A Thank You

 It was a particularly gruelling night at work last night and I was somewhat jaded when I returned home.
A message from Trendy Carol’s Husband lifted my mood.
It simply said 
“ I’ll pick the dogs up at 10.30” 
And so safe in the thought they would be looked after whilst I slept, I walked and fed them, then went to bed, for a proper sleep. 
Trendy Carol’s hubby I will call Owain
Without Owain, I couldn’t have kept my dogs for as long as I have.
From the first time that I had to return to work after retiring, he jumped into the breech and took care of them when I needed him to. 
This weekend I’m popping up to York to see an old friend and Owain will be there treating the dogs as if they were his own.
And he refuses any payment, just allowing me to take him to appointments and picking up pharmacy and the like.
The world runs on kindnesses like his
And I thank him for it

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  1. You are loved, by the community that you love.

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    1. And I love them too , very much 🙏

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  2. You have the best friends! Sorry work was so hard tho, a good rest was much needed.

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  3. Barbara Anne4:55 pm

    Owain is a prince of a friend as well as being a dog lover. Mary and Roger must love him right back! Sweet!

    Hugs!

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    1. Dorothy loved him so very deeply too

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  4. Fyodor Dostoevsky said words to the effect of beauty will save the world but I think it is kindness.

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    1. I do too. Kindness oils life gently and with a smile

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  5. It sounds reciprocal. You take care of each other.

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    1. We do indeed and I’m proud of this fact

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  6. Kindness begets kindness. xx

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  7. I'm glad you have him, and I'm sure he gets to enjoy the dogs without having to own a dog. Win, win.

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    1. He has his own dog, a somewhat bad tempered wire haired fox terrier lol

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  8. Yellow Shoes6:24 pm

    There are more good people in the world than bad - I’m convinced of that x

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  9. Having been a dog owner, I can agree that Owain is kindly providing you an invaluable service!

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  10. I wonder what Owain's real name is? Perhaps it is Roch after the patron saint of dogs and dog lovers. What he has done for you is simply beautiful. Kindness without expectation of reward.

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    1. There is more to the story Neil, much more that would make you weep

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  11. Beautiful. True neighbors.

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  12. ‘I get by with a little help from my friends’

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  13. You are lucky to have such lovely friends.

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    1. I have cultivated them , but I like to think we are ALL happy

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  14. Neighbors helping neighbors is the best.

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  15. We all need to take the time to notice the kindness around us. If we don't the unkindness will become overwhelming. I try my best to be part of that kindness. I belive most people do.
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    1. Kindness breeds kindness in my experience , naturally , not forced , but naturally

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  16. Aye sir, it is the little acts of kindness of ordinary folk that keeps the evil at bay.

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  17. Such people are a treasure!

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  18. Real community spirit

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  19. Josephine from Deventer8:12 am

    We call this in dutch: naoberschap, and we cannot do without it in this world! You are blessed!

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    1. noaberschap n (uncountable)

      the quality or virtue of neighbourliness, particularly when regarded as a specific cultural trait of the rural inhabitants of the eastern (Low Saxon) Netherlands

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    2. Josephine12:51 pm

      Indeed! It is a dialect word, specific for the eastern part of the Netherlands. One of the reasons why I
      like it here, though being a fugitive from Rotterdam.

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  20. I loved this, John. Our friends keep us afloat, and we in turn, help them. My friends have literally saved me at some of the worst times in my life. A friend called yesterday to see if I wanted to try his blueberry/yogurt/oats and brought them by with his doggo whom I sit for on the regular. I couldn't have been happier to see them both and was flushed with love from his kindness, and lots of kisses from the doggo. Life is good.

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    1. Yes, so many times this last year old friends have come up trumps

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  21. Anonymous9:46 am

    True kindness. I expect Owain loves the dogs as much as they love him. He is a good neighbour, as are you John. Carole R.

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    1. He does indeed, especially Roger who he calls his therapy dog

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  22. Anonymous10:10 am

    Sorry you had a rough night and hope a good sleep with dogs being well looked after will be a treat. Gigi

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    1. Gigi it was…..I felt like a tired young mother who had just found a perfect babysitter

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  23. You both do things for each other that is really needed, good neighbours and good friends. ❤️

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  24. Anonymous12:08 pm

    Thanks are so important aren't they x
    Alison in Devon x

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    1. I think so, I gave Trendy Carol a lift to pick up her car today and told her to always call me for help, quid pro quo

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  25. Krayolakris12:34 pm

    What a lovely man, Owain.

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  26. It's so nice to have helpful neighbors.

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  27. Anonymous2:08 pm

    Hooray for the kindness of Owain! Everyone needs a friend like him.

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  28. Yorkshire Liz3:52 pm

    A backstop for the dogs is something we all need, and it is a true blessing. I am that dog grandma dog sitter; and sometime she lets me sit on the sofa with her!

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    1. The dogs love him dearly, it lifts my heart how they ( and especially how my old bulldog Dorothy ) used to to run to him

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  29. The kindness is wonderful but the love he shares with the dogs is even more special.

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  30. JacquieB10:23 am

    'What goes around comes around' which is exactly how a healthy society functions

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