I’ve just been on a study day about the treatment of acute trauma
An interesting mix of counselling approaches CBT and EMDR
I soaked up information and approaches like a fat Welsh sponge
It was wonderful
It cost me 250 £
Money well spent
The Liverpool study day mixed its participants into small groups and in my group was a serious German born counsellor who smiled rarely
I found it my mission to make him smile, mainly because I found him terribly attractive
He was butch and masculine and heavily bearded
He was also far to serious .
And in the afternoon he actually laughed at one of my interactions , a time I challenged the tutor with a colourful comment of “ I think that is bollocks”
At a tea time 1 to 1 he told me seriously that he found me “challenging” in the group work
And in a sudden moment of privacy and honesty I told him that was because I found him rather attractive
“I’m in a relationship” he said kindly with a nod
“You bloody would be “ I told him
He touched my arm for seconds longer than he should of and I lapped up the flirt like a spinster out on a church picnic
Oh lord ! I said and meant it
And he laughed loud and long, still holding my arm
And before I walked away at the day’s end he asked me for my phone number