Going Gently: The Novel

 Like most humbly paid people in the world I need more income.
I’m not good with money and did inherit a large debt after divorce but like a proverbial ostrich ,I so need to get my arse into gear, and my head out of the sand and sort it out.


One day a week from May , I have started to write the book of Going Gently. It’s an incredibly hard task, much of it is like herding cats as there is literally 20 years of blogs to sift through and highlight yes, no or maybe.
Ive also had to print these pieces out and re arrange them into some order , placing the book into chapters that make some sort of sense. 
As a money spinner it’s a work in progress! 
PS: I’m basing my style loosely on James Herriot…frothy and friendly! 

Counselling time can be increased and I’m now taking zoom clients which is helpful but I still need my two hospice night shifts a week to pay the main bills so increasing my counselling days will mean I’m working four long days a week ….not an ideal thing with a bloody catheter, ( please chip in with more ideas) 

So do I advertise for a sugar son with a cardiac condition ? 
Do I start dancing in my kitchen on TikTok!.?
My troll will soon accuse me of touting for handouts 
But I do seriously need to review my old age income 
As many need to do in their  pre pension twilight days , lol
It’s a serious blog hidden behind the humour

122 comments:

  1. Nelliegrace7:38 am

    Have you had a State Pension forecast? We were quietly opted out of part by the NHS so it is much less than expected, even though we paid in full. It may be possible to buy back some years.

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  2. No ideas, sorry, but if you need a proof reader (no charge) I'm your woman! xx

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  3. Anonymous9:44 am

    A book at last, hooray, looking forward to it, ditto Happy Hooker, my offer of proof reading is also free of charge. Jan in Castle Gresley

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  4. Anonymous10:41 am

    See a councillor re: spending problems! Do one more shift per week and put that money into a special, do not touch savings account. Do not eat at restaurants, same with coffee out. Make it at home, put in a flask, then go to the beach to drink it in your car after walking with the dogs. Keep on working on your book. Love you John. Gigi

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    1. I’ve already book myself and completed extra shifts, and have been taken on as a bank nurse in another local hospice.
      I’ve had some professional advice too

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  5. The book is a great idea. I love the cover you posted and I am a big fan of James Herriot. I just started watching "All Creatures Great and Small."

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    1. Have you read the books? I loved them as a boy of 11

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    2. I also read and adored the Herriot books when I was young.

      Hugs!

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  6. Traveller11:36 am

    Well done lad!

    Now I have to buy a copy of the bloody thing given I have been bashing on about it so much!

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    1. Even if it doesn’t get professionally published , I may do it myself one day like ma manleys village book

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  7. Neil (Yorkshire) used Amazon for his book, he may be able to offer some advice. If you use their Kindle and Print on Demand option, your readers in the USA can buy a copy. And yes, some Tick-Tock/YouTube videos of short story telling will help spread the word about the next best seller from Wales.

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    1. An interesting perspective , can we have a video chat soon?

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    2. Zoom, Apple, Google. I use mostly Zoom, but I have used all of these. Email me with a time.

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  8. Anonymous12:04 pm

    How fabulous, you could become a world renowned author with your multi national following. Easily run to several titles published at eagerly awaited intervals. Then there’s the television series, who would you like to see star as you John I wonder.
    I for one can’t wait.
    Sue from Hertfordshire

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    1. Oh lord , how fairytale x 🙏🤪🐈‍⬛🐕🥸

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  9. Well, the book is VERY GOOD NEWS!!! I hope those of us in the US will be able to purchase a copy. I know a few people that have self published here but not sure how that works in the UK.

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    1. Something more to research

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    2. John, my auntie self published her memoirs through
      FeedARead.com Publishing. I haven't looked at it so no idea what's involved, but might be worth you investigating. xx

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  10. I love the idea of a book. You write beautifully and your insights are always worth reading. Seriously.. If I can help at all (just got a contract for my 4th book, woohoo!) then just let me know. I am totally sure you can do this. Jxx

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    1. Jan please contact me jgsheffield@icloud.com
      A video chat , for me would be useful if you could cope with it ( the gravy stains on my t shirt)

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    2. John, very happy to help any way I can. Will email, Jxx

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  11. I am thrilled you're working on a book. No. It won't be easy. But you've been needing to do this for a long time.

