Breaking Bread

My counselling besties Caroline and Donna 


There’s a lot to be said for meals out with loved ones.
Monday my family met up for a barbecue  for my brother in law ‘s birthday, 
relaxed, funny and chatty.
I loved it.
And yesterday I met a friend for breakfast which proved to be a gossip and laugh over sausage sandwiches and great coffee.
Great fun.
Last night I met up with my counselling friends at Pen y Bryn in Colwyn Bay and three hours around a table of food which included wild boar apple  pie and gravy to die for, shot past in an instant. 
We start our course in a month and all have felt mutually supported before the challenge starts …it’s nice to have our clique in place.

Im also pleased that my idea of a group get together means that the  numerous members of the Trelawnyd Community Association are getting together for a curry night inside the hall in a few weeks time. 
I thought we deserved some down time , using the hall as a venue , just for us….
Bring your own booze…..I intend to weave my way home late that night……

There is something fundamental about breaking bread together. Sitting with those you love and like, with food and drink and talking and laughing and telling stories.
No phones, no tv, no other distractions . 
Just gossip, and chatter, and sharing the odd morsel 
Around a table 
Face to face




63 comments:

  1. Trouble is some people have terrible table manners.

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    1. Okok I know
      But I didn’t dribble my gravy. Last night

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  2. I like the sound of that! all of it, especially apple pie

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    1. My fault , it was, in fact, wild boar and apple pie

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    2. Oh, haha I never even thought of wild boar and apple.
      You wrote it right

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  3. That sounds like a wonderful gathering, something that will provide a sound foundation for a supportive classroom experience.

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    1. We work well together already , and will have to remember our clique when it comes to group work

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  4. Was this the entree: wild boar apple pie and gravy?
    Sorry, John, but commas really do help?
    Otherwise, it sounds like you had a wonderful day with good friends and good food!

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    1. Apologies, I never proof read..
      It was wild boar and apple pie ….bloody lovely

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  5. It's enviable to have friends to eat with.

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    1. Yes,I’m grateful I am blessed with many friends xx

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    2. Anonymous8:21 pm

      Smug some of us are not blessed with friends how unthinking of u

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    3. Sigh …….That’s not my fault…perhaps it’s yours ?

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  6. Most of my 'best times' have been spent around the table.

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    1. Yes, there’s something that shrieks family and friends and good times like Christmas

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  7. Barbara Anne4:05 am

    There is nothing beter than friends and/or family sharing food and stories around a table. Sheers!

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    1. Still cannot see what I'm typing as you know. Sigh! Make that Cheers as here, 'sheers' are thin curtains.
      No Sherry for me, thanks!

      Hugs!

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  8. So true! And how I missed just this during lockdown. The enjoyment and the way it strengthens us.

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    1. I want to continue to enjoy all of those things that make us human . The simple nights out, the food, the preparation and the sharing

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  9. Oh, face to face! How we've all missed that over the past few years. xx

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    1. Me too xx so much I’m not talking any meeting like the ones I’ve outlined today , for granted ever again

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  10. Anonymous6:46 am

    Your last paragraph is soo true and something that has not resumed as it was before Covid. Your counseling buddies look great fun. Noreen

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    1. Forgive the pun, but I think there is a “ hunger” for socialisation now, to meet, to be a part of something ,of family and of friends

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  11. We're long overdue for a group of people breaking bread over a long evening.

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    1. The food you always show, is delightful and Spanish food is built to be talked over

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  12. I can tell just by that picture that those two ladies are a couple of great friends to have.

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    1. Our backgrounds are all so different , but weve gelled

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  13. When I visited my mom back in July, I enjoyed those lengthy meals filled with talk and laughter. My sister and her daughter were there as well. Nothing like breaking bread with loved ones.

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    1. Did you manage to meet you son too?

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    2. No. NYC is 8 hours away!

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    3. How’s things with him? ( email me)

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  14. weaver11:54 am

    They look a couple of lovely ladies John

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  15. It is so nice to be back in person.

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    1. The meal in Conway was lovely as I remember

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  16. It is true. I had lunch with two daughters and a partner of one of them yesterday and I laughed so hard.

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  17. So true! I love socializing over food! In fact, going to a BBQ lunch in a local park today with some friends!

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    1. We had a picnic on the beach with work recently , that was lovely too

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  18. Sharing a meal or even coffee with good people is always enjoyed. You have a great family and wonderful friends! Lucky guy.

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    1. Yes I’m very lucky ….I hate the thought when family gets smaller xx

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  19. I agree with you John! Sad thing is i haven't had that in years... ever since my in laws passed away . The get togethers and potluck meals were wonderful.. Hugs! deb

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    1. Invite a friend or neighbour around Xx now

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    2. Anonymous9:54 pm

      A flippant reply from you John, there are many of us who don't have friends. Invite a neighbour? Sometimes I wonder how you can be so flippant.

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    3. Anonymous4:16 am

      Hardly surprising you don't have friends Anon... you being such a miserable a**hole and all that!

      Jo in Auckland

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    4. "Jo in Auckland" - the Anon comment was in reply to John and therefore none of your business, John has asked readers not to reply to anonymous comments You know absolutely nothing about Anon's situation so
      why do you feel compelled to make a nasty comment? That says a lot about you.

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  20. Absolutely -- this is what we all missed during the pandemic. It's vital to our well-being as humans!

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    1. I so agree….I so missed it during lockdown

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  21. Anonymous6:08 pm

    Real life...old school ................

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    1. Not sure what that means xx

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    2. Anonymous9:39 pm

      What real life was like in the good ol days.

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  22. Anonymous6:56 pm

    Forget the dinner talk , how did your date go ??

    Keith
    X

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  23. Be careful. No swapping spit ;o)

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  24. Anonymous10:11 pm

    Beautiful happy faces of the two girls. Marie, Melbourne, Australia

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  25. How wonderful! And I'm reading a book called "Dining With the President" about food at the White House in Washington, D.C., down through the ages. For a foodie like me, most fun!

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  26. One of the things I missed the most during the pandemic.

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  27. Anonymous3:40 am

    I’m excited for your date and am sending good wishes. Don’t try to assess things too early. Let the experience flow.

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  28. I miss some of the Church Dinners we had in Laguna Beach so long ago. They were so much fun.
    Now having a late Breakfast and or Coffee out is just the best.

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  29. Anonymous5:21 am

    "Companion was someone with whom you broke bread. Once we break down this word, we see it's made up of Latin com (together) + panis (bread) "
    A very intimate and simple event - full of meaning?
    Chris Melbourne OZ

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