Holiday day 5
Well.
I’ve known Alex since 2008.
I didn’t know he fancied me until I met him two years ago, when I was newly single
Yesterday we had a lovely flirty time
It’s a pity he lives in Poland.
When you are in a long term relationship that has been ended unexpectedly, your self esteem takes a real bashing…
Well smashing or crushing would be the words I would personally use.
The thought that anyone else could actually fancy you never really enters your head again.
Not until it is spelt out to you
The South Bank was vibrant and buzzing again last night.
The play was complicated but worth concentrating on. Written by Winsome Pinnock , it’s a weaved web of stories centred about the theme of slavery and black identify in Britain . From the 18th century we follow the fortunes of a Black seafaring family mixed in with the painter Turner’s famous anti slavery work The Slave Ship , as seen from Turner’s perspective and from the group of actors playing him and his contemporaries on a modern day film set. Add into the mix a contemporary black actress, a second generation Windrush woman, and a black teacher and her pupils visiting the painting insitu and you will get the flavour of the production .
It was so refreshing picking my thoughts out with Alex after the production .
He’s a professional film critic so post mortems come easy.
Walking back across Waterloo Bridge is a free joy at night, what with the lights of the city and the warm breeze off the Thames.
It was quite…magical.
This morning I went to the beautiful Somerset House for the massive PhotoLondon Exhibition .
The ticket cost a few pounds more than the Banksy ticket did but you literally had two thousand more exhibits to review…an impossible task.
I concentrated my efforts on works by the vintage American photographer George Rodger and on Robert Capa and enjoyed more contemporary works by the likes of Poulomi Basu and other documentary war photographers.
It was like going to a huge antiques fair as it was so easy to get overwhelmed by the sheer scale of the exhibition but I didn’t want to get over faced by the amount on show so stuck to my themes
In addition to my favourite rooms I particularly liked this work by the Norwegian photographer Simeon Johan
I walked up from The Strand to Tobiko on Garrick Street and bought some expensive homemade sashimi takeaway before ambling through Bloomsbury to sit in the peace of Russell Square Gardens where I ate my sushi by the fountains in peace.
Russell Square Gardens
Sunflowers in Bloomsbury’s window boxes
London is always a pleasure , the National Theatre and Somerset House and the night view from Waterloo Bridge were just icing on the cake.
But to be found interesting and attractive by an interesting and attractive man has done me the world of good.
It really has…….
Hey ho
What could be better? So happy for you, John!
ReplyDeleteHugs!
I feel more like my old slightly sexual self lol
DeletePerhaps the vibing and buzzing you experienced on the south bank was because you inadvertently neglected to turn off your cock ring
DeleteIs it possible you and Alex can become a couple? sounds like a wonderful holiday. Glad you enjoyed yourself.
ReplyDeleteLol we live in very different worlds and countries …I’m sure we will meet again we’ve known each other over a decade
DeleteWhat a shame distance is such a barrier. Still, I hope it has affirmed that you are a very attractive man, in all senses of the word, and that someone out there is waiting to discover you. Who knows, a move to Poland or Alex's move to the UK might be just around the corner. Stranger things have happened. xx
ReplyDeleteIm surrounded by romantics lol
DeleteGlad your self-esteem and self-confidence got a big adrenaline shot! You deserve it!
ReplyDeleteI do x
DeleteThe zebra photo would make an impossible jigsaw.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful to be found attractive. Enjoy. xx
I did enjoy x
DeleteSounds like a great trip. I love the zebra photograph but not at that price though!
ReplyDeleteIt was huge and sort of hidden away down a corridor
DeleteAnother romantic checking in here- never say never, John!
ReplyDeleteOhhh so much fun!
ReplyDeleteAnd he IS handsome.
XOXO
There's life in the old dog yet
DeleteA modern day Romance on a web of delight xx
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice holiday you are having! I have been divorced for a while now and can't imagine ever being with anyone again.
ReplyDeleteMe too really lol
DeleteOh the excitement of feeling 'could it be?.......'
ReplyDeleteMore romantics
DeleteSo happy for you John, don't forget that you are an attractive and interesting man as well, a little bit of romance and culture what a lovely time, thanks for the photos of the places you have been, a toast to a new chapter.
ReplyDeleteLol …I’m an acquired taste
DeleteToo much ?!
DeleteSome things there can never be too much of. X
DeleteLol
DeleteGlad your self esteem has taken a real boost John - and yu really sound to be having a lovely holiday. When do you come back home - the fourlegged ones will be longing to see you.
