She was just being nosey.
I could have punched her in the face until her eyes popped out
Instead I answered the question vaguely , giving what I thought were good enough non verbals for the conversation to be shut down.
" When I broke up with my first husband!" She droned "I went a bit wild and got myself dating half the single men at work "
" And several of the married guys so I've heard"
(I didn't say it but I oh so wanted to)
" Get yourself out there and kiss a few frogs" she suggested
" I'm doing the fastest zip wire in the world, joined a choir and got a part time job will that do?" I told her
She wasn't impressed