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    1. I’ve played lip service to people saying I should . Now I thought why not ? If it fails I will still have the best of Going Gently on paper lol

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  12. A real picture of you would be better than an AI version. The book will take a long time to publish and bring money in. Hopefully, more online counseling appointments can bring in the money you need now.

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    1. I need to gen up of modern computer parlance

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  13. Anonymous1:29 pm

    Creators need financial support.
    Creators it on Patreon?
    Working more shifts
    means writing/editing less pages...it will take longer, and your readers want to help and see results sooner.

    For supporters, it’s an investment in a project they believe in, not a handout.

    Asking for help does, perhaps for most of us, require shedding age-old shame, but that could be a great self-counseling project.

    https://nybookeditors.com/2023/09/how-to-use-patreon-to-support-your-career-as-a-professional-writer

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    1. I need to know who wrote this as I have questions
      Please email me jgsheffield@icloud.com

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    2. Anonymous7:29 pm

      Oh, sorry—this is Fresca—not on google anymore—I’ll text you (on Proton mail)

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    3. Thank u🤪🤪🤪🤪❤️

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    4. Patreon is a great idea! And I'll look forward to buying your book.

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    5. I need to know what patreon is

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    6. Anonymous10:06 pm

      Follow the link in my message above

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    7. Anonymous10:11 pm

      Or here : Wikipedia
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patreon

      It’s a way people can donate subscribe to creators like you—sort of like go fund me but for creative projects

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    8. Anonymous10:12 pm

      (Thst was Fresca again—I emailed you too 🥰)

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  14. At last you are buckling down and getting on with the book, it in itself could be your retirement fund if you manage to get it finished. Don't be afraid of lifting some blog posts in their entirety as mini-chapters. Personally I love books that are written in diary format, after all if it's good enough for Stanley Tucci and Nigel Slater it's good enough for a prolific blogger. Good luck with it, and yes I am another actual proof reader willing to check it over for you.

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    1. You have always been so supportive Sue , and I value that

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  15. Just a suggestion because I think it would be a bloody good read.... But maybe it is a series of books... If you wrote the first chapter or two with a synopsis of the rest of book 1 and sent it off to some publishers? The Winnie Years... Sweet William... Down at the Ukrainian Village... I see a series of books. I have been reading along for a lot of years but will wish you well and go back to lurkdom.

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    1. Anonymous7:01 pm

      Great name thatwoman !

      Lee here, I will leave you something in my will, I’m an older broad ( 12 years older than you . (And I have cardiac enlargement and no liver )
      lol
      Lee🍸

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    2. Lisa thank you for those ideas, I love people brainstorming ideas
      And Lee
      You delight me every comment

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    3. Anonymous8:07 pm

      Fuck that , I just want to see you happy

      Lee🍸

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    4. Ditto dearHeart 🌈

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  16. Good for you, going the book route! I'm not sure how much money there is in books these days but if you sell like Herriot you're sure to have a secure retirement and then some. Especially if you get picked up by the BBC! And then Russell Crowe can play you and Nicole Kidman can be Chic Eleanor!

    I don't know anything about book publishing but I think Lisa has a good suggestion to write up a proposal and some sample chapters and go from there. Also, you'll want to try to get an agent.

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    1. I need to know how things really work , and seperate them from how I think they work

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  17. Anonymous3:42 pm

    We all get there at some point - one day we wake up and realize we're old, slightly more vulnerable and no chance for a do-over - it can be a scary time for us all and while there's some solace that we're not alone, it's hard not to worry.
    I haven't followed your blog for long but my thoughts from 1,000 ft are that, in addition to a strong support network, you have the advantage of a long life-experience with the things that scare us most - aging, dying and dignity. It seems to me that in this crazy world where our families and we will need to understand and negotiate the bureaucracy of growing old that someone with your skills would have a place of value - mentor, advocate, speaker, writer - you name it. All of us are going to need some help with this.
    All the best
    Dave

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    1. That is a lovely comment Dave , and I want you to know, I’m here to do what you suggest as it is second nature for me.
      I’m leading with this blog today as I had a panic attack that I can’t afford a car if bluebell dies

