When I got home a plate of tomatoes sat on the kitchen wall. They are sweet and fresh and must come from animal helper Pat’s vine.
Eva Victor as Agnes
I’ve been to the cinema today and saw Sorry Baby
It’s a wonderful watch.
Written and acted by Eva Victor, it tells the survival story of Agnes, a possibly neuro-divergent University Professor and her four year recovery from being sexually abused by her tutor whilst a graduating student.
Told in five episodes ( 2 in flashback) we follow Agnes and her friendship with fellow student Lydia's ( Naomi Ackie) The friendship is intense and unconditional, and is pivotal to Agnes’ recovery and in some bitingly funny scenes we see her negotiate with intelligence and dignity the pain such an event has on a life, lived quietly.
The audience roots for the lost Agnes. Her small triumphs are our triumphs, and we smile when she provides a home for a lost kitten or when she is comforted by a benign middle aged cafe owner when out of control ( a nice turn by John Carol Lynch) below
The story is a hopeful one and its refreshing that Agnes is never portrayed as a victim , but more a person who holds her cards to her chest and who is what she is.
It’s a lovely film
And its message lingers long in the mind , well after the credits have rolled.
Agnes and Lydia a touching friendship
Yum! Home grown tomatoes! My sweet AMIL loved tomato and mayo sandwiches in season.
ReplyDeleteI'll have to watch for Agnes to be on a streaming station as it sounds a worthy movie. Thanks for the review!
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Hugs!
It’s an intelligent watch
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ReplyDeleteI appreciate how you highlighted Agnes’ resilience and dignity; it’s powerful when a story focuses on survival and growth rather than victimhood. I’ll remember your recommendation.
ReplyDeleteIt was a refreshing watch, to see someone flattened by a crime but not defined by it
DeleteThat sounds like a real life-affirming film. One I would watch.
ReplyDeleteI can smell those tomatoes from here. Nothing quite like home-grown, fresh off the vine tomatoes. The taste of Summer! xx
And the taste of friendship
Delete"Sorry, Baby" sounds good -- I'll watch for it here. Last night I watched the animated Oscar winner "Flow" -- I remember you enjoyed it too. So beautifully brought to life.
ReplyDeleteYes, it’s a long but beautiful watch
DeleteGreat review in The Sunday Times as well. A must see for me now you have recommended it!
ReplyDeleteOohh, home grown tomatoes. Nothing shop bought smells so good and tastes so sweet. Lovely raw, but perfect in a classic simple Italian pasta. Just tomatoes garlic, seasoning and a twist of chilli topped with grated cheese and a tear of basil
This gift made for a delightful supper
DeleteI shall look out for that film.
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DeleteI love that you picked upon the fact that the lead wasn’t a victim or called one
ReplyDeleteLoved that
Lee
That’s the power of the film , it never lost the essence of Agnes, just facets of her
DeleteI'll have to keep an eye out for it. Sadly, we don't get a lot of interesting movies here.
ReplyDeleteTry to see it , it’s worth it
DeleteBeautiful tomatoes. I read only the title of the film. You always tell me more than I want to know. But that’s just me. I like to be completely surprised. Sorry, baby!
ReplyDeleteWe need to catch up can I visit
DeleteWe would love to see you here. Sadly, no room in our apartment, but plenty of options nearby!
DeleteI can do Airbnb
DeleteWonderful.
DeleteI will also watch for the film.
ReplyDeleteAbuse is terrible and many people never quite overcome it.
I've read that abuse begets abuse, and the cycle can continue. You likely know more about this than I do.
There are few things as wonderful as a local tomato,
ReplyDeleteDid you feel some comparisons/ parallels with your life, especially the kindness of Trelawnyd villagers? A film I will definitely look out for, thanx. Jan in Castle Gresley
ReplyDeleteI am mad-jealous about the tomatoes!
ReplyDeleteI would like to watch that.
ReplyDeleteIt's so good the way friends leave gifts for you on the wall! I once had a neighbour who would hang a little bag from the shared fence with home grown fruit or vegetables for me. I loved it.
I will look out for the film. Enjoying tomatoes from our garden at the moment.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a film I would like to see... don't know if it will get here though but if it does.....Nothing beats homegrown tomatoes and tomatoes from a neighbour that were homegrown is like nothing better. I can imagine a wonderful caprese salad with them ... yum!
ReplyDeleteA lovely mix of tomato varieties
ReplyDeleteThose tomatoes look so good! There is nothing like a fresh tomato. I had not heard of this film. I will have to check it out.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a good film! I hadn't heard of it.
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful thing to see what your neighbors have left for you on the garden wall.
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