The End Of A Lovely Evening

 


Its been the best night ive had in a long time.

Im miles from my hotel but sod it. The concert has finished after five encours and I followed a group of happy 60 something Spaniards to a local bar where im having a massive Gin.

I havent joined them, ive just shared a lovely concert with them, one that i will have to show you when the videos come out rather than to describe adequetly. 

It was lovely and couldnt have been more Spanish if you given King Filipe a sombrero and a litre of sherry to down

The lisping choir, men in victorian spanish flat caps and women all hands on hips with their shawls, belted out some doosies as dancing flamenco girls with castinets to die for wowed the local audience to such a pitch that they stood and yelled for more.

These were a class act

The whole experience was totally untique,and im not ashamed to say I  cried at the end, and ive cried a little now as I sit on the fringes of a group of chattering Spaniads without a bloody clue what they are saying.

A few days ago Anon on the blog kindly reminded me that im making the best of a bad job. That the experience would have been better with aman on my arm.

I agree wholeheartedly to that oh so not kind comment. But do you know what? 

Im going to have another gin, im going to pluck up courage and chat to the person next to me, and i'll find my way back to the hotel slightly pissed in a wonderfully chic city, and oh so happy that I came in the first place

Buenos noches



51 comments:

  1. My ex isnt an arsehole. He just changed as people do. So lets not go there. The blog today is about doing it on your own , and im proud ive done it , and ive had a good night....and im writing this after 3 fellow concertgoers got their son to drop me off at my hotel miles awayout of their plans...

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    2. And i know you didnt call him an arse, but many here would have and thatsnot helpful

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  2. Anonymous9:15 pm

    Big breaths john , i and most here get where you are coming from .
    Well done. U did good

    Lee
    X ( kiss this time and i never give out kisses)

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  3. The concert sounds fabulous. Live music and singing puts everyone in a new and better high spirited space. Spanish people are warm, thoughtful and generous. You are in good company. No doubt about that. Enjoy!

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  4. What a fabulous night you've had. You deserve it - you've been and gone and done it, despite a few nerves. I can feel your high from here! Sweet dreams. xx

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  5. Barbara Anne9:41 pm

    Soar with continued joy at the wonderful experiences you've had on this all too short of a trip. Good decision to go!

    Hugs!

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  6. Anonymous10:11 pm

    I’m so happy for you, John. I can feel your joy from way over here. Will wait for the full review and videos when you get back to your lovely cottage and Mary and Roger. You did it!

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  7. I am so pleased that all has worked out well John and I am keeping my fingers crossed that you get back safely to your two balcony hotel room

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  8. i imagine you're asleep as I write, sleep well. I had many nights like that, and they were all memorable. Have a cup of coffee and plan your day. Cheers.

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  9. The best night in a long time: that says a lot. Being alone doesn't change that does it? It all sounds wonderful.

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  10. Three cheers for you John!

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  11. Oh John.....we are on the same journey....I 'feel' all you say as we are travelling the same road.....let's share a gin soon and encourage each other to keep going xxxx

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  12. Anonymous10:57 pm

    Good for you ! ...you saw something you wanted to do experience and enjoy and you went for it ! Proud of you ...I had a night out at Venu Cymru enjoying Johannnes from his Strickly tour with ned...camp and fabulous ..loved every minute ...glad we both had a fabulous night..so good for the soul ...was thinking of you ...take care sister Jan x

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  13. There! That's all you need! You are living and loving life and that is all that matters. Continue on!

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  14. Ana Dunk11:34 pm

    One of the hardest things I ever had to do was venture out on my own, after my divorce at age 47, after 27 years of marriage. I decided not to date for a full year after the divorce was final, because I was not even sure who I was at that point in my life and it wasn't fair to someone else to be a part of their life when I was not even sure of myself. I found happiness being alone and I still am, 35 years later.

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  15. Anonymous11:53 pm

    So good to hear about your joyful time. Jean in Winnipeg

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  16. Anonymous1:21 am

    How wonderful that fellow concert goers were so helpful and friendly! You are a kindness magnet at the moment it seems!

