The nurse in charge of intensive care told me that we had had a lady from the village admitted.
It was a villager I know fairly well.
Before we were allocated to our respective patients, I popped over to her bed space to check on how she was doing.
Intensive care disguises patients well.
It covers patients with tubes and lines and drains and cables.
It masks faces with endotracheal tubes and oxygen masks and through necessity removes personalised clothing for gowns and clean sheets.
From the centre of such a collection came a weak sing song voice
" Hello Cariad Bach " it trilled
" Cariad Bach " is a rather old fashioned term in Welsh.
It literally means " little sweetheart" or " little loved one"
The nurse in charge, reads Going Gently , I think, for when I got back in line for the allocation , she asked me, in a somewhat theatrical stage whisper " is she one of your old ladies? "
It was a villager I know fairly well.
Before we were allocated to our respective patients, I popped over to her bed space to check on how she was doing.
Intensive care disguises patients well.
It covers patients with tubes and lines and drains and cables.
It masks faces with endotracheal tubes and oxygen masks and through necessity removes personalised clothing for gowns and clean sheets.
From the centre of such a collection came a weak sing song voice
" Hello Cariad Bach " it trilled
" Cariad Bach " is a rather old fashioned term in Welsh.
It literally means " little sweetheart" or " little loved one"
The nurse in charge, reads Going Gently , I think, for when I got back in line for the allocation , she asked me, in a somewhat theatrical stage whisper " is she one of your old ladies? "
How lovely. I lived in Pembrokeshire for 10 years and got into the habit of saying Nos da cariad at bedtime.
ReplyDeleteI hope she will be all right, this old lady of yours. -Jenn
ReplyDeletekeep her safe and well, john.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for her recovery.
ReplyDeleteAre you allocated to her? hope so..x
ReplyDeleteShe is in safe hands x
ReplyDeletePriceless! I pray "your" old lady will be fine. xx
ReplyDeleteBless you John....and your old ladies.
ReplyDeleteI hope she will soon be back home with some of your tlc John.
ReplyDeleteCariad is such a lovely word. She'll feel better for seeing you.
ReplyDeleteWe're all your old ladies John. I hope your friend recovers.
ReplyDeleteThis rather shocked me, as I had assumed everyone in ITU was unconscious, or at least heavily sedated. She must have loved seeing a familiar face.
ReplyDeleteSometimes they are...sometimes they arnt!
DeleteI think waking up or being aware of who everyone is around you in ICU is difficult at best and to see your face must have made her feel good .. perhaps more at ease.
ReplyDeleteI hope she gets well and goes home soon.
If she wasn't one of 'your' old ladies, she is now, John. I hope she gets well and soon.
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ReplyDeleteawwww I love the "one of your ladies"
ReplyDeletecheers, parsnip
Not a certain little old lady who we all know, is it ...? Though I know it's just as bad for anyone to be admitted to intensive care, we KNOW her ...
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure you'll take good care of whoever it is. Intensive care is both scary and comforting. Scary because you have to be in bad shape to be there, but comforting because they usually have the best of the best working there.
No it wasnt auntie glad
DeleteThank you for letting us know. Hope your other little lady gets better soon.
DeleteHow comforting for her to have a familiar face at such a difficult time. I hope all is well for her very soon.
ReplyDeleteIt's so easy to recognize kindness.
ReplyDeleteHow lovely that even seriously unwell she practises warmth and kindness. And how lovely for her to have you there.
ReplyDeleteAs the nurse in charge talks in theatrical stage whispers, she should be a theatre nurse not ITU.
ReplyDeleteBoom boom!
DeleteShe must have been very comforted to see you John. I hope she does well.
ReplyDeleteShe knew she was in kind hands.
ReplyDeleteI bet she was so comforted to see your face. Lovely words Cariad Bach. You write so well, it really moved me.
ReplyDeleteearlier this year I visited a 103 year old who I have known my whole life. She wasn't hooked up to anything at all but I really struggled to recognise her without teeth or glasses and with her hair messed up. It's truly amazing how much we rely on cues from clothing etc
ReplyDeleteI think the thing people love about you is that you seem to make anyone "yours" if they are in need of care
I need to be needed
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ReplyDeleteTake care of her
ReplyDeleteSweetness..take of her
ReplyDeleteI know you will take good care of her. It must have been so reassuring for her to see you, little sweetheart.
ReplyDeleteShe must have been pleased to see a familar gentle face. If she is not your patient I know you will have a word with her on each of your shifts
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely lady!. She must have guessed she was teetering on the edge of life, been scared, but seeing you brought out her normal niceness and normality and I,m sure you reassured and comforted her!.
ReplyDeletePrecious John
ReplyDeleteWell that is a darling story.
ReplyDeleteThere is so much restrained emotion in these words. She is clearly loving and loved.
ReplyDeleteDo you speak Welsh? It is so comforting to see a familiar face when you are hurting or scared. Chalk up another good deed, "Cariad Bach"!
ReplyDeleteNo, but i was glad a weksh speaking nurse called rhys was ooking after her, pstients who are critically ill often regress to theur " native " tingue when on itu
DeleteHaha ... have you been drinking or are your fingers just missing all the right keys ;-)
DeleteI am having problems with my spare iPad sue...back on my original nowx
DeleteJohn I read your blog every day but have never commented before but your entry today has moved me to tears. You are such a kind person and would have loved it had you been a nurse when my mum was in her last days. I come from West Wales but my son is in Uni in Bangor so visit that way quite often. Thank you for your wonderful blog and insight into Welsh life. Diolch am popeth cariad wrth Sue xx
ReplyDeleteCroeso xx
DeleteI hope her stay on itu is a short one and she can be on a normal ward and soon home. xx
ReplyDeleteSeriously, when you retire and begin to write your memoirs, I will buy each and every one of them...Cariad Bach!
ReplyDeleteI hope your "old lady" fares well . . .
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