A new normal has begun me thinks.
Travel chaos seems to springing up in hotspots.
Covid has reached another hidden peak
And The Archers have finally returned to their Friday night, 7 pm slot.
I listened to The Archers with interest last night ( For those that perhaps don’t know , The Archers is a radio 4;soap opera which has been running nightly ( except Saturdays) since 1951. It airs for under fifteen minutes a night and centres upon the farming community of Ambridge located in the Midlands)
During the programme, the only Welsh character Natasha ( Mali Harries) has brought her newly born twins home with clueless husband Tom. Whilst the usual banal banter continued ,Natasha and her mother sang a lullaby ( Suo Gân)to the twins in Welsh, the two woman harmonising quite beautifully.
It proved to be a rather sweet moment of gentle drama and pathos in a soap, not always known for its subtly and it’s nostalgia and sense of place can be described well by the welsh word Hiraith
Recently one of our more serious and devout nurses left the hospice and I remember her gently singing the Welsh Hymm Dros Gymru’n Gwlad alongside a patient who was approaching end of life. The music to the hymn is well known to me as we sing a version of it it choir. Sibelius’ Finlandia, but there is something magic and somewhat humbling when you hear someone else sing it out, without embarrassment of self doubt.
Years ago, and I mean perhaps, twenty five years I remember watching one of the African nurses singing a lullaby to a young male patient who couldn’t sleep. The boy was paralysed from the chest down, and was on strict bed rest so she almost knelt at the side of his bed and held his hand, which she placed under her chin so he could feel the song as well as hear it.
The lullaby was called Tula Tula and I remember to this day how the busy ward slowly quietened to silence as everyone, patients and staff, all stopped to listen
There is nothing quite as soothing as a lullaby. I used to sing "Sweet Baby James" to my children as they were going to sleep. During the lock downs I was sent a secreted video taken by my daughter's partner of her listening to it with tears in her eyes. It touched me how much it meant to her.
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ReplyDeleteThe power of a bit of singing x
DeleteThe power of your words. Couldn't listen just then to the audio.
DeleteI particularly liked the Kings College Chapel choir singing Suo Gan from a few years ago. They perfected it.
ReplyDeleteJust for you, I found the video
DeleteMy favourite version is at the end of the film Empire of the Sun sung as the boy is finally able to reconnect with his parents.
DeleteYes, I wonder where Spielberg found the hymn ? It was a stroke of genius using the theme
DeleteI would so love to ask him
Thank you John. I love that version.
DeleteTa, John. The songs and singers were lovely.
ReplyDeleteHugs!
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DeleteNever heard this 'Tula Tula' before though it was clearly familiar to this native South African audience. It certainly captures one's attention on a very first hearing.
ReplyDeleteNot many black faces in the audience Raymondo
DeleteYes, I did notice that. :-(
DeleteWas she singing in Afrikaans in the second verse?
DeleteI wonder how many of that audience had black nannies that sung that song to them
I played it again, and though I used to be able to read, understand and even speak a modicum of Dutch I didn't recognise Afrikaan sounds in her singing - but then the audience suddenly burst into applause for the second verse so it could be that you were right.
DeleteThis brought tears to my eyes, John. When my Mum was at the end of her life, I sang the lullabys to her that she used to sing to me. She joined in, with a weak voice, remembering words I'd forgotten. The power of music and song. xx
ReplyDeleteI have seen that many times
DeleteYesterday the African nurse in charge of my care was humming as he went about his business. It was far more soothing than any painkillers he could give me.
ReplyDeleteNicely put mave
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DeleteThank you sharing such beautiful moments.
ReplyDeleteThe memory of Tula Tula shot out of the blue as I listened to The Archers. Funny how memories like these surface, right out of the blue
DeleteThat was lovely. Especially the last one. I used to sing 'Dream a Little Dream of Me' to my son as a lullaby. Years later when he was about 16 he heard it being played and asked 'Why do I know this song?' It had stayed in his memory from baby times.
ReplyDeleteIt’s only the second time I have ever heard Tula Tula
DeleteBetter known apparently as Thula baba
John, You are truly and extraordinary man. Yes, I think so.
ReplyDeleteNot for this post woody m but thank you, I have a good memory x
DeleteA lifetime of experiences that will forever shape your view of life
ReplyDeleteI have several memories from the hospice too, with many of the welsh nurses featuring in the singing, also I remember one patient playing Schindler’s list theme on the piano we used to have in our old chapel
DeleteNow that was bloody moving
I used to love listening to old time radio shows. It is such a lost art. Now, you get podcasts. Endless people talking about themselves.
ReplyDeleteYes, radio four in the BBC still features the different and the out of the ordinary , it’s still top of its game
DeleteOooh, that gave me goosebumps, just beautiful.
ReplyDeleteWhich one sue
DeleteMy beloved Aunts nieces were surrounding her as she lay in bed before she passed on - One stood at the foot of the bed and began to sing Onward Christian Soldiers with marching arm movements-I accompanieded her-We then made eye contact with each other and stopped-but my Aunt always had a sense of humour x
ReplyDeleteYour family , like you were drama gals
DeleteA lovely memory flis
Nicely done. Singing and song is good for the soul on any occasion. The newer Covid variants are on the rise in the US too. Here we go again!
ReplyDeleteWe have to go forward dont we
DeleteThree beautiful songs and reminiscences -- thank you, John!
ReplyDeleteAnother wander, the older I get, the more sentimental I become
DeleteMusic soothes the savage breast!
ReplyDeleteHave I a savage breast?
DeleteMusic in the right setting and circumstances can be magic,
ReplyDeleteI’m more drawn to folk music recently
DeleteAbsolutely beautiful. The Carols have always been a favorite of mine. The Dros was new to me and is now in my top 10 and the Tula, along with your story, made me realize yet another area that the US health care system lacks.
ReplyDeleteI’ve worked ( briefly ) in the US HEALTH care system and as I think our NHS where healthcare is free, is the best system , nursing is nursing anywhere
DeleteI’m so glad you and your sister are together. Posting on Here to avoid sugary comments.
ReplyDeleteAnd thx for answering my question on Rachel
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