Piss Boring Post then Hiraeth


 I’m back on night shift again, which is ok given the miserable weather, grey skies and chill in the air.
I lit the fire last night, and the Dogs and Albert crowded around it as if they had never experienced a fire before.
I’m going back to bed in a bit. There’s no one to see, and little to do on days before night shifts.
The postman has just knocked on the window with a package for me.
I bought a jar from a private buyer on eBay the other day. 4£ for the jar 3 £ for the postage.
It’s my spectacle jar .
I’m a bugger for losing specs. That is the reason I never buy any expensive ones as invariably within a few days they be lost for eternity.
I buy a selection of nice no prescription reading glasses on line every few months or so, but even then I’m always scrabbling around the cottage looking for a pair when I’ve lost the ones that are generally perched high on my forehead.
Now I have a spec jar, compete in cheerful yellow, which comfortably holds 6 pairs standing up
Life in the fast lane

Ok there IS always something interesting to blog about.
As a postscript I’ll post this illustration , which was sent to me by friend and blogger Mike 


In wales Hiraeth is often a popular name for a house . 
So many rural houses have no numbers in Wales so often have to have a name to differentiate them from each other.
My cottage and Mandy & sailor John’s cottage next door used to be collectively called dan  y Fynwent which means under the graveyard . Then they were known as Llan Cottages ( Llan is one of several words in Welsh for Church) Now my cottage is known as Bwthyn y Llan which is Welsh for Church Cottage
Hiraeth, has other meanings in Welsh , as well as nostalgia, it can simply mean homesickness and yearning but I think I prefer the above definition
There is a magic quality about it .

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  1. Back when I first starting needing reading glasses, I also bought a load of reading glasses and left various pairs around the house, my office, in my briefcase, in the car...etc. etc.. Doesn't work anymore as those over-the-counter readers no longer do the trick--different vision in each eye, so have to have prescription lenses. At least I'm retired now so fewer places to leave them. Sigh.

    Good idea to have your jar full--just remember to put the odd pair you find in various places back in the jar now and then. :)

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  2. Ah glasses, the Bain Marie of my life too. I often put one pair over the pair I’m wearing and don’t realise.

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    1. I’ve had three pairs on my forehead once

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  3. No longer a problem for me - varifocals and if I don't put them on, I can't see! Love the spec jar - just make sure you don't lose it. xx

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    1. Im with Happy Hooker (I presume you're not THE Xaviera Hollander). Varifocals are the way to go. I've had them since I was 30. Could;t do without them.

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    2. I had to look up mz Hollander

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    3. Sadly, Bel-Ami, I'm not that exciting. Just an ageing (but generally happy) woman with a crochet hook!
      John, I love that definition. I definitely have a bad case of hiraeth. xx

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  4. After all that excitement, I’m going back to bed, too. (I do love that jar.)

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    1. Steady girl ….I don’t want to over stimulate u

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  5. Anonymous11:59 am

    I too have multiple pairs spread around the house and different strengths, one for reading, other for computer work. I "try" to keep each in a specific area and if I don't, I'm looking all over - they hide well!

    Dee

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    1. I often find pairs in the garden ….or in the lane …or more commonly in the drive after I get out of the car

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  6. If you wear your glasses, you wouldn't lose them so often.

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  7. Anonymous12:09 pm

    Once you pay a bomb for triple phase normal glasses and reading glasses that work for the desktop computer screen as well as close reading, you stop losing them. I wish I was back in the days when $2 shop reading glasses were enough.

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  8. That's a great idea - and I already have plenty of jars to choose one for storing my readers. Mine too always seem to end up in one room - I can't read anything much these days without them! Love your jar John, vintage maybe?

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    1. It looks vintage , which is all I’m saying lol

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  9. Hiraeth - how that sums up perfectly my yearning to return to family roots in Devon, but however hard I tried, I couldn't make it happen. We were meant to stay in Wales. No complaints. LOVE that jar - beautiful.

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    1. It reminds me of a charlotte Rhead design

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  10. I need to get my eyes tested again by the nice man but though he is extremely professional he gets a bit too close for my liking and someone else giggled to me about it-close enough to be kissed-my reading glasses hide somewhere too John-often ashamedly lurking in the depths of my Tracey Emin sofa x

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    1. I always have the urge to kiss him when I get mine tested

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  11. This Welsh harp piece evokes hiraeth beautifully
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3TMkcJR9AgE
    Even if they are still thinking about leaving!

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    1. I’m not a lover of the instrument . One of the nurses I work with plays one

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  12. Have you or many of your readers not heard of glasses cases? I learned a lesson not to leave mine lying around when I sat on a £300 pair. Even I can't lose/miss seeing a case.

