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I’m glad I made the effort to go to Nu’s party
I’m glad for so many reasons .
Of course seeing her, Jim and her family and friends, many who I consider as my friends for years , was the driving force for the trip 
But I also really wanted to push myself out of my ever comfortable comfort zone by driving the length and breadth of Ireland on my own .
To some , this may not sound too stressful.
A little arduous, perhaps but not stressful, 
But I must admit, for me it was! 

I’m always envious of friends such as Rachel (https://racheldubois.blogspot.com/) who seem happy and comfortable travelling all over the world by themselves. 
I’ve never done it, so I felt I needed to push myself with a series of firsts
Taking my Car on a ferry for the first time and navigating a new country was two firsts 
Ok it was Ireland 
But this morning I was the only car driving down the magnificent Ring of Kerry from the awesome Moll’s Gap
I was the only person at Ladies view , watching deer cross the road in front of me
And it was a first  for me to pass the glorious St Mary’s cathedral Killarney where I stopped for a full Irish breakfast at a delightful cafe, where the owner gave me a sandwich , for nothing “ to eat on my way” as she said it’s a far drive for you ! 

But now that I’m home, somewhat tired I must say I feel just a little proud that I’ve finally done it.

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  1. Congratulations on another 2 firsts. That bucket list is getting smaller by the minute! xx

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  2. I get nervous driving from Cleveland to Akron, but that's because I've never owned a car that's less than five years old. Is your car newer than that?

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  3. I often travel along that road John. If you get the chance visit Muckross House and Gardens in Killarney. The gardens are free to visit and so is the parking.

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  4. I’ve often marvelled as well how confident Rachel is to travel on her own ( although I know there were times she was with people). I don’t want to say “ well done” because it sounds patronizing, but I’d likely not embark on travels like that on my own. I had much more confidence when I was in my late teens/ early twenties and that was before the convenience of GPS! - Jenn

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    1. Thank you
      “Well done” are the words I have said to myself x

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  5. I know EXACTLY how you feel...little firsts induce big feelings..well done

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    1. Yes, I think u summed it all better than I ever could

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  6. You only went and did it John 🍸

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    1. I did, and I don’t need praise . Im just happy I did flis

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  7. Barbara Anne10:26 pm

    . "You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think."
    - Winnie the Pooh, by A.A. Milne

    Hugs!

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  8. As well you should, John Gray.

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  9. Be bold, adventures await.

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  10. Dear sir, it would stress me as well. I commend you for all the effort it took. Glad it all went well, with friends at the far end.

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  11. Anonymous4:06 am

    This is absolutely the best post since (@&$) left. It mKes me happy to read.

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    1. His name was Chris and we should all wish him well

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  12. Well, good for you! There's nothing like the feeling of breaking free, is there?

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  13. I'm happy for you too. You must feel so much stronger for having done that. What a beautiful place it is!

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  14. Bejabbers! Well done John! And well done Bluebell!

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  16. You are discovering your own path. x

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  17. Glad it all went well and you had a great time. I admire those brave enough to travel alone as I just don't have the confidence myself.

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  18. I too travel ( drive ) long distances on my own , only around U.K. though.
    There is so much beauty to see in our world- I will not deny myself that because I am single.
    Building myself up now to tackle Europe , particularly Norway.

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    1. Nicely put, and I agree , I something’s have been far too narrow in my own outlook

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  19. Anonymous7:35 am

    Brilliant John, brilliant.

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  20. Sounds like you have made it ok to have a few more adventures by yourself.

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  21. I think that was a wonderful first! I am nervous even being a passenger in a car let alone driving one onto a ferry and across another country. Well done! x

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    1. It was a challenge and I did it and I can do it again if I wish

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  22. My goodness, you do get about!

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    1. I’m working over time tonight , so it’s Llandudno and back lol

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  23. Am very pleased you had such a fab time. Good for you doing the solo trip. I am not a traveller at all.. and not solo ever. I have a far too fertile imagination to allow me to do so. So boo for me but hurrah for the brave like you. Glad you got home in one piece.

    Jo in Auckland

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    1. I’m an over thinker too Jo, and have always relied on company to temper my anxieties

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  24. The view in that photo is breathtaking. Good for you. There are a lot of things I’ve always been afraid to do (cliff diving, bungee jumping, stepping off a ladder onto a roof). But traveling by myself to someplace new (i.e., running away) has never been one of them.

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    1. Yes we all have our fears , but those are just fears when You don’t need to challenge them. I had a personal need to do something many others wouldn’t have even balked at

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  25. Commendable as it is I can't get my head around what you are doing it for. It almost sounds like a form of punishment for yourself rather than anything else.

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    1. I knew you somehow wouldn’t get it Rachel.
      I think Libby understands the best because she too finds things like I describe difficult .
      What I’m taking from the experience is that I will no longer “ fear” experiences like travelling alone as much as I once did.
      It’s something I should have done many many moons ago now , but never did
      So it was never a punishment
      It was always a bit of challenge and a test

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  26. Anne Brew11:01 am

    There's a unique pressure about driving onto a ferry; you must not hold the person up behind you but also you must park well - and very quickly.
    I love travelling alone, anywhere and everywhere.

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    1. Yes I wasn’t sure of the rules, I just followed the leader

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  27. Your description of traveling across Ireland reminded me of the trip my husband and I took several years ago. I can still see the gorgeous scenery in my mind. Thank you for my "little trip" this morning.

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    1. I think when I go next time I will take a week, drive over to Galway then down to Kenmare

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  28. I have the same difficulty in travelling alone. The thing I have found is that doing it once is exhilarating, but then you need to keep doing it or the fear creeps back in. I'm glad to hear you're going to keep at it.

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