There is an advantage of being almost as broad as you are long
You give good hugs
A hug should feel all encompassing and safe with a face full of cleavage or jumper...
so its only reasonable that big guys like me can wop em out with much more force than any skinny chicken can do
A friend stopped by yesterday afternoon, all tearful and upset
they needed a long hug and they got one , just outside the kitchen door with Albert watching with his bright golden eyes.
Hugs are food for the needy and sometimes are as rare as hens' teeth.
I am waiting for my ten year old financial advisor to turn up. I hope he is a wizz kid
the morose postman has just been and dropped off a package from Finland
" I hope you're not starting another friggin competition " he moaned loudly as Mary danced at my feet trying to rip the letters from his hand.
He didn't smile at her.....he doesn't smile at anything
"Finland?" I mused "No I'm not expecting anything from Finland!"
The postman snorted
The package proved to be two original prints from Heini Kauppinen.
One for me and one for Rachel...
a lovey surprise....a virtual hug from someone we don't know
thank you!
Under the montana Clematis, hanging on the gate yesterday was a plastic bag with a homemade cake in it.
The note inside said " I hope you don't leave us" and it was signed with an unhappy emoji face and a kiss.
The cake was lemon drizzle with half moons of candied peel on the top.
It was wrapped in silver foil
When I was growing up nobody in my family hugged. When my youngest was born I decided my children were going to get lots of hugs and I started hugging everyone, even my dad. He was shocked at first but came to accept the hugs and I'm hoping even enjoy them.
ReplyDeleteMy big guy is a huge man and gives the best hugs. I also hug my patients frequently. We all need human contact. It's good for our souls and good for our bodies and mind.
Agreed....touch is the inseen treatment for depression
Deletethe garden looks pretty. you have such a green thumb.
ReplyDeleteThe arch was one thing i promised myself before we bought the cottage
DeleteNot only would you miss your cottage, but Trelawnyd would miss YOU. I think you should both reconsider; some things are more important than just cash!
ReplyDeleteXx
DeleteNow you've made me cry!
ReplyDeleteToo much crying today
DeleteOh, John. You are so loved. And if I had a bucket list (which I don't) I think that getting a hug from you would be right on it.
ReplyDeleteAfter my loss , living alone in a too big for just me house, I sold and moved.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't just being alone, it was being hit over the head with memories everywhere I looked.
I miss the house and location though...enough time has passed...so my lesson learned is Not to make any Big decisions for a year.
Mourn now...think about the other stuff later.
Ps
You can also make the house over erasing the ghost of anyone having been there but you.
Well said
DeleteMassive metaphorical hugs winging their way to you.
ReplyDeleteYou fast cat
DeleteI love hugs and hugging. Could do with one right now.
ReplyDeleteDitto xx
DeleteI'm afraid I'm crap at hugs, both giving and receiving and it ain't gonna get better now.
ReplyDeleteGrin and bear it
DeleteHugs from afar!
ReplyDeleteCheers old chum
Deletemost days your blog is like a hug to me.
ReplyDeleteApart from walking dead days
DeleteSeems your postman can do with a hug, virtual and/or otherwise.
ReplyDeleteHe needs antidepressants
DeleteTold you that you were much loved abd hugs are the most important of all xx
ReplyDeleteHugs from hot North Carolina - I have the cleavage if you have the jumper!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteIve got both
DeleteHugs from Arizona! I am in complete Agreement that Hugs are like Food for the Soul. Glad you got so many to keep you well nourished with Soul Food.
ReplyDeleteYour postman sounds a bit like Doc Martin!
ReplyDeleteI think your life is 45% thinking of nice things to do for other people and 45% receiving the same. You do know how to take joy out of ordinary things, and, I believe, that is living well.
Oh, and a big hug from WA.
ReplyDeleteDH's family weren't huggers but I changed that! We hug often and our sons are great at hugging. I couldn't agree more that hugs are essential to keep the planet spinning properly.
ReplyDeletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czl9LuB0nOs
More hugs! :)
Can I have a hug please? My best friend was found dead in their garden on Wednesday, I am so distraught I don't what to do with myself. Ironic that I won your humorous postcard comp., feel I will never laugh again. x
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss, but just think, how much better for your friend to pass away in their beautiful garden than a soulless hospital room.
