I 've never cried at a funeral!
This revelation came to me this morning after I recalled reading that Hitler loved watching Snow White and the seven Dwarfs
Both facts to me are mildly surprising, especially as I always thought that Hitler was more of a Gone With The Wind kind of guy!
Anyhow, as usual I digress
Yes, I have never cried at a funeral.
I have never found myself naked in pubic either, which, when you think of it , is more or less the same thing!
I also have have been called to Jury service, which is a real pisser! I have always thought I would rather suit than linen jacket Henry Fonda kept taking on and off in Twelve Angry Men.
I have never eaten Haggis or oysters !
Or ever had fight in the street.
and I have never once been on a protest march and waved a suitably ribald placard at the authorities!
I have never slept in a tent or had a shit in the woods
And I have not seen a hedgehog close up since I was 13!
I have never read Dickens, Proust or Chekhov
I have never been to Madame Tussauds, The Tower Of London or The Royal Albert Hall.
And have never waltzed with gay abandon on the sprung floor of the Blackpool dance ballroom!
I never said " I love you" to my parents. And I never heard them utter the phrase back to me
And I have never cried at a funeral!
I know poetry when I'm reading it and you have done a fine job. My compliments, John.
ReplyDeleteThank you good sir
DeleteI have stopped going to funerals.
ReplyDeleteI was called for jury service 2 years ago and found myself on a fraud case which lasted 5 weeks!!! Some days I dozed off, it was so boring. I was aged 70 and had long since retired, so unaccustomed to going into the city every morning to "work".
I was called for jury duty for the first time last week. I'll be 70 in four months. Here in Texas you can opt out if you're over 70, but I missed the cut off by that much. Fortunately, the parties involved settled and they cancelled the trial. I'm assuming my name goes back into the hat for future selection, which I'm fervently hoping will be no sooner than five months from now. :)
DeleteA few of your revelations surprise me. Maybe you should work on crossing some off the list. Which would you choose first? X
ReplyDeleteThe most important alas I cannot achieve! So i will plump for last night at the proms at the Albert Hall......
DeleteJust a selfish comment - I have never run since I was 17. The day before I had never run since I was 17, I beat Virginia Wade at tennis and now aged 71 I am still pissed off about it!
ReplyDeleteRun in your dreams dearheart
DeleteSome people just don't cry - even at funerals. It's not that they are bad or heartless; it's just the way they are. Everyone displays emotions differently.
ReplyDeleteI dread the day that i will.....and it shall come
DeleteI see the relationship between things you don't do in public. Oysters and dancing - you should try those. I would put you on the jury - unless the case involved an animal.
ReplyDeleteYes..id bring back hanging
DeleteI have never cried at a funeral either, but having Vera Lynn sing "We'll meet again" at my mom's funeral last year came pretty close as a picture of my mom and dad in uniform flashed up. And if you have never read Dickens I feel sorry for you. We had to read that at 11 in school so how did you get away with it? Likewise I had never said "I love you" to my parents but it didn't matter because we all knew it. However I visited my dad in June 2005. He had Alzheimer's and I knew I would never see him alive again. So as everyone left I went back into his room, kissed him and told him how much I loved him - and I'm so glad I did because he died a month later. And he has come back to me in my dreams to let me know. I'm just waiting for mom to come back now ... she's late as usual. Anna
ReplyDeleteAnna.... On the back of your comment I have just bought GREAT EXPECTATIONS from Amazon ....
DeleteWell done matey, Dickens is a master! Anna
DeleteOoh, not sure Great Expectations is such a good introduction to Dickens. Hard Times or A Tale Of Two Cities are much more accessible and certainly less boring.
DeleteJust bought A Tale of two cities too!
DeleteThe last couple of Christmases I've read Dickens' "A Christmas Carol" aloud to my husband in the evening. I usually do it over the course of three nights. We always watch George C. Scott in the movie version every year, too, and it's fun to read Jacob Marley's admonitions to Scrooge and envision Frank Finlay's delightfully chilling portrayal:
Delete“But you were always a good man of business, Jacob,' faltered Scrooge, who now began to apply this to himself.
Business!' cried the Ghost, wringing its hands again. "Mankind was my business; charity, mercy, forbearance, and benevolence, were, all, my business. The deals of my trade were but a drop of water in the comprehensive ocean of my business!”
You have never slept in a tent? Oh my poor poor John. Now it's too late. I also surmise that therefore you have never been to an open air festival. Never mind, both are devised to give you maximum discomfort with minimum effort.
ReplyDeleteIt takes a brave man - not that I congratulate you on your achievement - to admit (in public) to never having read Dickens. Few people "read" Proust. They just try; only to give up in search of time lost in their vain attempt to make it to the end.
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Oh poor ursula !
