my or my wife’s shoulder and snuggles in to go back to sleep.
    I have no such recollections from my own childhood which is quite sad I think. But nice now that I give that to my children, that’s comforting in its own way.
    I’d like as peaceful a death as possible, if achieved I would be very lucky, doubly so if the last thing I saw and the last thing I heard was my loved ones. If I couldn’t have a peaceful ending, I would spare my loved ones the sight of my going.
    I’ve lost all my grandparents and lost those important to my in laws, some peaceful and some awful. I am fortunate that at 33 I haven’t, yet, witnessed anyone die so it’s mostly a mystery to me and not one I’m in a hurry to know first hand. Sorry for the waffle, hope you are doing ok John. I don’t often comment but I read every post.

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    1. LJ A lovely first post, please continue to say what you think xx

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  28. Hope u are ok , i dreamt a few weeks ago , in the car with my husband looking at buying a house...all wood, very european ,,another passed relative with us ...laid down in the nice bedroom took a nap , woke to hubby's voice mumma has to like it ...so sweet , i awoke happy ...for the 1st time in 14 years...that's what it will be like i believe...God bless.

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  29. That IS beautiful. We all miss that feeling of security.

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  30. Anonymous9:04 pm

    I hope it’s like that I lost my lovely mum unexpectedly this Monday she had been in hospital for a couple of days but nobody expected her to pass away, unfortunately for us she passed away in her sleep so we were not with her. Heather

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  32. Anonymous9:35 pm

    I love this and thank you for sharing it. Lynn, Pecos, NM, USA

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  33. It's wonderful and a nice way to think of it.

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  34. Anonymous10:09 pm

    Yes it is beautiful! Thank you for sharing.

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