Talking Bollocks

Nigel on a previous Welsh visit

Now I feel I must put the record straight now, after my somewhat unfair cut and pasting of Nigel's now infamous email of yesterday.

Despite his somewhat flowery language and snotty nosed  (tongue in cheek) on line demands, Nigel has been, as always, an easy, relaxed and welcomed guest to chez "Bwthyn-y-llan,

Last night , was a case in point.....after treating every dog to an individually wrapped doggy chews, he presented Chris with a bag of onion rings ( Chris would drop his draws for such a little treat) and kindly gave me a box of chocs ! (sod the diet!!!!)..we all sat down to a nice meal.....and as bottle after bottle of wine was finished off Chris left us to debate the most important subjects of the day

These included.....

* Discussing the kind of new Television programmes that Kirsty Allsop could front....

* The role of porn in mainstream cinema,

* Comparing the size and effectiveness of hand held weaponry from Star Trek and Blakes 7

* why are so many people affronted by art when they don't have to view or experience it?

* Alfred Hitchcock and French New Wave cinema

I could go on ( we did go on!) and as usual it was an evening that two middle aged men acted like schoolboys.

Thank you Nigel for coming, it was fun

Visitors

This is part of an email I received yesterday from Nige who is visiting us today

"Your house better had be fucking clean and tidy when I arrive. Make a list.
I want freshly pressed sheets, flowers (seasonal varieties) on the
kitchen table, etc.
No specially folded towels, loo role or shit like that, as that's a
little common, to be honest.
And please, no fucking rodents/birds/insects in cutlery draw etc.
Organic is so démodé.
Yes, it's all about STANDARDS darling.
 
Nx"

The "rodent" reference eludes to a time when on a previous visit, Nigel

insisted on cooking dinner ( in an attempt to make sure all work surfaces had 

not been walked across by Albert's shitty paws

As he was searching for a wooden spoon in the utensil pot

he found a small mummified sparrow which had been thoughtfully dropped there! 

A Sock Down The Trouser leg

It's 11.29 am and I am just sitting down to my first cup of coffee!

Hell's teeth!

I was up at 6.25 to take Chris to the station...

When we got there we had a row because he had forgotten his wallet which necessitated a trip back home to collect it.

I dropped him off at the station then went to sainsburys to get the week's shop in before Nigel visits on Friday ( Nige is the chap who always leaves "interesting" post comments)

and had then had to face the embarrassment of thanking a somewhat amused male supervisor for returning a somewhat smelly pink sock which had somehow wormed its way down my mucky track suit pant leg to be left forlornly in the aisle near the cooked meats.

"I have just got out of bed...I 'm sorry!", I said in way of an explanation and added somewhat uselessly "It's also happened to me with a pair of underpants once"

The supervisor smiled thinly looking at the grubby sock in his hand

"Thank God for small mercies" he said

Well I finished the shop, returned home, put all of it away, fed the dogs, let all the animals out and fed and watered them all before sorting out all of the recycled rubbish to be collected, washing up the dishes, making the bed and prizing a reluctant piece of dog poo from the kitchen lino.

By the time I had finished it was 9.30 and I was already late to go up to my brother's house for the day, so piling the dogs into the car, I drove up to Denbigh, and plonked the dogs into my brother's large enclosed garden so I could catch up with my sister-in-law.

I had forgotten that Mabel had not really "experienced" a large garden pond before...so I was fairly astonished that after galloping around the lawn with the other dogs, she  leapt the 4 inch wall that surrounds the pond with all the grace of Nijinsky and swallow dived directly into the deepest part of it!

Now dragging over 27 kilos of  hysterical bulldog from a garden pond which is surrounded by a low wall is not easy.

By the time I had caught the nape of her neck I was as fraught as she was; soaked (as she was) and had lost one of my croc shoes to boot, but after a huge struggle I managed to drag her to safety covered with slime and lily pads.

like I said it is only 11.29!

what else can happen?

Watch this space

Oh no not another bloody picture of the bulldog!
Mabel drying off in the car after her adventure

Tarts with Heart

Now Mary Magdalene has a great deal to answer for. Well in cinematic terms that is, as she was the archetypal "good time girl made good". 

Mary also laid  the blueprint for all of those movie fallen ladies that provided some sassy advice, acted as a heroic go between, and who provided  a well needed contrast against a probably less exciting but more "virtuous" leading lady.

Sometimes tragic (remember Violetta Valery in La Traviata?) but always kind of likable, these characters are the ones you remember long after the movie, play or musical is finally over......they don't always have to be the prostitute either but they do have to have lived on the wrong side of the tracks for a while....just enough, that is, to be tarnished by the crappier parts of life's brickbats.