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  18. Good wishes and good luck w both the book annd counseling career. Counseling, esp via Zoom, seems very positive and creates immediate income. Going forward--sorry to say this, but every penny saved counts. I have not traveled or gone to a film or theater since my ex left 15 years ago-ish. No coffee and porridge out, no non-essential drives to pretty beaches. No emotional shopping, wait til next day to click cart. *Small* gifts only to immediate family; strictly budgeted. [not theatre weekends in London w Royal Ballet]. Only one pet who will not be replaced. Only new clothes or shoes that are essential. Other than my companion dog these things are not essential to living. [I know your readers cheer you on, but you do NOT need to travel or go to movies--you need food and roof overhead]. I also sold all my jewelry to survive when ex left me w kids/ penniless. One has to pare to essentials. Not advice, I know you hate advice--just saying how I coped. I'll be one of the first in line for that book! PS Kofe/ patreon/ youtube, go fund me--quick sources: "Save John's Cottage" Fund etc

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    1. Anonymous4:50 pm

      Totally agree. There are “wants” and “needs”…..you need to cut back on so many “wants”.

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    2. I will keep up with the occasional theatre trip and cinema.these alone keep me sane in an often insane world and I need them
      Tomorrow’s night shift is extra and that money and my counselling monies go into a separate account

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    3. Lizzy I totally agree. John you need to save for your future. I'm retired and I don't know what I'd do if I hadn't saved.

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    4. Ii'm sorry Lizzy this has been your lot in life..

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    5. Anonymous2:27 pm

      Just for comparison, my sister and I spend no more than £15-£20 on birthday gifts to each other.

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  19. John I've just wanted to make a little money on the side and i can't figure out how to do that.. soooo I'm afraid i'm no help to you... I will be following closely as you take this book idea and run with it... like many others i love how you write... it has kept me here these many years... tell stories.. be a story teller... I don't think we ever grow out of liking having a story told to us.. Big BIG hugs! deb

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    1. My last breath will be drawn as I’m telling a story dear deb

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  20. Anonymous4:45 pm

    As a single retiree of 8 years, I wonder how you can afford all the cinema and trips you take and also meals out. Yes, a lovely way to live, but I would rather not work so much at any real jobs and cut back on so much fluff and extra spending like I feel you do. And cut back on the spontaneous spending. But, everyone is different in their priorities. I just could not work as a nurse any longer. My body wanted some good years in retirement. We chose our own poison and what works for us. Good luck.

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    1. I will argue this point my dear….its all about balance
      Be a little richer and allow my mental health to suffer or enjoy a non flashy meal or cinema alone or with a friend or go to the theatre ( cheap seats) I know which one my counsellor head would advocate.

      Suffice to say , I have the smallest tv possible to own ( covered in cat pee droplets) I own an old car, haven’t bought shoes or clothes for over 2 years and haven’t repaired a cracked kitchen window because I can’t afford it

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    2. Anonymous7:23 pm

      Fuck John, you don’t need to justify things

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    3. No you don't... if those little things break you then you are already broken... you know what your heart and soul needs to make life worth living.. hugs! deb

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  21. Anonymous5:06 pm

    A college friend of mine retired after a full career in opera and theatre. He got a consulting gig with a medical school, teaching patient communication to young med students who have only lived with a phone in one hand. …and who turned out to be quite awkward with face to face conversations, especially the difficult ones. Is there a school near you? This kind of follows what Dave said above.
    I’ve helped several people self-publish. There’s not much money in it after you pay for your own printing. Better to find a good agent and commit to public speaking & book signing. That’s all part of the sell these days.
    Don’t write the whole book before you find an agent, just an outline. They can see your beautiful writing style on your blog.
    With all wishes toward success, Bonnie in Minneapolis

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  22. Anonymous5:12 pm

    John you will have to do the Jilly Cooper version of your blog 😜Then Netflix will buy it off you !! It’s all very stressful I know and foregoing your enjoyable beach coffee won’t make that much difference! There has got to be some small joys in life or it’s not worth working at all . ! Every man and his dog has a side hustle these days it’s just hard to find the right one . Try not to get burnt out after all your efforts to get out of the job that really burns you out ! John try not to worry you will prevail ! X Bernie

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    1. It's not just the $8.00 coffee, it's the gas used, he isn't close to the beach, and wear and tear on BlueBelle who he can't afford to replace. To be really frugal means eliminating self justified wants as needs. John can have coffee in his beautiful back garden instead.

