My New Best Friend


 
It’s going on midday and the bucket of coffee is out.
I want no noise and no movement for a while and the dogs sense that,
My night shifts were challenging but kept sane by an experienced support worker called Tracy who knows her stuff. Bluebell’s gear stick broke loose again as I left the Hospice and I had to drive home in third gear and in need of stopping for dog and cat food.
Well I just about managed it, ( Looking rather like like Mr Magoo) and called the RAC out to fix the problem and the chirpy Terry turned up again with lots of stories about his family and how he worked in Japan as a young man .
He exhausted me , but I felt in good hands as he said I was one of the “ Good uns “
Apparently he could tell a Good un” from 50 feet.
I didn’t ask how
Terry indeed proved to be a good un himself, for, half an hour later when I called him back after locking myself out of Bluebell when down at the shops in Dyserth, he turned up again with is gizmo to sort it as cheerful and as happy as a chattering otter.
Subsequently I had no daytime sleep yesterday , so flagged and went to bed early. I was never going to watch the Harry interview anyway. I slept heavy and woke late with back ache, so missed Albert leaving a vomit pile on the landing which I stood in, in bare feet. 
After that, everything else is a blur what with a trip to the bank( no parking) dog walk, and only an hour’s break before I promised to take a neighbour for a hospital appointment .
Hence the quiet time now with my coffee.
The cold sick is still sitting on the landing with my footprint inside it ……
I will get there later, I promise
 

55 comments:

  1. wow, what a day. You definitely need a rest. And some days, an assistant. Take care.

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    1. I’ve always had the 1930 fantasy about having a housekeeper like Sherlock Holmes or dr Finlay

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  2. You deserve some quiet time after that lot! I remember my husband stepping, barefoot into cat poo on the landing. I hope the dogs don't clean up the vomit before you do. Yuk! BTW Terry is right, you are one of the good 'uns. xx

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    1. One of Dorothy’s skills eating other animals vomit
      Not an endearing skill

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  3. I am surprised you didn't watch the Harry interview with your past experiences both as a mental health nurse and as a Samaritan.

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    1. Talking to a therapist is one thing washing your dirty washing is another. He’s done himself no favours bless him

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  4. Sorry you had a rough day. Hope things are better for the rest of the week!

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  5. Sounds like Murphy's Law was your companion yesterday. Hope today is much better.

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    1. This morning was heading that way but when I got home after hospital , things settled down nicely

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  6. Some days just suck. Sending hugs John.

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  7. When life gives poopy make frisbies - like my lovey lily x

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    1. Anonymous4:43 pm

      You make frisbees out of poop?

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    2. Noo - they are everywhere - made by cows - available on dry days 💩

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    3. Flis world can be a strange place x

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    5. John - I hope Anons comment is not what I understand they are implying about me x

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  8. And this is why I like sitting in bed watching TV all weekend.

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  9. What a day! Good to take all this in stride, as you do. Thank heaven for small favors. Coffee is always a good salve.

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    1. The hotter the better
      Hot coffee has to be sipped
      S l o w l y

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  10. I'm sure the Harry interview is on catch-up somewhere. And I'm sure I can think of nothing worse than cat-sick in-between your toes. YUK!!

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    1. Work was terribly busy too which didn’t help

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  12. If you leave the “sick” long enough, you can just vacuum (Hoover) it up.

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    1. I can’t believe you would EVER do such a thing

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    2. Not me! Good old San Geraldo in Palm Springs when I was away for 5 days.

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  13. Ewww! Sick between the toes. Unthinkable.

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  14. I swear I just had that day about a week ago. Hugs...hope a cleaning fairy comes by to clean up . :)

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    1. It’s like a perfect storm , more shit, piling on more shit. You just have to ride it

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  15. Cheerful Terry sounds like he has the perfect personality for working with the public in stressful situations.

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    1. He would be exhausting if it was a long job of repair

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  16. Barbara Anne5:34 pm

    Never a dull moment! Hope you manage good sleep and am glad you had Tracy at work, and Terry for Bluebell x 2, and coffee. Hope the lovely shower got the sick mess out from between your toes.

    Hugs!

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    1. I’ve just sat down
      It’s 19.33…..bottle of cobra beer, fire roaring , Roger beside the trendy blue sofa , Mary, Dorothy and Albert crammed on it with me,
      The cottage is finally tidy and smelling of lemon and jasmine

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  17. Oy! Some days are like that. You could have stood in worse, I tell you. I impart this wisdom from personal experience.

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    1. And I have done …..many times…..between the toes is worse

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  18. I find so many fix-it people of all types to be good folks. It is always a gift when they are.
    I really appreciated your comment on YP's post about Harry. I, too, feel for him. He is a damaged soul and there is no two ways about that.

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    1. There is too much anger flying about regarding Harry.
      He needs more therapy , that is clear ,

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    2. I believe the poor man is traumatised ever since his mother's death which was never adressed in my humble opinion x

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  19. Ugh. Everything is worse when it is cold out too.

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    1. It’s a good job ia nurse. Having saying this , after nearly 40 years dealing with all manner of bodily fluids , I still cannot abide vomit

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    1. I’ve run amok with the carpet cleaner this afternoon pat the place smells of lemon

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  21. You deserve a day in bed after all that. Hugs to you

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    1. Do u know what ? I’ve never had a day in bed

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  22. I'd rather tread barefoot in a pile of cat sick than watch Harrys interview any day !!!! I fear it's all going to end badly for him ..... he seems to be in self destruction mode and needs help from someone who knows what they are doing.
    Have a good rest John ..... a good sleep and you will be ready to face another day, XXXX

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    1. I agree, he’s trying to heal by facing his issues and wanting to be heard but I suspect in years to come will regret it

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    2. Anonymous10:29 pm

      Harry is immature and sees himself as a victim. Poor me, poor me, my mother died. Aided and abetted by a two bit actress with delusions of grandeur. When they first appeared on the scene as a couple they were going to "modernise the monarchy" and threw their toys out of the pram when it didn't go the way they expected it to.

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  23. Forget this blog, and write a book! We'd all buy it.

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  24. What an awful day! I hope the next was much better, no car worries, no floor surprises.

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  25. Bluebell is generating some bad karma for herself!

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