Mindful


 I was never one for houseplants.
True, I have an aspidistra who is at least 40 years old and a flowering cactus almost that age , but these two are surviving more from luck than from design. 
Since lockdown I have collected houseplants and the best bit of advice I have had looking after them came from the postman, who one day complemented me on my collection.
When there’s a warmish rainstorm , put all of your plants outside for a long shower
It’s labour intensive , but it doesn’t half clean and nurture them
So that’s what I have done this morning. Set the plants in the rain and then returned them one by one when they were wet and really green again.
I know repetitive and somehow quite mindful.

This respective, mindless behaviour is a useful mechanism to employ when stress is in your life. I’ve always used it at work when things got too much to handle. I’ve gone to the drugs room to clean the drugs trays or move the laundry around or clean the dressing trolleys.

Washing dishes is a mindful chore too
It’s done with the above view of plants and flying gull and of pretty crockery and moving the plates and the knives from hot water to cold rinse let’s your mind unwind and slow down. 

My grandmother hated ironing clothes, she said that it “ slowed down the brain” 
Now it’s therapy

45 comments:

  1. Kneading bread.

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  2. Mindless, repetitive tasks are probably what keep me sane. Well, okay. As sane as I am which is not barking mad. Generally.

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  3. Anonymous1:22 pm

    I have a plant that is more than 40 years old as it came with this house. When we went to Grenada to our boat every winter it did not get watered for 6 months and it has survived and thrived. When my mil passed away 40 years ago she left one plant so I brought it home and it lasted till last year. Now my mindless is watering plants every Saturday. Oh I think I’m mindless all the time, and I quit ironing when my kids were little. I am lonely but happy. I have so many good memories to ponder.

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    1. I live in the past I guess. I ponder too

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  4. Barbara Anne1:30 pm

    Hand sewing a quilt's binding.
    Beautiful post this morning, John.

    Hugs!

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    1. Really…I thought it was plain boring

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  5. When I am stressed I find that sorting out my clothes helps. Decluttering my wardrobe and my mind.

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  6. "Chop wood, carry water." Fine. But NOTHING will persuade me to take up ironing again!

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  7. I'd love to see more of your plant collection.
    I'm wondering why you give your plates and knives a cold rinse after washing up? I wash mine in hot soapy water then put them on the drainer still hot, they dry quickly with no need to use a tea towel.

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  8. Anonymous1:55 pm

    Hi John, your post resonated with me as the only time I do any ironing is when life hits me in the gut to remind me that our time on earth is fragile. The most notable instances are when my younger brother died, the man in my life decided he wanted a younger model and other stuff now long past. It’s good to be mindful and let things wander from your mind now and again. Jan

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    1. In my case it was the mindful singing in the choir that finally got me through the very bad parts of my life

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  9. Crochet is my mindful time. Just sitting letting the hook and yarn work their magic, and having something useful at the end of it. Win, win! Trouble is, my mindful moments seem to last too long, nowadays and generally take precedence over other tasks. Oh well, life's about more than chasing your own tail! xx

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  10. I agree, repetitive tasks are calming and good stress relievers. I like planting and working with my landscape. Like you, my houseplants are numerous and some are small trees.

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    1. Planting up plant pots is another therapy for me

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  11. I'm excellent without door plans, but for some reason have never had luck with indoor plants. I had one that my friend at the floral shop gave me as a rescue. For some reason that's doing good and has doubled in size. But he told me many people fail with indoor plants for two reasons. They're not in the right light, or they overwater them. Once plants fine their spot and do well they really shouldn't be moved all over.

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    1. My sister told me to keep moving them until they look happy

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  12. weaver3:02 pm

    Unfortunately mine is not a bungalow for houseplants as almost every available flat surface is directly above a radiator. But I do agree about putting them out in a warm rain - does more good than a watering can can ever do. You can almost hear them saying 'thank you' when you bring them in. x

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  13. Anonymous3:09 pm

    When I was so upset/stressed over the loss of my hubby, I got a tattoo, already had two from my sailing days. The tattoo artist was so caring and just let me talk and snivel, that I kept going for more. We became friends although there is a 50 year difference in age..He told me that many nurses had come too because of stress and one told him he was better than seeing a therapist..When I went out for my birthday cake, a lady remarked that she loved my tattoos. I love them too, as most are a story of my life. My kids say that when I die they will skin me and frame my tattoos.lol. GG

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  14. I find a good book sets my mind at rest. During lockdown, making sourdough bread was enjoyable (until others started requesting I make it for them too - it then became a chore). Walking - whether a hike in in the hills or just a dog walk also does it. That's a good tip regarding houseplants. I do wish we had some warm rain - my garden has been battered by the hard winter we've had - my magnificent Tetrapanax is showing no signs of recovery, and neither is my Euphorbia pasteurii. Gardening is another restful activity. Bring on summer!

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    1. Cooking is mindful too, I love sushi which is carefully made….soup and bread is great to make as it’s easy mindfullness .

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  15. Yellow Shoes4:09 pm

    "I have an aspidistra who is at least 40 years old" I like that it's a "who" not a "that"

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    1. Well it is a who, and probably a she

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  16. I like shuffling cards. I also don't mind ironing as long as it's simple, like pillowcases.

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    1. With lots of wonderfully smelling starch

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  17. Your next step should be to set yourself up a therapist. People would pay you to do your cleaning and ironing. Mind you, running such a profitable business could be extremeny stressful.

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    1. Lol that’s my idea ….in reality ..well the therapist part lol

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  18. I find laundry, gardening, and cleaning all therapeutic. Even ironing helps me in that way. However, the idea of getting out the iron and ironing board usually overwhelms me.

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  19. I've become quite the little housekeeper here. Doing dishes is my main accomplishment so far though I've just changed my routine to loading the automatic dishwasher rather than doing them all by hand.

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    1. You are only a hostess with the mostess after you’ve polished the toilet bowl

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  20. I think the important word there is WARM rain!!

    Ironing is contemplative, satisfying in results and aroma

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    1. The one thing ( and the only thing) I like about ironing is the smell of starch

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  21. I am glad to iron as I don't have to think of anything and the mind isn't a headful of hummingbirds.

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  22. Anonymous8:56 am

    Going for a walk and pottering about in the garden are my instant stress relievers. Certainly kept me going in the Covid lockdown days- as did reading your blog (thank you :) ) Ironing?? Perhaps not so. Great tip re the houseplants and one I'll take up. Louise x

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  23. I was never one for houseplants either. Too much care and attention required. We just have one houseplant at the moment, given to Jenny by a friend. Miraculously it's thriving. A 40 year old aspidistra is quite something.

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