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    2. Both of you are right, perfectly right. But I have to balance things, and acknowledge the toll that hospice work takes on the psychi .
      My coffee is usually from McDonald’s ( 1.99£) but Lizzy has a point
      Having said this , if I ever blogged about my frugal days , I’d have you all comatose

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    3. John,you've had your share of health problems. Please consider that you could be unable to work someday. You are burning the candle at both ends and somethings gotta give

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  23. Oh! What wonderful and exciting news and an excellent book it will surely be.
    Think some time ago I mentioned to you a book I'd read by Margret Renkl called "Late Migrations" that had one to three pages for each of her stories. Perhaps that format would suit your blog pages better than Jame's Herriot's longer chapters?

    Hugs!

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    1. I’m thinking of using a journal format but in chapter form

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  24. Caution. Not wanting to rain on a parade, but......
    More than a decade ago, I was an enthusiastic follower of a blog. Wonderful writer, fantastic blog. Author's background was in journalism. Her blog was basically about her adventures in being there for her elderly mother. We readers laughed, cried, sympathized and empathized with the two of them. MANY, MANY times readers commented that "A" should write a book. She should put that blog into book form. We were so sure it would be a bestseller! Well, the day came, after some years, when the mom died. The blog was taken down, since a book was planned. Alas. No good outcome. Publisher could not be found. Finally found one who insisted that the book needed to be shrunk, etc. The book never happened. Very disillusioned blogger; equally disillusioned readers, Such a disappointment. I just wish the blog had not been taken down. So many memories.

    Please don't let your future be dependent upon having a book published. Meanwhile, somebody needs to come up with a way for your blog readers to support this blog! We certainly get a lot from it! I mean, we would pay for a book---- why can't we choose to pay for that same book that is in blog form?

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    1. Good real world advice. I'd be happy to pay/ subscribe to the blog. Patreon?

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    2. Runrose, oh I hear you
      I’m grounded by the likely hood that this will never happen but if I didn’t even get things in order,I’d die a man who “ should have at least tried”
      I’m happy at every suggestion , there are many bright minds here

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  25. I agree with RnR above

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  26. Anonymous7:24 pm

    John,
    I will buy a copy only if I and everyone here is mentioned in the dedication

    Keith

    Xx

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    1. Wouldn’t that be a publishing challenge

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  27. Yorkshire Liz7:34 pm

    Do your research before you start writing seriously. Find a publisher that takes your sort of material unsolicited or without an agent; three chapters or 3,000 words may be enough to get you a deal - writing it all on spec may put you on a hiding to nothing and waste a lot of time.
    Investigate self publishing via Amazon; a self published success can get you a proper publisher.
    Take yourself to a literary festival or two and do some networking. Apply to Gladstone Library for a bursary or similar. Or you could ask your readers to contribute to costs and give everyone a credit in the book - a friend did this.
    It is too easy to work yourself to death in isolation and still get nowhere. Do not fall for a vanity publisher, who wants to take your money, not earn it. Do not join a writer's group. Do not give up! Your content is excellent, and strikes chords in the hearts of your readers. Your background gives you credibility. So - onwards! And good luck!

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    1. Some excellent points and I suspect I need to drop some of my natural pride

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    2. I think another video chat on line may be useful if you are on for it

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    3. Yorkshire Liz: I am curious why you advise - do NOT join a writers group? I have come close to joining one and an inner voice always stops me but not sure why.

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    4. I should follow my instinct I guessed

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    5. Yorkshire Liz8:41 am

      I do not advise people to join a writer's group because you get too many conflicting opinions on your work from people who aren't writers, just wannabe writers (I am a professional journalist and author) This confuses and, worse, has you following the opinions of people who don't know what they are doing, so you end up following low level stuff like sheep and not knowing what you are doing either. If you want to write properly you need practice, to read good stuff in line with what you want to write to find what rubs off - like osmosis - and to then only listen to your own voice to express it, unless you are listening to proper professional writers (whose experience and natural cynicism is not popular with amateurs.) Who don't join writers groups. There are professional editors out there who, for a fee - because everyone has to live - will give proper considered advice. Don't do writers magazines, either unless you want to read them as if comics. Same thing applies.And most of the literary competitions; just money making schemes that have no credibility within the profession. I know this all sounds very negative, but it is not meant to be. Making money from writing is hard work and getting the right break, and there are a lot of people out there making money out of the daydreams and ambitions of others.
      Having said all that - Going Gently is good, unusual, positive caring and witty. John Gray is a unique voice that needs to be heard further afield!