DeleteSee previous comment!
Maybe you will get to do some of those things before you kick the bucket? Maybe I will too. Remember how I was excused jury service last year? Well I have been picked again and this time I will have to do it. I think that the selection is not as random as they say. 4 summons' to one house in one year?
ReplyDeleteI can do without the funeral sobbing!
DeleteThe trouble is that we cannot do without funerals. We can do without sobbing at weddings though, especially when the vows are made with crossed fingers behind the back.
DeleteAre you married tom.....i just realised that i didnt know
DeleteI think they run out of people in the upper age limit and they try to have representatives from the entire age range.
DeleteI have never found myself naked in pubic (thank the dogs and cats!). I have been called to jury duty (once). you are not missing anything by not eating crap like haggis or oysters. or reading boring authors like dickens. tents, hedgehogs and outdoor shits are to be missed.
ReplyDeleteyou SHOULD go to a protest march; hopefully you signed the NO DUMP petition.
I have been to The Tower of London.
[Looking for cardboard] to make a sign
DeleteI've cried at several funerals. But, if a nude beach counts, I've been naked in public. Haggis, street fight, Proust, Tower of London (inside), Royal Albert hall, Blackpool, "love you" from my father... Never. Will be in London again this week and plan to remove Tower and Royal Albert Hall from my "never" list. And, although, I've cried at funerals, I didn't cry at my mother's, who lived long enough for us to finally say "I love you" to each other.
ReplyDeleteThe dowager was a grand old dame!
DeleteI cry at every funeral. I just can't keep my emotions in check. I've never listened to the Archers, had a manicure or pedicure, been called for jury service, had a dog as a pet, traveled abroad alone, won a novelty vegetable award. :)
ReplyDeleteGet carving that marrow simone...this year is your lucky year!
DeleteI wish I had done some of the things that I have not.
ReplyDeleteYour recent adventure has inspired me to do some of the things I've dreamed about.
DeleteOh John camping is fun, go borrow a tent stick it in your field beside the sheep, build a campfire to cremate baked potatoes n roast marshmallows. Look up at the stars and listen to nature!.
ReplyDeleteYou're not selling it
DeleteGet on that list as soon as possible. You must go to the Tower and Albert Hall. Such history in your country....I live in Kansas and I have been. Make a fire and sleep in a tent even if it's in your own back yard. As for the crying? Believe me it will eventually come...I don't remember any I love you's....
ReplyDeleteYou almost sound... sheltered. Do a protest, go to a rally, take a dump by a log in the stillness of the forest, and above all... eat oysters... raw.
ReplyDeleteLol...love the way you pulled your punch by saying sheltered
DeleteLooks like you are prepared to cross Dickens off your list so there's one...what's next? Crying at funerals......no........I can't do that.
ReplyDeleteYou really should read Dickens, Chekhov and Proust. They'll all three give you a much greater understanding of the human condition.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on Dickens and Proust, and though I've never actually 'read' Chekhov I've seen enough of his plays to know what an intrinsic and pleasurable part of the human condition it is to yawn.
DeleteI put the proust reference in just for you bel
DeleteI hope you enjoy your jury service and actually get to be chosen for a jury or two. Many people are called up and never get to do the job. In North Wales, I guess that the majority of cases concern ovine bestiality.
ReplyDeleteOoooouuuccchhhhhh
DeleteI was desperate once . . . and scurried off into the woods in my mini skirt . . . not a fun scene . . .
ReplyDeleteThe thought of a mini skirt makes the whole thing funnier somehow
DeleteI'm glad you are going to read Dickens, David Copperfield is my favourite.I don't cry at funerals even my parents funerals saw me dry eyed,but I wept when I found a clean Costa coffee napkin in my mothers mac pocket that she had put there the day before she died.
ReplyDeleteYes......it would have made me weep too
DeleteI have been to the Albert Hall, Tussauds and the Tower of London, I have been Blackpool Tower, but not to dance. I have slept in a tent with all the attendant discomforts. I have been naked in public, I have read lots of Dickens and some Chekhov but no Proust.
ReplyDeleteI don't cry a funerals but do at weddings.
I have never been involved in a fight but was attacked at my MIL's funeral.
I have eaten haggis and oysters but I'm not keen on oysters I always think they taste line a mouthful of cold snot.
Tell us more about the naked bit.......
DeleteWell I say naked, I was wearing high heels does that still count?
DeleteSpill the beans
DeleteYou've rather taken the wind out of the sails by this post, J.G. For some years I've been toying with the idea of making a list on my own blog of things I've never done, except that it would include one lie. I can still do one, of course, but you've rather beaten me to it - at least on the basic list.
ReplyDeleteYou mean you can sleep in a tent Ray?