ReplyDeleteThey are pat
DeleteI’m home and dog covered
I think you're both gorgeous :) Love this post :) :)
ReplyDeleteIt’s a happy one
DeleteI sensed you smiling as you typed that :)
DeleteI’ve been smiling all day
DeleteIt’s about time
It all looks wonderful! I am glad that you enjoyed yourself in London. x
ReplyDeleteI did x
DeleteSounds like you had a great time down in "The Smoke" as it used to be known. So pleased that Alex made you feel better about yourself after the shit that happened not too long ago.
ReplyDeleteThere is a lot to be said for feeling safe in a relationship YP
DeleteThings feel rather precarious otherwise
He did make me feel better and we both had a lovely time
A smashing trip altogether. very pleased to hear it! x
ReplyDelete😊
DeleteIt's great to see the smile in your heart from having your balls drained x
ReplyDeleteI’ve missed you Mave xxx
DeleteMavis-thank goodness you're back-I didn't know where you were-I've missed you too x
DeleteKeep on keeping on dear John - you've a lot of living and loving to do yet! I feel the joy in your words here.
ReplyDeleteMary yesterday lightened my heart
DeleteIt was about time
Good things, the best is . . . well you have heard that. The photo exhibit looks amazing, I could spend hours in there.
ReplyDeleteFist pump
DeleteSo happy to hear you had a fab time. Alex sounds a delight; I'm another who will say never say never. I could hear the happiness as you typed that! It's nice to be fancied isn't it? The photo exhibition looks wonderful; now that is my cup of tea.
ReplyDeleteJo in Auckland
Of course the exhibition was a money making enterprise, what with the elite show houses and galleries in the world taking part , but I must admit it was a feast for the eyes
DeleteYou seem very happy after quality time with Alex. Friendships that provide that special something are precious. London is a wonderful city. The exhibit looks good and the zebra photo is outstanding.
ReplyDeleteThe zebra photo was a true work of art in itself , it was at least six foot long and I’m at a loss how it was produced
Deletehope.
ReplyDeleteI'm happy that you are fancied and that you realize it! How wonderful for your self esteem!
ReplyDeleteCan you tell me what I'm looking at? Those photos of what appear to be sculptures. Are they? Where are they?
We fancied each other lol
DeleteWell you ARE having a great day, you weren't lying! Love it. Hey, take it, relish it, enjoy it and let it fill your soul. Nothing wrong with that.
ReplyDeleteAnd I have to comment on the sunflowers, holy crap, they are in tiny little window boxes but they are huge. I'm totally going to do that someday.
Yes they work quite beautifully that’s why I photographed them
DeleteOh dear, you've reminded me how much I love London. My greatest pleasure was always on Sundays, cycling up all those landmark streets, and down unexplored allies. You see a totally different London by walking or cycling.
ReplyDeleteI'm still hoping to buy a small Mews House in S Ken, but I need to win the lottery first.
Lol I sat outside Australia house on the pedestrianised part of the strand looking up at the horses and listening to the bells of the churches
DeleteAhh! SO glad that someone has told you what we all knew - You are "you" and have immense worth. I'm glad you have an intellectually and emotionally stimulating friend, and can look forward to future meetings. There are infinite possibilities, but friendship is worth its weight in gold. Tatlking of which (gold I mean) the price of that Zebra photo was astonishing. The photographed sculptures had me thinking. They are unusual, but also challenging. All in all, a very good holiday John.
ReplyDeleteYes I thought that about the photographed sculptures
DeleteThe disfigured mans head has a humour and a personality about it don’t you think, I stared at this collection for an age
Made me want to visit London again after reading that. It can make you feel so alive!
ReplyDeleteIt is wonderful to realise someone finds us attractive when we feel low, and I agree that there is a feeling of safety in a good relationship.
There seems an energy back in London , perhaps it never left, perhaps the energy is mine
DeleteIf did leave during lockdowns just like everywhere else. Now reopened, without foreign tourists, the place has a good feel to it, a buzz that can be enjoyed without too many people.
DeleteSelf esteem does take a long time to heal.
ReplyDeleteGlad that you are healing!
With a little help , I am xx
DeleteYou saw a lot of photos, ate delicious food, and had a great time.
ReplyDeleteIt must have been a beautiful and happy time.
Food for the stomach and the psychi
DeleteI have some friends in Korea now and hope to visit them next year
DeleteGo for it John. My friend crossed the Pond several times when he met a lady friend online that he liked. The last time he went, two years ago, they got married and she moved here. It can be done. Glad you are happy.
ReplyDeleteLol…..it was a nice afternoon
DeleteI'm glad you got to meet up with Alex. Long-distance relationships are possible, you know! I really need to go check out that photo show, if it's still on when I finally get around to it.
ReplyDeleteYes.
ReplyDeleteYour holiday is wonderful..and flirtatious to boot.
ReplyDeleteThank you for showing and sharing.
Sad that Alex lives in Poland. After a marriage of 30 years, I didn't know if I could have a successful relationship, but I do now and it will happen for you, too.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie