I do like him, he’s a sweet good natured soul.
After that My friend Ruth and I went to Theatre Clwyd for an outdoor production off Catching Comets
Which had a lot to say about the fragile nature of the male psychi in relation to love and relationships ..it was a pity there were only 20 people in the audience.
An intelligent and stimulating one man show
He’s 95 and rather breathlessly was brandishing a quality bottle of white wine, his trousers flapping.
“This Is for you .” He said, offering me the bottle
“Whatever for ?” I asked him
Apparently I had given. him some advice a week ago about what dosages of paracetamol to take for a painful shoulder.
“ I have my own personal doctor “ he quipped
“ And I had the best night’s sleep ever!”
And I smiled
I’m so happy to live in a place which I’m known, liked and valued
And if that sounds rather saccharine
So be it
Actually, it sounds sweet, John ... not everyone gets a grateful thank you for good advice!
ReplyDeleteHope the wine is tasty!
It was, he had asked the supermarket staff to select him a good one
DeleteWhat a nice day you had! You are part of a caring community there and that is a treasure!
ReplyDeleteYes…I needed the boost
DeleteHow lovely! Enjoy that wine as you remember to wonderful events you were part of today!
ReplyDeleteSweet dreams!
and, of course, hugs!
Thanks babs
DeleteEnjoy your wine :)
ReplyDeleteI like the look of your vicar :)
He looks like he should be in an Ealing Comedy circa 1950
DeleteNot saccharine at all... it actually sounds wonderful. As does your day. So glad the Pilgrim Church idea is moving forward.
ReplyDeleteFingers crossed
DeleteWell deservedly respected and loved. You are valuable and valued member of your community.
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DeleteNot saccharine at all. It's wonderful that you are valued, appreciated and loved by your community. Lucky Trevor to have you to turn to for advice. xx
ReplyDeleteI think Trevor is the oldest person in the village now
DeleteIt's what we all should aspire to.
ReplyDeleteXx
DeleteNot one iota saccharine. Community it the best thing ever. Ta
ReplyDeleteI don't find it saccharine at all. It's fundamental caring among those whose lives are entwined not by shared lineage but by choice. And it's heartwarming to hear about it.
ReplyDeleteI get criticised for being too rosy
DeleteWell, you certainly win the prize for 'Best Page Title of 2021'.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely not saccharine - community has shown itself to be vital in our lives there last two ghastly years, otherwise the isolation would have been intolerable. He appreciates you, and by expressing it, he will be more willing to turn for help if he needs it in the future... which keeps the wheel turning. I'm glad you enjoyed the theatre.
ReplyDeleteI agree Virginia …the kindness of former strangers here has boosted me greatly over lockdown
DeleteIt all sounds wonderful. It is so good to be appreciated.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful feel good post John thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteXx
DeleteIt is a shame when a good production is poorly attended.
ReplyDeleteI think it goes both ways with being appreciated and liked by the villagers. You also put in time, effort and caring for the village. It does seem like a really special place though.
I think it must be hard for the actors . I did send a message via Twitter to the actor involved saying how much I liked the performance
DeleteA fulfilling day.
ReplyDeleteIt’s was a nice day , a very nice day
Deletewhat a nice gesture and at 95 good for him to be up that late.
ReplyDeleteHe’d been watching the cottage for a couple of days lol
DeleteThere are aspects of village life which I like, but there are other aspects which I don't. You need to know when to back off in a village, and I am not very good at that.
ReplyDeleteIndeed and the more “ difficult” side of village life, for obvious reasons , is not really discussed here
DeleteSmall village life can become very intrusive.
DeleteIt’s like anything , if the good out weigh the bad you stay.
DeleteAnd soon a break from work begins for you,
ReplyDeleteOh yes !!!!
DeleteWhen you find a place you can call home, nurturing it always pays dividends.
ReplyDeleteMaking an effort isn’t a big sacrifice
DeleteI don't get regularly involved in village life as I feel I should but I feel I cannot make the regular commitments-the dogs take all my energy-I shall be helping with pickle onions soon though and have just bought vinegar x
ReplyDeleteOnly do what you can and want to
DeleteKnown, liked, valued...and loved.
ReplyDeleteMy dodgy computer has been fixed by a kind, tech-savvy friend; so I share your happy vibe!
Sometimes it just catches you…
DeleteOutdoor theater is rare in the US you are fortunate to have this great venue. I agree, male psych is both complex and fragile. Small town intrusion does not exist in Northern states. In New England people can be cold and prefer privacy/distance. In Southern and Western states people are much friendlier. The contrast is striking.
ReplyDeleteIn the Uk it is stereotype that the east and northern peoples are more friendly
DeleteIsn't that what we all really want: to be known, liked, and valued!?
ReplyDeleteYes cheryl
DeleteI thought I had it in my marriage …
You and Trelawnyd were made for each other!
ReplyDeleteI think you have to try to fit in wherever you are
DeleteYes, blessed.
ReplyDeleteThe gift made me incredibly happy yesterday
DeleteI absolutely love your observations and take on life! Don’t ever stop blogging.
ReplyDeleteVery kind…xx
DeleteBeing known, liked and valued is a precious attribute. Not at all saccharine, something to be prized.
ReplyDeleteThank u nick x
DeleteMay I add that I have been very disappointed at times that certain people are not happy when some are thoughtful and kindly-I think it irritates inside themselves-and their values are disappointinly not as I mistakenly imagined-But musn't cloud the good in life x
ReplyDeleteFlis I understand that I may irritate some with my optimistic look of village life ….I don’t really care , i don’t make things up
Deletebut some nasty people have got very angry when I've put myself out there-so rather than cause things to escalate I withdrew-Now I shall think they can Sod Off!-thank you kindly John xx
DeleteSaccharine? No, not at all. It's why you stayed in the village. You are a part of it and they appreciate you.
ReplyDeleteXOXOX
Pleased the Pilgrim visit went well John - hope it all turns out well.
ReplyDeleteAs to you in the village - you know my views on that - yu are one of the most valued members of the community abd should be proud of it xx
How wonderful
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