DeleteIts not copywrited raymondo
DeleteDon't take me there, Y.P. Waking up with a spider crawling over ones face is enough to make one think twice about repeating the experience.
DeleteI'll give it serious thought, J.G.
You're not missing much with the whole tent thing. I'm sorry about the fact that your parents were not outwardly loving. Some families just aren't. I attended a funeral yesterday for a young woman and cried on and off for hours. It was one of the hardest funerals I have attended and unfortunately I've been to far too many. My tears were for her parents and their pain and a life cut far too short. -Jenn
ReplyDeleteHaving a shit in the woods sounds like purgatory
DeleteOnly if you don't have toilet paper, John.
DeleteWhen I began reading your list, John, I began to think about all that you have done and still do. That other list seems pretty full of accomplishments that few of us will ever approach.
ReplyDeleteIts a game I like to play from time to time frances....it doesnt mean i am twarted just musing
DeleteMusing can be fun.
DeleteAs one 'foodie' to another I recommend that you try haggis! Served with 'neeps and tatties' and a whisky sauce it's blissful!
ReplyDeleteFashion it like a scotch egg and you have a deal
DeleteHaggis is faggots turned up to 11. Serve with 'bashed neeps' for best effect. Awesome.
Deletebetter get busy then.
ReplyDeleteExcuse me John but I do remember you getting 'called short' before when you were out in the great outdoors. Or does it only count in your book if you do 'it' intentionally ? :D
ReplyDeleteThat was a shit behind a stone wall and i was on a walk so it doesnt count
DeleteYou're still a young man, John, there's time to do many things on that list if you apply yourself!
ReplyDeleteYes mom
DeleteI've never danced on a bar. Naked or otherwise. Is it too late?
ReplyDeleteIf you have tits down to your knees its not too late
DeleteI have never giggled
ReplyDeleteI did get rather cross at the vicar once
That was very poetic and see all the responses! I always cry at weddings. Camping is overrated and dancing in a bar is iffy cause you never know how it's going to turn out. My son would only poop outside one whole summer and into the autumn, till it got too cold out and the leaves got too crunchy. No idea why... My public nudity all happened as a child except for the few occasions of midnight skinny dipping as a teen, those were quite thrilling events! One of my most precious memories is waltzing madly with my sister at an October fest in Boulder Colorado.
ReplyDeleteGive me a 5 star toilet in a posh hotel anyday!
ReplyDeleteYou have lived an extremely sheltered life, but then you don't have any scars I suppose. I am sure you have had many experiences that I have not had so I will never think any less of you. No Dickens? Really?
ReplyDeleteThats big of you!
DeleteI've never danced with my husband. Not even on wedding day. Been married 37 years. I don't know why. It just never happened. What the hell is neeps and tatties? I know what haggis is.
ReplyDeleteTurnips and n potato
DeleteI was a pregnant 25 year old when my father died. I bawled like a baby. Seems every funeral brings back that day and I can't help crying. I have given up going to funerals.
ReplyDeleteYou have led a sheltered life, John. You're still young enough to kick it up a notch, but I'm with you on the oysters.
Just like Ray (and of course yourself) this is similar to a post I was thinking about recently...maybe we are all subconsciously thinking about our mortality a little and wondering about what we have and haven't done? x
ReplyDeleteNot cry at a funeral? I can't even buy a sympathy card without tears.
ReplyDeleteSleeping in a tent and reading Dickens are two things I hope to never do again!
I think this might be my big year-lots on the list. Observing the total eclipse of the sun is one.
ReplyDeleteI was once on the jury of a murder trial. Were it to be turned into a play or movie I think it might be called Ten Confused People (it was a mixed group gender-wise, I think the women slightly outnumbered the men.)It would probably work better as a comedy than a drama. We got so tired of discussing the case at one point, we started talking about what was on TV the night before! After two and a half days (we were allowed to go home every night) we found the accused not guilty. Afterwards, the bailiff told us we made the right decision (the guy had passed a lie detector test, a fact not allowed in court), which made me feel good.
ReplyDeleteOk that was fun right up until the parents bit. There's no excuse for that behaviour on their part. You have done a tremendous job on the love front all by yourself!
ReplyDeleteI have never been to Rome. Definitely happening before I croak. Pooping alfresco is completely overrated!
I cry at funerals on tv .. I have only been to 2 funerals and those were very close to me so I did cry long and hard.
ReplyDeleteEven monsters like Disney movies ?
Maybe he liked the Burning of Atlanta part of GWTW.
I have managed to never be naked in public. for any reason.
I was called to Jury Duty and got out of it because the trial was for a crime that was very similar to something that had happened to me ... I was not able to be partial ... I didn't want to be on any jury either.
Yes, I have never cried at a funeral.