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    6. Yorkshire Liz - thank you for that. I have long known that I should always pay attention to my inner voice and here is yet another confirmation. I agree 100 % that John's voice needs to be heard further afield!

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  28. Here's a thought- you might run a raffle and the winner gets to "star" in one of your stories 😁 xx

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    1. Anonymous8:53 pm

      I will without a doubt buy your book!
      Money making ideas: You haven’t done this so I assume you don’t like the idea but how about a roommate?
      The second idea is to become a death doula. The role is very popular in California, it’s important and pays well. For those who don’t know, the doula supports the patient and family through death. With your medical plus psychological training you would be a natural.
      Also you love to cook. Is there something you could make and sell? Scotch eggs? Cakes? Once a month dinners at the church?
      We want you to succeed! Catheter be damned! Suz from California

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    2. I ain’t sharing Bwthyn y llan ..done it once

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  29. Would you consider doing a calendar of the dogs and cats, done in PDF form so no printing costs for you. I would like to ask that Winnie be Miss September please

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  30. Your book will be a success. Look how many people read your blog!!

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  31. Yippy! A book! that will get us late comers to your blog caught up.

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  32. Anonymous9:50 pm

    I totally agree with Mr Yorkshire on publishing.
    You have some great stories to tell about your local area and its history. Could you get a grant from a local authority?
    Perhaps you could do the Insta thing where you do some Welsh cooking using local products or solicit the menagerie and take pics of them eating particular foods etc

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    1. Anonymous9:57 pm

      Actually I meant Yorkshire Liz
      At the moment in Australia you and your topic have to have currency to get published .
      Insta and followers is probably the way to go

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  33. Only Fans? I'm really not much help at all. I hope everything works out.
    Can you increase your counselling even more?

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  34. Athene10:02 pm

    I’d definitely buy the book! If you need more income, though it’s probably not guaranteed. You are best looking at your most valuable skills - Is there anyway you could teach/train, you have vast experience of specialist nursing, palliative care and other specific skills.
    I’m going to disagree with some of the other posters on here. Life is for living, and coffee, cinema trips and meeting friends are not just ‘wants’, they are essential, especially if you live alone.
    Start a ‘Bluebell Fund’, try and put in anything you can save, overtime, anything left in your budget at the end of the month, loose change if you still carry cash - even £5 a week will add up. But don’t stop doing things that make life worth living.

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  35. So excited about the book! Can't wait to read it. We've followed you for many years but do not comment often. Wishing you all the best.

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  36. Hi John,
    I worked part time for years because I was raising kids. Then a long period of unemployment. Safe to say i will never be rich and maybe I put my head too far in the sand but after years of life being really really hard, I just enjoy life with little thought of saving for the future.
    What would life be without a theatre trip, a coffee or a movie.
    I will buy the book when it comes out.
    Xo

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  37. Anonymous11:18 pm

    I don't comment very often, but I read your wonderful blog every day. Count on me to buy any book you publish. Life is so hard, and I despair of the Muppets in charge.😔
    Alison in Leeds X

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  38. It's me again. Over the years you have occasionally posted a short video and I always notice your lovely voice. I am wondering how you could market that. Audiobooks?

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  39. Oh. I would be glad to buy a copy of that book!

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  40. Would some tiktoks provide some income? I'd watch you potter about the cottage.

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  41. Anonymous7:31 am

    Hello John, just a suggestion, I see at least one other person mentioned Patreon, but what about doing a Substack, which can be basically like your blog, but people subscribe and read your posts? you could do your blog for your normal posts and then start putting the entries you are writing for your book on Substack which people pay to read. Then it would give you some feedback on your written stuff without it just being straight out there on the internetwebs. You can also do posts on there that anyone can read too. Good luck whatever transpires! Amy

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    1. Anonymous11:31 am

      Yeah, substack is a better idea!
      —I’d suggested Patreon,
      but the very fact that you hadn’t heard of it, John, suggests it’s not the happening thing anymore – – while everyone knows substack, and a lot of bloggers
      have already moved over there.

