Validation and miles

 


This nurse I’ve know for almost thirty years. She is a specialist spinal outreach nurse based at the spinal Injury unit in Sheffield and as a young charge Nurse I was her mentor when she was new and shy and professional and clearly talented. 

She has just won a prestigious RCN Foundation award in recognition of her outstanding contribution to patient care and I sent my congratulations to her yesterday , alongside hundreds of others.

She sent this message back 

Andrea Patterson

John Gray you were the best mentor a quiet, newly qualified nurse could ask for ❤️. You're one of the reasons I'm still at Spinal Injuries xx” 

How lovely 

I will end with a quick reply to dear Stubble Jumper’s Kate

Trelawnyd to London ( Via Prestatyn by train) approx 190 miles
Trelawnyd to counselling 19miles ( car) 
Trelawnyd to hospice 24.5 miles ( car)
Trelawnyd to The Storyhouse or Picturehouse 27 miles( car)
Trelawnyd to Theatre Clwyd 16.5 miles (car)
Trelawnyd to sister’s houses ( car) 4.4 miles, either or 

Bed soon



45 comments:

  1. Barbara Anne9:00 pm

    Congratulations to Andrea and to you as her long ago mentor. What a heartwarming note she sent you!!
    It was interesting to read the mileage to the places you frequent.
    Sweet dreams!

    Hugs!

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  2. Anonymous10:12 pm

    Bless her...and you. To have changed even one life because you have lived...is to have succeeded. Yes....kudos to Andrea.....and to you....
    Susan M/ Calif.

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    1. Anonymous8:59 pm

      So many characters on the spinal injury made me a better person…Lewis the social worker, Kim the psychologist , ravi and Mac the consultants , Sarah the matron , David ash, Andrea, Nigel cox, Ruth! Joy Hutton, kavina and robina ….i could go on

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  3. What a nice tribute...to both of you!

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  4. Lovely compliment to you both.
    Congratulations to the rising star. This award is a wonderful acknowledgement and hopefully she will benefit financially as well.

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  5. It's a tough job and that makes the connection between you and Andrea precious and deep.

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  6. Congratulations to your former mentee!

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    1. She looks like she is, a gentle intelligent soul

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  7. Doesn't a note like that just make it ALL worthwhile ... very sweet.
    Thanks for the distance info: I've made a note and will be looking at it from time to time.
    Kate

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    1. It does 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

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  8. What a wonderful compliment to get from a nurse you mentored and helped shaped her career.
    I'm with Kate, I know how far things are in minutes more than miles or kilometers, but I can always check on google maps for how far something is and I do.

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  9. A note like that one says it all John, I am not at all surprised you got it.

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  10. What a lovely note. Well done to you both. xx

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  11. You set her on the right path. She learnt, listened and blossomed. A lovely note. So nice to be remembered so fondly. xx

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  12. You obviously made a difference in her life. x

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  13. Anonymous9:11 am

    Such a lovely note from a wonderful nurse.Your work carries on. Carole R.

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  14. You have touched many lives, with many more in the future.

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  15. Anonymous12:26 pm

    That was a very nice complement from Nurse Andrea. You are a very special Nurse too John.. I woke up today to a note from my daughter saying, now that you are 85, you can do whatever the f..ck you want to, happy birthday. Gigi

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    1. Happy birthday, Gigi. Hope you have a great day. xx

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    2. Yes happy birthday dearHeart xx

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  16. Congrats to Andrea and you, too!

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  17. So many lives you've touched and made better.

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  18. Krayolakris2:23 pm

    Congratulations to Andrea. And kudos to you, John, for your impact on her career. Having a positive influence on another person’s life is the very best raison d’etre.

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    1. I always hoped I’d made some sort of difference as a ward manager , it’s lovely to hear that I did ok

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  19. Yorkshire Liz2:49 pm

    The most heartfelt compliments are the quietest ones. That validation from Andrea is the best. Should have you quietly smiling to yourself for days. Both of you are heroes!

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  20. Good work, John.

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    1. I knew she was quality , u can just tell…and a lovely humble woman to boot

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  21. Anonymous4:08 pm

    Well done Andy! And how gracious of you, John Gray, to remind us of your pivotal role. Truly selfless.

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    1. lol still obsessed , still bitching, still incredibly sad xx

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  22. What a wonderful legacy. If thinking in terms of a pyramid, imagine the lives that have been touched. Certainly something to be proud of. Thank you for sharing that.
    Also, I agree with others that the distance chart is interesting.

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  23. Anonymous4:16 pm

    Wow, what a compliment!

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  24. Anonymous1:10 am

    See? You are a lovely person. Thank goodness you haven't let it go to your head. LOL. Be well, and carry on . .

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  25. Eu ainda me lembro que há 3 anos atrás, você se juntou a Gabriela Santana Andrade para ficar me humilhando no grupo do Whatsapp de analítica 1 por você estar fazendo iniciação científica e eu não. Eu estava doente naquele dia, o que você fez comigo, não se faz nem com um bicho. Eu ainda me lembro que eu perguntei por que ninguém estava me defendendo, você falou que eu estava no fundão e a faculdade de direito ficava lá no centro, ou seja, com você faz farmácia e não direito, você não precisava me defender da humilhação, você agora fica agindo com se você não tivesse feito nada de errado, eu acho que ser psicopata é pré-requisito para se fazer iniciação científica.

    Eu sei tudo sobre você, eu achei o seu perfil no Instagram e no Linkedin:

    https://www.instagram.com/jessicamel.faria/

     

    https://br.linkedin.com/in/j%C3%A9ssica-mel-da-silva-faria-2834921b0

     

    Agora você vai se formar como farmacêutica como se nada tivesse acontecido, você representa o que a UFRJ tem de pior.

    Você também é amiga de Beatriz Ribeiro de Oliveira, que é incapaz de passar em qualquer disciplina sem colar na prova. Que uma vez eu ouvi a Beatriz falando que tinha escondido a cola da professora.

    A Beatriz falou tão mal da Lages, rodou todos os professores de orgânica 1 e só conseguiu passar em orgânica 1 com a Lages, agora a Beatriz está falando bem da Lages.

    A Beatriz inclusive publicou esse artigo científico:

    https://www.mdpi.com/2072-6643/17/17/2763

     

    É isso o que acontece com quem cola na prova e fala mal dos outros, publica um artigo científico.

    A Beatriz Ribeiro de Oliveira representa tudo o que há de errado na UFRJ.

    Pode mandar o seu amigo o Guilherme de Sousa Barbosa me matar, o Guilherme de Sousa Barbosa ano passado ameaçou me bater na faculdade, mesmo sem eu ter feito nada contra ele. Manda ele vir na boca de fumo que tem em cima da minha rua mandar o traficante me matar. Aqui na minha rua funciona um ferro velho clandestino que fornece material furtado para os traficantes construírem barricadas.

    Garanto que eu não vou fazer nenhuma falta, a vida é boa para quem faz iniciação científica e para quem não faz só resta à morte. Eu não vou perder a minha bolsa de iniciação científica.

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