Nurse’ humour is, I know , an acquired taste.
I watched Getting On the other night, which was a sitcom based in an over worked and fraught nhs hospital ward. It’s a work of genius and captures perfectly the screwball nature of very dark humour.
I was reminded of a conversation I had fairly recently with a patient who was somewhat challenging in nature.
He asked me to do something that I was not prepared to do and the subsequent conversation was roughly as follows after he had sworn at me and was now sulking
Patient :”Have you always been a nurse who argues with their patients?”
Me “ I like to think I’m assertive but fair“
Patient: “ I will take that as a yes then”
Me (smiling sweetly) “ no problem”
Patient: “ Have you killed anyone this week?”
Pause
Me “Only two this week”
Patient: “ Only two?”
Me”It’s been a slack week”
Patient laughs
Patient: “What’s your name again? …I might have to report you”
Me “Beverly Allitt”
Patient laughs again
I bet the patient is lifted by that cheeky banter Bev.
ReplyDeleteI have nothing to say, I just want to be top of the list.
ReplyDeleteDamn! The Pudding beat me to it by a second!
DeleteBetter luck tomorrow Thomas.
DeleteTwo Gorgeous men fighting to get in first with me
DeleteLol don’t fight it
DeleteThat sounds like fairly normal banter to me. One doesn't have to be a nurse to exclusively have banter like that. You would be surprised.
ReplyDeleteThat's funny. I was thinking the patient reminded me of you.
DeleteIt sounded like a normal everyday conversation to me.
DeleteI’ve always bantered with patients especially those in spinal injuries who were mostly young men and women
DeleteBut I don’t think banter is the norm in healthcare now. Funnies yes,but not banter since I was a junior staff nurse things are much more serious methinks
Everything is more serious, it seems.
DeleteYes, which is unfortunate
DeleteMy mother's English translated to Hindi.
ReplyDeleteWith any hospital visit I am very nice and polite to nurses and try to not cause them bother, but then I become invisible and seemingly need little attention.
Invisibility often goes hand in hand with short staff numbers and inappropriate skill mixes
DeleteProbably a more common request than anyone in health care wants to admit.
ReplyDeleteI feel I can read when banter can be therapeutic
DeleteHumour when used judiciously can centre upon a problem or a situation much more directly , it can create a bridge
You have the ability to diffuse a potentially difficult situation, with humour. Sadly, not all medical staff have acquired that ability. It's a very useful skill. xx
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree
DeleteIt’s a useful tool in morale and staff stress too
Humor and banter is always good, especially in a stress situation. That said, some people are humorless and their response can be a toss-up. You never know what your are going to get! Quick thinking is key.
ReplyDeleteI’m blessed with a quick wit which has got me out of a few scrapes in my time
DeleteNurses don't get paid enough, in my opinion.
ReplyDeleteI’ve just had a rise Debra x
DeleteLaughter is important. If you are able to bring it into a hospice care, I say good for you!
ReplyDeleteThere is more humour here than I expected Debby.
DeleteMy husband sent me a picture yesterday of a T-shirt that a woman (presumably a nurse) was wearing. It said, "I'm a nurse. I'm here to save your ass. Not kiss it."
ReplyDeleteWe brits would say arse lol
DeleteI like it
The clip from Getting On hit my funny bone. Thanks for that.
ReplyDeleteIt was a cracking series, very true to my nursing life in Sheffield
DeleteI have watched all of Getting On and absolutely loved it!
ReplyDeleteAlways makes me happy to be able to make a grumpy Gus smile or even LOL!! Your comebacks are always great!
I’m rather attached to this patient Marcia
DeleteIt might have been better all round if they hadn't been able to translate what she was saying!
ReplyDeleteI once used an amateur translator to talk to a Croatian patient
DeleteThey wrongly translated that pillow meant chicken
I loved Getting On.
ReplyDeleteMetoo
DeleteYup we have dark, black humour us nurses have to - survival depends on it.
ReplyDeleteThere’s lots of humour out moments I will never be able to share here
DeleteI think the better side of my nature uses humour in situations to lighten the mood. I deal with a lot of very elderly people and sometimes they need a laugh and sometimes they are so angry with their lot or at the world the ability to laugh is the only common ground. The banter you had with your patient sounds like a load lightener to me.
ReplyDeleteJo in Auckland
I so get you…anger is often the simplest emotion for many people to mobilise so to divert it is often very useful
DeleteI love anyone who banters. Ambulance staff are often excellent at it.
ReplyDeleteLove it!
ReplyDeleteLOL!! Now that's funny.
ReplyDeleteI watched a series about a nurse. It was really good. I may have to re-watch it as I'm bored with most television. The show was called Nurse Jackie.
Where can we watch this ,please ,John. sounds just right for us. thanks for mentioning it.
ReplyDeletePeople still dont always understand our humour and we left the health service 50 years ago.
Kathy
I am sure your patients appreciate you.
ReplyDeletePriceless, Beverly!
ReplyDeleteI loved that series-I liked it when she found the chocolate bar-a lifesaver x
ReplyDeleteThis show is brilliant and I must watch it! Jo Brand is a favorite.
ReplyDeleteI work with special needs kids and currently we have one student that is very aggressive. Not many people understand, but Gallows humor gets you through the tough times.