Monday Meeting

 The weather has been fine today, almost springlike in-fact.
I washed the bedding and hung it on bushes and the field gate to dry, then drank caramel coffee and talked to the German for an hour. At teatime when I collected the duvet and sheets and the eiderdown, they all smelled vaguely of grass, clematis - the Montana and in my imagination elderflower, which flourishes on the field borders. 

At twelve I went to the village hall to help brainstorm more activities needed by the village which hopefully get funding from the local authority. Lots of good ideas were put forward, including help to learn how to produce a stage production properly, the proper use of internet and mobile phones, help with internet scamming, mental health support, cookery and budget help, outdoor landscaping, lots of ideas were thrown into a pot which is a testament of how much good humour and mutual respect is present.

I covered the outline of my leg bag with a jumper when I walked in to the hall which village elder Ian gently joked that I looked like a Mason with his apron. Gentle joshing is healthy and saves me the energy of doing it myself. 
People have been very kind.

Bun now accompanies us on every walk down the lane now, and skips along in the lead rather than following the troops . For the first time she forgot herself and rubbed her head and neck under the chin of an astonished Roger on their way home which was something Albert used to do to Winnie regularly. 
My stand back and watch plan over the last 18 months seems to have worked wonders.
Tonight she was waiting for us by the front door and yowled when she spied me holding the dog leads
She seems easily pleased

20 comments:

  1. What great ideas for your village. I'm sure there will be many more activities thought up once the ball really gets rolling.
    Most people are kind, and especially so if you are well loved and respected in your community. You are surrounded by friends.
    Dear little Bun. She's a real part of the pack now. Just a bit more work on Weaver to get her to fully integrate, although I suspect, like Albert, she's her own cat! xx

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    1. Weaver walks to the garden gate, or wall….no further , but she watches with some interest as Bun takes the lead. Funny , weaver is the alpha , who always feeds first , Bun is lower in the social ranking , but remains more curious and sociable

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  2. Anonymous7:07 pm

    I can just imagine Roger's befuddled expression. Good for you going to the meeting! Getting out with your new accessory seems very healthy.

    Ceci

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    1. I saw Bridget at the garage shop this evening and shared about my new handbag
      Great in cold weather she quipped

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  3. Most of us, cats included, can learn to trust, given the chance.
    You're doing good, John. You really are.

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  4. Llynn8:36 pm

    Most of us have problems of some sort. Some are visible (or nearly so) but many are hidden. I try to not to judge. Be kind is a shortcut rule for me to remember. A friend says “Choose love” is hers.

    Other friends who make bronze sculptures hide this question in interview for hiring helpers: “Do others think you are kind?”. They need to trust in kindness of all coworkers as they pour molten metal!

    It is lovely that you able to trust your communities.

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  5. Yorkshire Liz8:47 pm

    A good Monday, starting the week as you mean to go on, full of friendship and fresh air!
    Kindness breeds kindness a day you have plenty for other people so relax into being at the receiving end for once!
    Bun is doing well but always on her own terms. Animal magic!
    The Gray family are all upping their game!

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    1. Weaver will always be the Mary Bennett

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    2. Weaver will always be the Mary Bennett

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  6. Anonymous9:10 pm

    Oooohhh lots of news in Trelaenyd ….your village is so proactive

    Lee

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  7. Sounds like quite the day! Hope you, Mary, Roger, Bun & Weaver are having a relaxed & peaceful evening.

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  8. I'm glad someone asked about Weaver, above, because that was my question too. I'm also glad to hear there are lots of ideas for future Trelawnyd adventures!

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    1. Weaver hides ..
      Sometimes I forget about her , shes a tenant you never see

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  9. The meeting to identify community events sounds like it went very well. You have a great group of people to work with.
    Your fur-kids have very distinct personalities.
    Weaver seems to still stand back and not engage easily. Do you consider her a loner and/or an observer?
    Is cat-time still useful?

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    1. Weaver is incidental , she’s neither a family member more a lodger who pays nothing

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  10. I love to hear of Bun's growing self-confidence!

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