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  13. Hiraeth-I have never heard that word before but am familiar with it's meaning(plus my mum and her 2 brother's have Welsh names)-I used to spend hours reading spiritual books,cards,crystal,oils,wafting and alternative beliefs to find the answer to my mums regular words of "what's it all about"like the Alfie song-my conclusion is as Toto's Dorothy x

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  14. Hearing aids follow a close seond with me John. This morning I put on Breakfast TV until my carer came and could nog hear a word. I honestly thought I had suddenly gone much deafer overnight (I am very deaf anyway) - it was only when my carer came she suggested looking to see if I had a battery in. Needless to say I hadn't.

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    1. I spent ages once thinking one of my hearing aids wasn't working or I'd gone very deaf- until I realised I hadn't closed the battery case, thereby switching it on. Oh, the joys of ageing! xx

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  15. Obviously I mean not and not nog!!

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  16. What a lovely word. I've saved the image.

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    1. It’s one of those single words that explains so much

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  17. Last week my other half was frantically ransacking the house for his glasses. I left him to it as I was 'getting in the way'.
    Eventually I put him out of his misery, they were on his head.
    This morning he was ransacking the house and car this time. He had his glasses on correctly. After 20 mins I asked what he was looking for , his wallet. Went over all the likely places, 'I've already looked there' reply.
    Eventually I looked in the dirty wash basket. There it was in his pocket of yesterdays shorts.
    Oh the joys of life.

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    1. I have a “place” for my wallet too
      I’ve lost it too many times,
      I’ve reordered my credit cards at least four times

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  18. I wear bifocals, so the reading glasses hurdle has spared me. I may need them down the road, but right now I'm fine. I actually read better without my glasses on. Go figure.
    And I kinda love that word: Hiraeth.

    XOXO

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    1. I’m at that age where everything is going

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  19. Thank you for the new to me word. I copied it out into my collection. Eye Doc said wear those glasses
    all the time, sigh

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  20. Barbara Anne3:45 pm

    Love your beautiful new jar for your glasses. Hope it helps you keep track of them. Do you suppose Albert and the dogs secretly have all of the missing glasses stashed together in some hidden hole?
    What a wonderful new word! May I ask how it is pronounced?

    Hugs!

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    1. I’ve found two pairs muddy and scuffed under the clematis arch . Then I bow my head to get under it they fall off

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  21. That is a beautiful jar, John..I hope it does its job well!
    Llan means an enclosure by the way...just ended up meaning the enclosure round a church....

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  22. I'd hate to be the Amazon delivery guy in your area!

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  23. Thank you John for posting the definition of Hiraeth. I have never heard that word but the definition says everything to me. That is how I have felt most of my life. I've always had that yearning for something that was not there but seemed to be lost deep in my soul.

    Your new jar is beautiful and should be helpful in dealing with the lost glasses!

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  24. Beautiful jar but will you remember to put the glasses into it?

    Cheap glasses makes sense sometimes BUT maybe you should invest in a stylish cool pair of real glasses to wear on dates. The cheapies stuck on top of your head are not alluring, sorry. Good glasses can add a welcome touch of style.

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    1. What about the gravy stains down my front

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    2. Black shirts only for dates.

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  25. Hiraeth is indeed a lovely word. There is no real equivalent in English.

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  26. I had to wander off and see how the word is pronounced. I love the definition of it. I buy my cheaters a half dozen pair at a time and scatter them artfully around the house. Somehow they always wind up in a pile on the bedside table and I have to gather them up and scatter them once again. A jar is a good idea. I could just keep it on the bedside table.

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  27. Thank you for this word. Hiraeth is the longing I feel when I am sad or sick. I am at home but I feel like I want to go home.

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  28. I've noticed that lots of homes in the UK have names in addition to a street addresses. The word "Hiraeth" carries a lot of heartfelt meaning. It is a lovely name for a home. Like Mave, I keep my glasses in a case and it works well for me. Your new jar will work like a case.

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  29. I love that word and its meaning! What a perfect description of it. That feeling is so deep, spiritual and instinctive.

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  31. Bloody specs, I left mine upstairs so D went up to get them for me and wore them down. My head is bigger than his and they shot off his head, over the banister and onto the kitchen bench, breaking off one of the temples in the process. We've just gone back into extreme lockdown so hopefully the glue job he's done will work because my prescription isn't quite a standard one and hobby glasses give me a headache.

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  32. The routine of putting the glasses in the jar, in the right place so they can be found, and the routine of people in the right house, where they belong, where they can be found, in front of a warm cosy fireplace.

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  33. Love the pretty new jar, it goes well with the room.

    Hiraeth- thank you for sharing this Welsh word. It encompasses a lot of feeling and it is one I can definitely identify with. Cheers!

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  34. That IS a great word. It's definitely something most of us can relate to, I suspect.

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  35. Local Moving Companies I left my specs upstairs, so D went up to retrieve them and wore them down for me. Because my skull is larger than his, they flew off his head, over the bannister, and into the kitchen bench, shattering one of his temples in the process. We've just returned to extreme lockdown, so fingers crossed that the glue job he did will last because my prescription isn't nearly conventional, and hobby glasses give me a headache.

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