I’ve just been The Crown
The pub is under new management
An Older and pragmatic couple
I met a friend from the village who is newly separated
And it felt good lending an ear so to speak .
Before we parted
He shared that he hated coming home to an empty house
And I was reminded of some sanguine advice given to me by auntie Glad when the Prof left
I shared it
“ When you go out in winter John, always leave a light on in the cottage- “ she said, her watery blue eyes gentle and twinkling
“The light will welcome you home”
And my friend smiled at the simple power of it
Great advice from Auntie Glad.
ReplyDeleteShe could have filled a book
DeleteHow very wise. Another of those little things that make all the difference.
ReplyDeleteShe was sweet , always she was sweet
DeleteWhen my husband was in hospital for some months I always left a light on to return home to! It did help me feel less “deserted/lonely” however silly that sounds especially in winter months. A very helpful comment for all on their own I feel 💕💕
ReplyDeleteShe was right
DeleteGood advice. I also think you fill your home with the furry friend because this means a living, loving creatures is there to greet you, heartbeats to fill your cottage and make it a home. A welcome. And of course we must leave the lights on for the animals. I'd be lost without my Mo the Pug. He is not cuddly or empathetic, but he is a constant friend for my loneliness.
ReplyDeletelizzy x
Tonight Roger greeted me with a McDonald’s bag on his head , my porridge bag
DeleteWise words indeed. . I've recently been taught a new word by a friend....Hyggee. Same thing....sense of warmth and wellbeing created by warm light (usually candlelight) and conviviality..... Auntie Glad knew that!
ReplyDeleteSusan M/ Calif.
I love huggee
DeleteAuntie Glad, what sweet memories you left us with. John, I’m glad you shared that.
ReplyDeleteTake care. Carol in Atlanta
She’s always with me …..
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