Here are a few of my tarty favourites

Gaye Dawn..the boozed up "hasbeen" singer from Key Largo

Belle Watling.. in Gone With The Wind

Vivian Ward, the tart that Made Julia Roberts a star

One of my all time favs: Helen Ramirez from High Noon

Gena Rowlands as the mobster's moll who saves the kid in Gloria

The break your heart Dallas From Stagecoach

Fantine from Les Miserables

Iris Ferry from Attack On Precinct 13

 Now I only got thinking about "Tarts with heart" after rubbing moisturiser on three of the most damaged of the "Crackhead whores" (like you do).....these three have been separated from the other rescued hens because their skin damage c/o the rampant rooster was the most severe.

Terribly sore and unkempt when they arrived, I placed them into a small run of their own and have hand fed them daily as well as treating their injuries with a daily dabbing of witchhazel and nappy cream.
oK, its all very labour intensive , but the effort has been worth it.

Subsequently the three have become wonderfully tame and placid and although still looking somewhat shopworn and haggard they have become my own "tarts with heart"

Ramirez and Dallas this morning

Bulldog Snaps

 

 Like a Serengeti Lion, Mabel stalks her prey

The Indian Runners, unable to cope with the presence of a new Bulldog run for the hills

The Surprising Face of Benny Hill

I am trying to type this at the kitchen table. 

It's not easy.

As the three terriers sleep after their early morning walk,Mabel is trying to employ every trick in her large repertoire to gain my attention. She has done everything from bulldog "Jazz hands" to balancing a milk bottle on her nose (in my imagination), in an effort to court favour and I am determined not to be beaten by her multi pronged approach......its hard.....but the girl needs to be trained

Now what crap will I be writing today, over my first cup of coffee?

More daring do on the field?

another saga about Auntie Glads scones

No...today children, we are going to talk about innapropriate and sexist behavoiurs

Benny Hill,  it would seem is alive a well and living in North Wales

Dinosaurs exist

On Saturday Chris took me to dinner with several of his work colleagues. The venue was lovely, the food rather fine and the conversations, varied and interesting... it was a night for grown ups.....(not quite what I am used to)

Our table was situated next to the maitre d's station.  The maitre d  is quite a delightful woman, and is the perfect host for any successful restaurant as she is crisp, efficient, hard working and funny to boot! We have gotten to know her rather well over the years, and every time she greets us with a hearty "hello chaps" we beam at her like schoolboys......anyhow I digress...

Towards the end of the meal, as I was chatting away in what I thought was an urbane and witty manner, I suddenly noticed my fellow diners looking over my shoulder at the maitre d station with a mixture of concern, and disgust and I turned to see a male customer gazing somewhat theatrically down the cleavage of the maitre d.

Now this was no subtle and sneaky peep I am talking about here........it was a full on public Mr Magoo type leer that would have put the likes of Berlusconi to shame......and it's1970s brazenness not only shocked us but it deeply upset the Maitre d, who couldn't quite believe what she was seeing!

For one awful second, I had the impression  that the guy was going to go further, but thank goodness he didn't and the embarrassing situation soon passed....but the whole scene left a rather nasty taste in the mouth, especially as the woman involved had been unfairly "slapped" by the encounter.

I can't remember witnessing such stupidity before....am I just being naive?

Spar

OVerheard in the queue at the Spar Garage at midday First Woman: " Like I said he poked me time and time again in full view of his brother AND his sister in law" Second Woman: "oooohhh"...... "what did they say?" first woman: "not a lot....they were pissed and were scoffing pizza" Second Woman: "Birthdays eh."

Joseph Hemelryk of Trelawnyd

The small War Memorial situated in the centre of the village has only 6 names engraved on it. Five men have been dedicated from the Great War, and one man named Joseph Hemelryk, is the single Trelawnyd casualty, from World War 2.

The Incription on the Trelawnyd Memorial

Joseph, was a major in the Royal Canadian Infantry.(Although it is documented that he was actually born in Trelawnyd) His parents ,Lt.-Col. George Edward Hemelryk, O.B.E., J.P., and Elizabeth Mary Hemelryk lived in Henfyn Hall which was located just outside the village after returning to this country in 1911 . Apparantly they originally emigrated to Canada in 1905.

http://www.dyserth.com/html/henfryn_hall__mia_hall.html

Joseph died literally days before the end of the war, and is buried in the Netherlands at Holten Canadian War Cemetery

He was attached to the Glasgow Highlanders and was 33 when he died.

Jospeh's Grave in the Netherlands

The Hemelryks sold Helfyn Hall in 1945.
So with all this history going on in my head, I thought It prudent to attend the village's Remembrance day service which was planned for 4pm. The service is taken by the vicar and by the chapel minister .

The villagers at the Memorial Day service this afternoon. Auntie Glad is centre in red

 

It was a cold afternoon for some of the older members of the village to pay their respects, but thirty or so souls turned up. I stood on the perimeter with Mabel (who was impeccably behaved)

I thought the presence of a bulldog was apt

I had to leave the service early as it was going dusk......roosting turkeys wait for no man....or for any memorial service for that matter!