    Ceci

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  17. John, it's a courageous thing to step out of your comfort zone. You had a shocking experience the last time, which probably made your feelings a bit more complicated. But you've done it, and I'm proud of you, and I'm so very happy you're enjoying yourself. Talk to the person next to you. Laugh. Enjoy your gin. Here's a tip: "Hola! Me llamo John, y me gusta mucho tu ciudad. Soy de Wales, y esto es mi primero vez aqui." Have a translation guide open on your phone. I double dog dare you!

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    1. I did say hello to a chap called noel who spoke pwrfect english

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  18. Anonymous1:38 am

    What a lovely evening with wonderful music and friendly concert goers and gin. I call that a trifecta.
    Bonnie in Minneapolis

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  19. Good on ya! Sounds like a great evening. Cheers John!

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  20. Anonymous3:18 am

    John. Sounds like a cathartic time. And I’m glad for that. I was the one who said “maybe it would be. Etger to save the money”. You called me a troll. It I was t trolling. I’m just very conservative and it unsettles me when I do t have a reserve. But this sounds like a lovely time. It would be good, though for you to have a rainy day fund and not rely on the fates. I also want to add that I sense your therapy profession seems to have drawn (or is drawing you) out of your depression. Wishing you a wonderful end to your trip.

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  21. Anonymous3:47 am

    How exciting! Delightful! You did it and after the not-Rome trip it must have taken so much courage And you did it. Ps the choir/ concert sounds so wonderful.
    Lizzy d.

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  22. Bravo! Go forth and find your own way.

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  23. It was so much the night you had looked forward to and I am glad! A very special experience which will be there with you to enjoy as a treasured memory. Wonderful.

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  24. Sounds fabulous - but I hope the hangover isn't too bad now, and I hope you actually made it back to YOUR hotel!!!

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  25. Shelly Williams6:27 am

    Well done John, I’m smiling away whilst reading about your great time away xx

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  26. It all sounds so wonderful. I am so happy for you.

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  27. Anonymous6:40 am

    so happy for you, what wonderful souvenirs to relive again and again. cant wait for the video. noreen

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  28. You did it. Brilliant John, I knew you could!! Now the world is your oyster ... and your lobster is out there. Old Friends reference. 😄🤣

    Typically you're in Madrid and I'm in North Wales. I'll blow the cottage a kiss as I pass by. ❤️ xx

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  29. Traveller8:35 am

    Glad you had a wonderful time. As someone said above you had a rough start last time so am glad this one went so well. True solo travel, ie not just joining a tour as a single person, is not for the faint hearted.

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  30. Anonymous8:36 am

    Rome obviously threw you a curved ball John.
    But your joy at attending the choir concert is palpable and understandable because of what it stands for.
    Confidence
    Self worth and self care
    Fun
    Proving to others like me toget off our recliner

    Keith
    Xx

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  31. I'm in the process of booking two concerts to go to by myself on a weekend away. My friends are all busy, and I don't want to miss out. Enjoy your gin and your wonderful get away you lovely man.

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    1. Andthe same for you. Occassional gifts and travels come your way occassionally but if you are single the onus is on you to do the sorting

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  32. When I read that earlier comment, I wanted to smack Anonymous. Not all of us have someone to hang our arms on. (And Jesus Christ, do we always have to?) We are living our lives. This post was wonderful. ♥

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    1. Theres a sour grape in every bunch xx

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  33. weaver10:52 am

    Dear, dear John. I thought of you several times last evening, expecting to hear that you had been to see that lovely choir. Just hold on to the fact that you are a 'whole' person, you have a lot going for you, you have dozens (at least) of friends and if there is a 'right' one he will materialise one day (when you least expect it). Safe journey home. The furred ones will be pleased to see you and you have a whole new life as a counsellor before you. Exciting times and your garden will be a picture I expect. Much love.

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    1. A really lovely comment Weave and we fully agree with you.
      Wendy (Wales)

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    2. Im at the airport now weave and i enjoy airports almost as much as i do the holidays they herald

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    3. Anonymous12:40 pm

      Weave's comment brought tears to my eyes John! - Jackie

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  34. I missed this post last night and have only just caught up.
    It sounds like a really fantastic evening - I could feel that (slightly inebriated) sense of euphoria coming across in your description. Bloody fantastic.

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  35. Sounds like a dream. I am so happy for you.

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  36. Missed this earlier. So very, very glad you had a wonderful evening!

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  37. Glad your trip went so well and you enjoyed it all, John!

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  38. Good for you john. Sod the mean and unkind people of this world.

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