The Smell of New York and The Healing Darkness of The Theatre

 My last post wasn’t a sad one.

I was just struck by the fact that I looked so happy and rather suddenly I was transported to that hot day in New York where the air quality gave the city a smell and a feel all of its very own.
A strange, airless, slightly industrial typically New York type of atmosphere

I remember thinking that as I stopped for a moment on the High Line and squinted into the sun high over the Hudson River.
A moment and a feeling I will always remember.

Anyhow I’ve been busy today. 
I was up early with the dogs then took Bluebell to the hand wash and gave her a good seeing to with the shampoo Lance which is an incredibly therapeutic experience. I waxed her until she shone like a cornflower and vacuumed her insides until the heady stench of wet bulldog was camouflaged with the scent of lemon and antiseptic.



I picked up a coffee at the drive through then drove to the picture framers in St Asaph to pick up two “vintage” posters I had framed. The posters I bought when I went to Sitges ages ago and I found them in  their cardboard roll a couple of weeks ago when I clearing the decks.
The prints are straightforward, Japanese exhibition posters that pleased me with their simplicity.
They will govern the change of decoration in my office 

At midday I popped over to Trefor’s bungalow to check on his eye dressing ( which is doing very nicely thank you!) and after that I met a friend at Theatre Clwyd , for an afternoon performance of the play Isla. 
My friend is still deeply in grief and is finding socialising difficult so after a few aborted plans to meet up, I suggested we met at the theatre where she could “lose” herself  in the darkness and not feel obliged to say anything. 
Theatre and cinema darkness has always been a friend to me when I’ve felt brittle or lost.

Mark Lambert as Roger and Lisa Zahra as his daughter Erin


Isla promotes an interesting idea. Soon there will me more virtual assistants crooning their hushed female tones through wify, speakers, laptop and iPad than people. Lonely Roger ( Mark Lambert) is bought virtual helper Isla by his daughter Erin for him to keep occupied and busy and a strange sort of relationship is forged between man and machine as Roger’s life is complicated by an all consuming technology, lockdown isolation, and a sad loneliness that results in his frustrations being taken out with causal misogyny against his “female” companion with disastrous results  

Catrin Aaron

This co production between London’s Royal Court and Theatr Clwyd is an interesting one. Tightly directed by the theatre’s artistic lead Tamara Harvey and wonderfully acted by Lambert and by Catrin Aaron in a small but effective role as an officious policewoman, this production shows that North Wales’ lead theatre has hit the ground running.
It’s a thoughtful, incredibly funny and occasionally poignant piece of theatre which could stand its own in the west end .

24 comments:

  1. The prints will look great on your office walls. I hope we get some photos when they're in situ. It's very perceptive of you to realise that your friend might gain some sort of comfort from your presence in the darkness of the theatre. No need to talk, just be. xx

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  2. Agree with h h above - maybe just what she needs at this stage in the grief process.

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  3. You gave the play a nice review. That was a nice way to spend time with a friend.
    I like the posters - sort of a maze-like quality to them.
    I realized that I haven't been to New York since the 1964 World's Fair! :)

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  4. The play sounds good; I can't get to a theatre here, so I enjoy your reviews and photos very much :) Thankyou.

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    1. I am so lucky having a nationally acclaimed theatre 20 minutes away
      It’s gotten me through a lot of bad times

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  5. the posters are nice but i love that grey throw on the chair.

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    1. Cheap as chips , I like to mix cheap with expensive

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    2. Always the best way….just go with the eye

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  6. Barbara Anne7:43 pm

    Love the framed prints, too.
    I was also touched by your insight to use the theater's darkness and content to just be with your grieving friend.
    Like Ellen D., I haven't been to New York since the 1964 World's Fair either.
    Bluebell must be feeling really good and well loved after her washing and polishing.

    Hugs!

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    1. The darkness of cinema has healed me many times

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  7. A smell/scent can jolt me back to times of being happy and then living the moment for a while-beautiful but painful for me x

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  8. Sitting in the dark theater and being entertained takes you away from the reality of the day. It's definitely a healing experience. Healing takes time. You are a good friend to be there for her. A clean car inside and out feels like a new car and the ride is always more enjoyable.

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  9. "Isla" sounds very thought-provoking and I hope I get to see a production some day.

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  11. I do like your prints; they look very contemplative. I can imagine you being distracted.

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  12. It is wonderful that you are able to have such varied and good quality theatre productions near enough to visit. We definitely need everything we can get to lift our spirits at the moment.
    The prints look good too.

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  13. We should do posts about memorable moments, and flashbacks to the past. A photo, a smell, a sound, a taste, all can bring memories rushing back.

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  14. Your review today brought back a fond memory of my 92 year old Uncle Paul, who lived alone. He always said “Thank you, Alexi” when his digital system did any task for him.

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  15. New York can get very hot and ovenlike in the summer, with all that radiating pavement. I know what you mean!

    I have so far resisted digital assistants like Siri and Alexa.

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  16. I like the prints they are very calming to me. The play sounds interesting; not my cup of tea however, but I get that sitting in the darkness of a theatre would be comforting to someone grieving.

    As a technophobe in general relying on digital anything brings me out into a cold sweat.

    Jo in Auckland

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