I have never found myself naked in pubic either, which, when you think of it , is more or less the same thing!
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I have never eaten Haggis or oysters !
Me either .... gag gag !!!
Or ever had fight in the street.
and I have never once been on a protest march and waved a suitably ribald placard at the authorities!
I grew up in the South, demos and rabble were frowned upon .
lol
I have never slept in a tent or had a shit in the woods
I slept in a tent and I left nothing in the woods. nothing at all.
Everything stops working when I am not in a modern bathroom with toilet paper and a lock on the door.
And I have not seen a hedgehog close up since I was 13!
I saw one once .. adorable.
I have never read Dickens, Proust or Chekhov
I read Dickens.
I have never been to Madame Tussauds, The Tower Of London or The Royal Albert Hall.
Concert at the Royal Albert Hall :) wonderful fabulous ...
And have never waltzed with gay abandon on the sprung floor of the Blackpool dance ballroom!
When you do, I want to be there to see it !!!!
I never said " I love you" to my parents. And I never heard them utter the phrase back to me
We all said it to each other all the time, every day .. same with my husband and children .. we never say goodbye without saying I love you .. that is the important one for me.
And I have never cried at a funeral!
I cry at a funeral on tv. I am a crier.
https://youtu.be/jD8tjhVO1Tc
ReplyDeletethis made me cry too :)
I did not know that about Hitler, I've never been to the Royal Albert or Madame Tussauds, but the rest, I've managed, although sometimes through clenched teeth...
ReplyDeleteI've never watched Gone With The Wind. And I've never taken a selfie.
ReplyDeleteI have lost count of how many times I have seen Gone With the Wind
DeleteI grew up in NC :)
Camping is voluntary homelessness.
ReplyDeleteYes it is! Except you can enjoy it because there is a home waiting...I can deal with the bag and tent etc but the shower/bath part is tricky.
DeleteI have a fresh Haggis being flown over from the UK this weekend. I shall collect it from the airport on Saturday morning accompanied by my son and two grandsons.
ReplyDeleteIs skinny dipping being nude in public ? In which case yes I've been nude in public.
ReplyDeleteNaked in pubic? Isn't that redundant?
ReplyDeleteI cried at my grandmother's funeral, and I've been to the Tower and to Royal Albert Hall, and I've read "A Tale of Two Cities." But I'm sure I haven't seen half of the real-life drama you've witnessed working as a nurse. I've TASTED haggis, but I wouldn't say I've full-on eaten it!
I flashed my girl parts to a bus driver (but I was 5) and I rode motorcycles with Steve McQueen but pooping in the forest is way over-rated....don't bother.
ReplyDeleteYOU RODE WHAT WITH WHO. ..??????
DeleteOmg you rode with MCQUEEN, !!!!!!!
It broke my heart when my husband finally said "I love you" to his parents and their response was "Uh-huh". Why was an "I love you too" so hard to say to ones children? Or ones parents?
ReplyDeleteHow sad x
DeleteYou've got time to do most of it, pitching a tnt in the field and running over there naked would be a start ...well it would be safe to do it while the geese are still away 😉
ReplyDeleteI have read dickens, oysters raw fried and steamed, steamed is best. Have shit in the woods, slept in a tent, hit an alligator on the head with a paddle to get him away from my canoe...and ridden in a 56 T-bird converible, red no less stark naked up ushighway 75 from tampa to gainesville. Very liberating and at a time when my figure was worth viewing.
ReplyDeleteJohn you must really get out more.....
I was forced to read Dickens,(never read the other two, but I have heard of them)Have been punched on the street, ate a bad oyster and became violently ill,(Haggis is just a no) told my Dad I love him and meant it, told my Mom "I love you", but it felt forced. I have slept in too many tents and have successfully avoided jury duty. I have been topless once in the forest and felt horribly uncomfortable. I came down the stairs naked in my own house and somehow the neighbors managed to see me(sigh)I have pee'd outside, but managed to pee all over myself and I shit my pants once when I was 4 and still have not gotten over it. Been to Mme. Tussaud's,the Tower and walked past the Albert Hall. Went to two protests and even had a cardboard sign. Ended up with a sunburn. Dancing? Only when drunk. I have cried at nearly every funeral. Not at the one for my Mother-in-law and brother-in-law, though. They shared a funeral. She actually sort of gate crashed his funeral. Typical.
ReplyDeleteIt would actually be pretty easy to cross off all of those things in one day at the next funeral you attend(unless, of course, your parents are deceased, in which case you have my sincere condolence)
I am an orphan
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ReplyDeleteI've slept in a tent, cried at a funeral, told my parents I love you and heard it back, and loved Madame Tussaud's as a 14 year old. But the rest, which is most of your list, escaped me too.
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