When I was a student nurse working in the community I once sat on a patient’s chihuahua, which was asleep on her couch. Its owner put in a written complaint about my behaviour. ( or more importantly my behind)
In another home I once spied a mummified cat , curled up near a long used coal fire and could only go go eyed my colleague as she tried to persuade that patient to enter psychiatric hospital
At another house, in the Sheffield districts I couldn’t help verify a patient’s death as I heard a family pet ( a nasal pug with a habit of hiding under her mistresses’ bed ) heavy breathing 🐕
I once saw a farm dog lie still and whimpering next to the paralysed body of her shephard owner and I pretended not to notice an elderly dying patient’s Yorkshire terrier as it was “ smuggled” into intensive Care by a tearful grandaughter, under her anorak.
I’ve seen my own dear Meg , a feisty and somewhat bad tempered Welsh terrier , sit still and respectful at a moribund patient’s bedside. Something Mary copied a few years later.
And Finlay , my first Welsh terrier once gently removed a spinal injury patient tracheostomy inner tube and held it in his mouth like a Frenchman smoking a cigarette as the staff looked on open mouthed .
I was present when a florid schizophrenic patient strangled the ward budgie
And I’ve watched tearfully as a psych patient on his deathbed called to his dead wife only to be told he was in fact asking to see his long deceased old horse.
Animals in hospital ….and outside hospital they love who they love
The connection between humans and animals is often overlooked by "the powers that be". Animals in hospital? Shock , horror! I'm sure, for many patients, their recovery or final hours, would be helped by a visit from their own or another's pet. Animals sense the need for quiet stillness in the presence of illness or death. I sometimes think more so than many humans. xx
ReplyDeleteAmusing, touching, and wonderfully heartwarming. Animals add so much to our lives and in so many, many ways.
ReplyDeleteMy father's cat wouldn't leave his side as my father lay dying, and although she mourned his absence for weeks, she never re-entered his bedroom.
Animals should be in hospitals. Most people would benefit immensely.
ReplyDeleteWould make such a positive difference to so many people.
DeleteOh my goodness, I thought your dogs were in the hospital, vet hospital! It's nice to see Hattie, it's been years.
ReplyDeleteLove the idea of the animals being in the hospital, but allowing a dog to pull out a tracheostomy tube must be very ---unhygienic? A tad ick? Of course I am not a nurse, so prob it's just my lack of understanding.
He was keeping the patient company and overlooked his role
DeleteOverlooked? Overstepped? Still ick, what about infection. I love dogs but their mouths aren t so germ free.
DeleteWhat a wonderful set of reminiscences! Especially how you overlooked the smuggled in Yorkie.
ReplyDeleteTen years ago when I had a rather long hospital stay, I remember how nice it was when the therapy dog came by to visit one day.
ReplyDeleteLovely memories John .When I was a district nurse my patients much loved cat walked up from the bottom of her bed and touched her face as she exhaled her last breath and once as a patient died upstairs in her bedroom her 2 dogs started howling sitting downstairs in the kitchen . Very spooky , !x Bernie
ReplyDeleteI've never understood the reasoning behind allowing children in to visit and not dogs. My own child pressed the emergency button. I've watched other children careening down hallways, bumping into trolleys and generally getting in the way. My dogs would snuggle on the bed with me and that would be it.
ReplyDeleteJohn, these stories are book fodder.
ReplyDeleteLovely Hattie! How is her daughter doing now?
ReplyDeleteThe love and loyalty between a dog and owner are precious. The connection is amazing.
ReplyDeleteThe summer I spent hanging out with a friend who was in hospice my little dog came with me every day, and we brought her golden retrievers, either one at a time or as a group, on many days. Totally cool with the management and medical staff. I think it made a difference.
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I never get tired of your stories.
ReplyDeleteI too never get tired of your stories John. And not to be in any way offensive, but if I'm at end of days, I'd so much rather be comforted by my own dear pets or even visiting therapy pets rather than an unknown religious individual.
ReplyDeleteSorry, Camille here. Not anonymous.
DeleteI love this post, start to finish, and your wonderful stories that really happened because dogs are psychic and full of love nose to the tip of their tails. We who have loved a dog or dogs are so lucky. After all, dog spelled backwards is God.