DeleteI am so sorry Hilly. Rachel x
DeleteSending you love and support as best we can dearheart x
DeleteSo sorry, Hillybean - hugs from here xx
DeleteMay good memories of good times with your best friend make this loss a bit easier. I have framed a picture of my dearly departed soul sister so I can keep her a bit closer.
Deletehugs from here, too.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please add another cyber hug from me.
DeleteThank you so much. I loved him completely. xx
DeleteOh, that is bad news indeed. I am so sorry.
DeleteThank you to Finland for the kind thought of the present. It is much very much appreciated and to be thought about is very special for me. Thank you xxx
ReplyDeleteReal hugs from the heart are among the greatest gifts given and received. It denotes, you are important, you are safe and you are loved. Nothing could be better than that. May hugs keep coming your way, John.
ReplyDeleteThank yous or hugs are such small things for the wonderful gifts you give us. Hope the ten year old financial wiZard brings good tidings. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteYou are much loved John and deserve all the hugs, virtual and real. You can add a hug from me. X
ReplyDeleteWe are big on hugs here. In fact I think it was the hug that clinched it for Tony and I a million years ago. Sending you a hug John... and one for Hillybean.x
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DeleteInappropriate hugging from a creepy uncle.
DeleteSending hugs, big firm hugs, to all who need them, especially to Tom Stephenson who needs one to help him to lighten up.
ReplyDeleteWe all need hugs x thinking about you and sending virtual hugs to you and the furries x
ReplyDeleteHugs from Tucson.
ReplyDeleteSometimes you have to make decisions that you do not want to at the time you have too. I had to, not great. I miss Laguna Beach, my home all my friends but where I moved to I have made a happy place to live in.
Just do the best you can.
Ganbatte, cheers, parsnip xo
Hi John reminds me of a little song I used to sing to my grandchildren.
ReplyDeleteWE ALL NEED A HUG IN THE MORNING
AND ONE AT THE END OF THE DAY
AS MANY AS POSSIBLE SQUEEZED IN BETWEEN
TO KEEP LIFES TROUBLES AWAY
NO MATTER WHEREEVER YOU RAMBLE
OUR TROUBLES BE GREAT OR BE SMALL
IT IS MY BELIEVE FOR INSTANT RELIEF
A HUG IS THE BEST CURE OF ALL.
John keep on hugging Meg
I learned to hug when I lived in Mexico. I love that final photo of the rose arbor.
ReplyDeleteIt's a montana clematis. Xxx
DeleteWhat a lovely gift!
ReplyDeleteA hug is a beautiful thing. Even virtual hugs are comforting, I find. Sending you a big one, John.
Hugs are the best and sending one your way, your postman obviously could do with one. People are afraid to touch anyone here in case it gets misconstrued sad stage of affairs if you can't comfort someone or even touch someone on the shoulder.
ReplyDeleteYour garden arch looks lovely John.
HUgs are definitely needed...even virtual hugs from afar..a lovely surprise from Finland.
ReplyDeleteHugs are an essential. And sadly sometimes rare.
ReplyDeleteYour Montana Clematis is breathtakingly gorgous. Have a good day.
ReplyDeleteSending you hugs from here.
ReplyDeleteHuge hugs from Oregon!
ReplyDeleteRight back at u all
DeleteHugs from New Jersey for everyone :)
ReplyDeleteMiss Fifi
Hugs are what keep the world turning 🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteThe prints and the Clematis are fantastic. Really.
ReplyDeleteAnd you know we’re all sending you virtual hugs, John.
XoXo
As no one mentions the mouth watering cake can I have it please?
ReplyDeleteAnd BTW, no hugs from Mumbai today!?
ReplyDeleteYou inspire such affection from around the globe! That's got to feel good, right? And a gift cake to boot! Your surly postman cracks me up. You'd think he'd be HAPPY people are using the mails.
ReplyDeleteFrom someone also nearly as wide as she is tall, an encompassing virtual hug for you and for the rest of your housemates.
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