      Best of luck with your grand work!!!
      – – Fresca

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  42. Just look at the success of local Prestatyn boy made good..'It's always sunny in Wrexham'..it can be done! If you can dream it..you can do it!

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  43. Sue P7:57 am

    Delighted to hear about the book. I agree just write a couple of chapters & send to publishers, then you can continue the rest of the book at your leisure. Ideas: Raffle, making items to sell (your pottery people are delightful), Cake shed or sale of homemade bakes every couple of weeks, plant sales, sell on Vinted/Ebay/fb marketplace. Check out some of the frugal blogs & Martin Lewis - they have good ideas. Hang in there. Something will turn up x

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    1. Anonymous3:34 pm

      I would add Etsy to that list. I live in the US and I've purchased a few items there from England. Those pottery people might be a hit. I know I would purchase one, maybe two or more. Galestorm, USA

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  44. Anonymous9:56 am

    Start writing a Sunday blog (or what other day you fancy) on Substack, you can have paid subscribers. We all hop overthere. You won’t have to leave your blog here but just write an extra one there!

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      Who wrote the anonymous comment about Substack

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  46. John,
    I am so delighted that you are trying to make something of your blog by pulling posts together into a fluent and meaningful whole with a view to publication. This is not going to be an easy task but I hope you will see it through to the end. If nothing else - you could definitely have it published as an e-book on Amazon. That costs nothing. But done properly, "Going Gently" the book could be of genuine interest to some mainstream publishers who are of course always looking to make profit. You could message two or three selected publishers with your proposal They may be able to offer suggestions and professional assistance.
    Best wishes,
    Neil

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  47. So glad to hear you are at work on your book notes. I have no knowledge on that front. But as I approached retirement, I did 3 things that helped me. I used a little notebook to make a wish list of things I wanted and needed. I tried to get to 100 and made it to about 50. When confronted with a new wish, I put it in the book instead of making an impulse buy. When I decided to purchase something or that I didn’t want it after all, I crossed it off. I’m down to 7 things. I also made a google spread sheet to track my expenses by category. At the end of a month, I put in what I actually spent. This let me know where the money went and how much I really needed to have to meet my retirement needs. Finally, each February, I do a financial fast - buying only gas and groceries and paying household bills. Instead of online shopping, I delete myself from website communications that tempt me. All of these made me aware of how I wanted to live. Turns out giving gifts and traveling really matter for me! All the best to you as you carry on.

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  48. I have absolutely no knowledge on publishing so I’m afraid I can’t help with that, but I am very excited for your book. I definitely think there’s scope for several books and as an avid book reader, and as a fan of your blog, I would buy every book you write.
    Financial worries are a heavy weight to carry, I’ve no practical advice for that either as I’m trying to grapple with my own but I wish you all the very best.

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  49. Well, a book sounds wonderful, but any income will be way off in the future. Trimming expenditure can be done now.

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  50. Writing a series sounds like an excellent idea. A series of books dedicated to a selection of topics means numerous sales (and not just one book).
    I love the book cover you have designed!

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  51. Anonymous5:50 pm

    Hi John. This is fantastic news (the book) !!! You write so beautifully and have made one laugh and cry with your words (sometimes at the same time) I'd DEFINITELY buy it after reading your blog for many years.Your finances are private and personal but have you spoken to a financial advisor who may be able to help with retirement planning. Random but have you thought of going on Youtube with your blog? You can montize it and lots of former bloggers are doing it and making a good income. X x

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  52. I'm so happy to hear this. I'll send an email. XO

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  53. Anonymous8:37 pm

    I would love to read your book, you write so well. Sometimes you make me laugh, others I cry, and you have a great sense of humour. I expect it would be a great success. No idea how you’d get it published though.
    Patreon might be worth a look, I’d pay a subscription. Other ideas, online surveys, some sort of companionship/ helping someone out once a week, dog walking services, providing support for someone who’s dying ( maybe that’s too much with your hospice work).

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