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So good to see Hattie and of course, Mary. Also, I am glad you mentioned Nu recently. We have so many wonderful memories of our dogs over the years in our family. When our son visited over Christmas we talked of all the animal stories - some brought howls of laughter and some brought tears. We recently created a picture wall and all the dogs are included as they are family too.
ReplyDeleteOnly a dg owner (dog lover) would understand all that. Tears still come to my eyes when I think back to my long departed canine friends. I'm an old softie.
ReplyDeleteYou are a true Wordsmith! I'm so looking forward to "The Book" John!! I am sure I only survived ten years of isolation in a boarding school because of my wonderful pony. If I'm calling to anyone on my deathbed, it'll be Rustic! Strangely, my mother's cat refused to come into her bedroom during the couple of weeks she was bedridden and dying of pancreatic cancer. I tried a number of times, but Halley fought efforts to get him to visit her. I thought that unusual as he was a hugely intelligent (ginger) cat, with oodles of personality.
ReplyDeleteI smuggled in our toy poodle when my mother-in-law was in palliative care. We had asked the staff about it, but they said no, citing allergies, hygiene etc. But as mum was in a private room, we decided to do it anyway.
ReplyDeleteMum loved little Lambi (the feeling was mutual) and it was priceless to see how her face lit up with joy when I opened my backpack and she saw the dog peeping out. I have a lovely picture of her cradling Lambi that day. ♥
John you should write a book. Even in the most sad upsetting times sometimes we find humour not in a bad way just to help us through and to later remember.
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Animals care, have empathy, and see beyond. I think the USA is a leader in this; animals are regular therapists in hospitals, and not just dogs, but cats and even horses. There is one hospital group that has Shetland Sheepdogs exclusively as therapy dogs. When my husband was dying his cancer hospital encouraged me to bring our two shelties in to visit him; we brought them in through the back and they settled on the bed with him, on their own blankets, for a couple of hours every day. Even in a coma, in his last few days, their presence soothed and reassured. And the dogs themselves were very aware of the situation and their role. Within the tragedy of the circumstance, the role of animals to aid and reassure is touching, beautiful and certainly really helps. More needs to be done to study, understand and motivate this.
ReplyDeleteOne of the last pictures of my dad is when he was in the nursing home, and my sister brought her dog with us to see him. The dog LOVED my dad and jumped right up on him. He was so thrilled to have her there, and was smiling, which was nice because he had the kind of dementia that kept him agitated and unhappy.
ReplyDeleteMy husband had been in hospital for about four months and he wanted to see our dog, so I asked permission to bring her in and was given the runaround, you know ask head nurse, she would say ask supervisor etc. so one day I came in the side door with the dog just like she belonged and put the dog up on the bed with J. A little while later a Doctor came in not noticing the dog till it gave a loud warning bark, like don’t you touch my person. Dr. jumped then started to laugh. Nothing more was said and my husband was well enough to come home a month later. I think it helped him seeing his dog for sure. Gigi
ReplyDeleteThere is something about the human-canine connection that is fascinating and endearing. I have loved all of the dogs that have been in my life with all of my heart.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful photo.
ReplyDeleteOne for the books, marvelous telling. :)
ReplyDeleteYou certainly have many stories to share, John. Therapy dogs are popular in our area and are welcomed into hospitals or nursing homes.
ReplyDeleteLovely stories, and so well told. Mavis is a firm favourite in my Mum's care home and is welcomed with open arms by many of the staff and residents. So much so that there are now a number of dog visitors, after residents (or inmates as Mum calls them) are now requesting their family members to bring pets in to visit them too. It makes for a lovely home atmosphere and the dogs are loving seeing other dogs occasionally.
ReplyDeleteThere is a photo of my brother, sitting in his big reclining chair with Eva, his pit bull, and Ben, his pointer, sitting on his lap as he recovered from chemo. They were definitely an important part of his recovery.
ReplyDeleteNina
Dear God, John. That’s brilliant!
ReplyDeleteIngrid
What wonderful stories and images.
ReplyDeleteThe strangest thing happened when my dog was dying. A neighborhood dog who never came to our house was trying to get in . He kept scratching at our front door. That night he got into our garage and kept trying to get into the house and would not leave. We took our dog to be put down the next morning. Never saw that neighborhood dog again. I'm convinced he knew what was happening and wanted to be by our dogs bedside. Linda
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