Trolls, Pain And Glory et al

Last night a particular Troll had a little " play" on Going Gently 
They thought they were being clever in doing so , but they only sought to make a fool of themselves as most, if not all of their comments were based in misinformation and supastiston. 
I wasn't even mildly irritated by it all...I had better things to do.
If I am wrong ( and I am not) " I will apologise to "Jaqc" and " Sue" personally if they email me at jgsheffield@hotmail.com
I'm not holding my breath.....

With my date postponed, I organised an ENO today and took myself off to see Almodóvar's latest movie Pain & Glory.
The film is Almodóvar's most autobiographical work to date and brings together his signature themes of mother love, regret and memories of awakening sexuality and sets them against the backdrop of a sleek modern day Spain and a vibrant and colourful mise en scene.

Penélope Cruz as Mallo's Mother

A haunted and haunting Banderas

Almodóvar is " played" by Antonio Banderas. A film writer who has hit a sad isolated plateau in his luxurious Madrid penthouse. Wracked in pain from a myriad of physical and psychological complaints his character Salvador Mallo,is haunted by regrets over a hit 30 year old film, a love affair  that went awry and his relationship with his mother. 
A meeting with a drug using past work colleague, introduces Mallo to recreational heroin , a drug that eases his pains but also accidentally enables him to access the Ghosts of old memories past.

Banderas is wonderful in the lead role. At times he seems a diminished Wreck of character who is overwhelmed with physical pain and regret then he transforms into an emotional bruised ex lover of a man who went on to marry a woman and have a family of his own .

It's a complicated and delicate performance which , will be , I am sure , Banderas' triumph come award giving time.

I met my friend Mave for lunch after the film which filled my quota of sassy gay quips and before the movie had some phone  banter with Si the chap I had planned to meet today...
It's nice to have a few more gay mates...Mave was incensed by last night's blog trolling 
He was ready to bitch slap the "lot "of em! 



61 comments:

  1. Nice to have Mave in your corner, not that you need the assistance.
    That Penelope Cruz is delicious!

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    1. She's never been more naturally radiant in a movie

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    2. I know I am radiant darling but I'm not an actress :p

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    3. Beg all you like but it's still a no from me 💋

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    4. Lol at violins :)

      Jo in Auckland

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  2. I loved the film; so many twists and turns and unpredictable and just plain good.

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    1. I adored it on a few levels, I especially loved the " look" of it...beautifully shot

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    2. Yes, that counted for a lot. Especially once it got going and I got into it.

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    3. The scene with the singing Spanish girls washing in the river was magical

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    4. Some of it really moved me

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  3. Good for Mave ... God they need it. You had the patience of a saint, thank goodness you have a friend that hasn't 😄

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    1. I'm a fucking Godsend 😀

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    2. Don't overblow your role

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    3. Why not? Nobody else will blow it for me 🐓

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    4. I was going to reply but ... well just use your imagination 🤣😄🤣

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  4. Troll? You mean like those ugly little rubber creatures with big eyes and wild hair? I used to have a little white one in my school pencilcase. He was normally skewered to the end of a pencil through his rear orifice. Seems a good way to treat a troll.

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  5. Trolls... what makes them tick? Does anyone know?

    LX

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    1. It's mostly because they are insecure little twats in real life. Give them a keyboard and a feeling of anonymity and they're suddenly of the opinion that everyone wants to read anything they write.

      It's a good thing that technology has moved forward and they can be traced so easily!

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  6. More friends than trolls. Sad to hear the date was postponed,

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    1. Don't be sad. He got me instead 😋

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  7. That looks like a good movie. I think Antonio Banderas is underrated as an actor. Take care.

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    1. He was wonderful . A towering performance

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  8. Ursula

    Get fucked sweetheart. It's got to be more pleasurable than having your own head up your arse.

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    1. Good to see you today! You were on top form....
      I owe you a coffee and cake

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    2. As ever you were wonderful company. I am indebted x

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    3. Nope. Happy as a pig in shit, mainly because I don't play the passive/aggressive game that you rely on to make yourself feel "something". I prefer to call a spade a spade, and as I have said before a cunt a cunt.

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    4. Now let's all draw today's blog and comments to a close xxxxx

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    5. Sorry, I've just replied to a comment, couldn't help myself.

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  9. antonio banderas - one night with him...WOOF!

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    1. He's aged well... the snogging scene was bloody hot

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  10. I saw an interview with Aldomovar...the film sounded worth watching just from that...

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  11. Anonymous9:51 pm

    Sounds like a good movie I would enjoy. Some people are born to be trolls... annoying as that may be. Thank goodness for people like fierce Mavis who will step up... Love you Mavis!
    Cali G

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  12. Glad you have Mavis in your corner.

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  13. Was greatly looking forward to seeing the film anyway, pencilled in for Fri. Now even moreso.

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  14. Ha! Those comments stretched my self control big time! I nearly put up an inflammatory comment, but managed to restrain myself! Just!

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  15. God !!! Catching up here as am away with my nearly 90 year old mum,

    The recent comments .....

    I like the look of this film John xx

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  16. Trolls? I saw opinions and advice. Are you becoming one of those bloggers who don't appreciate someone giving their opinion? Too many these days object to anything that doesn't totally agree with what they say. All adoration welcomed but not an opinion.

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    1. I get the same on my blog, so I can sympathise with John. Why do people feel the need to pick fault with the blogger, to offer their opinion when none is asked for, offer advice when none is wanted. I write a blog, it's not a forum. I share parts of my life, others can do the same if they want to dish out opinions and advice.

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    3. Rhys.
      Welcome i presume you are a new visitor seeing that you have never
      commented before
      I delight in debate. Please do put another view into the pot. I welcome it.
      But i wont be played by trolls who are only after one thing..mischief,.!!!!
      I invited the people involved to email me. Which didnt happen

      I am happy to chew the fat over anything

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    4. Prynhawn da John and thanks for the welcome. Yes new and can't remember how I found you now. I've only looked back over a few posts, a great blog, with compassion and humour. Can't go wrong with those two traits.
      I'm definitely not a troll or after any mischief!

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    5. Sarah. I would rather people didn't say how fabulous I am. I am nothing special, just getting on with my life the best way I can.
      Sorry John, this is your blog. I'll bow out.

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    6. I doubt you are a real character Rhys
      Cwarae teg

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  17. Can’t wait to see the film. Simply don’t understand the continuous unkindness from some commenters. If you don’t like it, don’t read it. No one is forcing you. And if you want to show how clever you are, write your own damned blog.

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    1. Perfectly put Mitchell, I was just about to say something similar.

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  18. Trolls are narcissists,attention seekers I believe,leeches that need energy from others to big themselves up.They self medicate by trouble making.They can't stop themselves for long as they're vampires.Eventually when they realise you're not upset by their childish behaviour they move on x

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    1. Ursula,I am not saying that I think you are a troll,you seem to me a lady who has very strong opinions who likes share it.Some prefer to put a switch on so as not to offend.Trolls are people who have the intention OF upset,disturbing others.I can smell their stench x

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    2. Anonymous5:41 pm

      Dear Ursula and others who believe it is their right to insert what you feel is “truth”... disregarding “feelings” ... My mother told me, “ If yon have nothing nice to say, best to say nothing at all.” This is John’s Blog ... I am a fan of his blog. I support John’s triumphs as he recovers from some sad events in his life. This is now the place to cast negative words or energy. Please start your own blog if you need a platform to share your views.
      Cali G

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    3. Anonymous5:43 pm

      Typo above...This is Not the place to cast negative words or energy.

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    4. Do set up your own Blog. I have suggested it before.

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  19. Not released here but can't wait.

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  20. I didn't realize Almodovar had a new movie. I LOVE his films, so now I'm excited to see it! Banderas is an under-appreciated actor, I think -- and he's done his best work for Almodovar.

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  21. Rhun? That's ridiculous- I for one do not " blindly " follow John.I thoughourly enjoy his blog- and if I didn't I would go elsewhere.He is a delight and one of life's givers- sorry to say you are not

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  22. Ok this is the LAST discussion comment here

    If any reader thinks I am just after validation and positive ideas and praise is wrong.
    I love being read and enjoyed but I am happy to debate and discuss ideas
    Anyone one who knows me , also understands that I am happy to learn if things I say are wrong

    This all started because a troll made trouble. They and I know who the troll is . I won't say any more about this suffice to say I won't stand for games of any sort....

    The trolls gave incorrect views on my behaviour relating to work.
    I corrected them ...I rejected their views because I knew they were wrong...plain and simple

    I don't care if anyone else does not believe that or feels that I am rejecting another view.
    I rejected the View because it was wrong.....and in Two cases veiled with rudeness

    I also have to underline that this is my blog . It isn't an extension of ursulas. It has already been suggested that Ursula , you should open your own blog up again.... I think that is a grand idea...
    And please take Jaqc and any other obscure blogger with you...

    FINALLY

    I don't need to discuss anything else ...IF YOU DONT ENJOY A PARTICULR POST DONT READ IT...if you want to debate it, please do, but do it politely ...
    If you get your fucking knickers in a twist about things so much it consumes you...then JUST STOP FOLLOWING ME
    I don't really care, to be honest....I really don't

    Now this is the final word on yesterday's post
    Any further comments from ANYONE else will be deleted....

    Andif anyone doesn't like that, we'll shove a scotch egg up yer arsehole!

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