Mabel and the Real World

A rather nervous Mabel in the back of the car
It must be hell coming to a new home in Wales when all you have known for 5 years is a kennel mate in Liverpool!
New sights, new smells, new dogs (and cat), new routine and new owner...it's a lot to cope with even though I am know I am pretty good at bedding a new dog in, so to speak.
Nervous dogs need consistency, patience and routine. They must not be pushed or forced to "join in" in any way but need an unhurried "boss" to lead them into the direction you want them to go.
Voices need to be lowered and actions slowed....it's all common sense really
Toileting has to be done every couple of hours ( Mabel has never lived inside a home so therefore is not house trained) and the company of a more laid back dog ( in her case George) should help her adjust to the changes of a new way of life.
Well that's the theory!
Bless it can't ever be easy.


Mabel managed to follow the other dogs into the car, and bless she shook like a leaf as I collected animal feed from the wholesalers and paid my Nurse registration at the bank (Did you realise that nurses have to pay nearly 80 quid a year just for the privilege of working?)
As we drove through a neighbouring village of Meliden, I noticed a mound of flowers outside one of the old miners' cottages....it was the many tributes left by the locals in memory of a Hungarian delivery man,Gabor Sarkozi who was murdered there only a couple of weeks ago..
Even in our semi rural situation the big bad world sometimes rears it's ugly head!

So when I got home, I was sort of happy to be lulled back into the pedestrian world of the village by
Mrs Hopkins, who called me over to her tidy little bungalow with the kind offer of my new winter mittens!
 They are a triumph of knitting engineering! Phase 1- fingers
Phase 2- mittens!!!!

I like living in the 1960s..I only hope that Mabel will!

46 comments:

  1. Anonymous3:10 pm

    Always amazed by how trusting dogs are. They just take one look at a human and think "yep, they'll know what to do".

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  2. And there was I thinking you needed some kind of medical qualification to practice mecicine.

    Could I be a doctor then for £150?

    Love those little mittens x.

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  3. I've found too that an established dog is the best trainer for a newcomer.
    Where are Mabel's mitttens, then?

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  4. Anonymous3:21 pm

    Mabel will be fine. She has landed in doggie heaven. In a couple of weeks she will be one of the pack.

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  5. Great mittens.......can you have socks in this style...oh and hello to Mabel.

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  7. I'm always amazed that your blog posts contain "all kinds of everything" in one breath!
    xxxx

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  8. Old Mabel doesn't yet realize how good a turn for the better her fortunes have taken.
    I wish someone would drop me off at your house so I could live out my days lolling by the fire and walking down the lane and inspecting the field animals...

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  9. Welcome home Mabel!
    Those mittens are genius.

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  10. When Mabel is able
    she'll make mittens for kittens.

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  11. She is gorgeous; she's landed on her feet coming to join your pack. Lucky girl.

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  12. George will show Mabel the ropes, I expect she's already thinking to herself "this is a bit of alright".
    I used to watch the postmen in winter wearing gloves with the fingertips cut out, and now there is a real pattern !
    Brilliant.

    I tend to live in the good ole days, I sometimes don't even recognise today's world.
    ~Jo

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  13. I've been absent from blogging for a while and am thrilled to see that you've taken in another bulldog! I know how much losing Constance hurt.

    Bless you and your menagerie!

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  14. Mabel is a very lucky dog to have come to live with you.

    Sadly, living in a rural area isn't as safe as it used to be anywhere.

    I love your mittens! Very nice.

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  15. I am sure that a lot of people don't know that nurses have to pay out yearly for the privelege of working.
    I didn't until my son took up nursing, I was flabergasted.....
    The trouble is that if you love the job you will pay it, but its wrong in my eyes.
    Loving the pictures of Mabel, how about a few more of the others...
    Briony
    x

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  16. John, I've been bringing new dogs into our home for more than 12 years, you are spot on in how you've handled it. Some do, as you know take a bit to get the hang of their new life, but when treated with kindness all their insecurities and fear disappear and they blossom! Mabel is home!!

    PS: Our Scottie's favorite playmate at his daycare is a bulldog named Lola!

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  17. Those mittens are a feat of knitting engineering...believe me...I've tried to make them and have yet to succeed. You're lucky to have Mrs. Hopkins John...do you think she'd give lessons?

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  18. Never seen dual-function mittens before. Very ingenious.

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  19. We had the same scenario when Roobarb joined us from the rescue. I'm sure Mabel will soon settle in and her personality will bloom.
    I have some of thos mittens, they have bright coloured buttons to hold the flaps when not in use, but that's the Glastonbury version LOL

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  20. Mabel will adjust quickly to her new surroundings. Glad she found a great home.

    Those mittens are fantastic...I wear a similar pair fishing when it starts to get cold...

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  22. What a miracle of knitterly engineering!
    Glad Mabel continues to find her feet

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  23. I am sure she will be alright John. As you say, it must be so hard for her to adjust and she must be very confused. My friend rehomed a collie from Shetland - she happened to be passing and heard that the collie was to be put down because it would not work - she brought it back to Yorkshire there and then. That dog has had such love and affection now for some years and has given it back. Lots of cuddles and lots of gentle talking to -plus other dogs around. They are, after all, pack animals.

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  24. My goodness, Mabel has a LOT of new things to get used to--i'd be nervous with all that, too, all at once. And perhaps a bit frightened that it could be taken away just as quickly.

    When i took in Grace, the starved, feral cat, it took a long time of moving slowly, speaking lowly, and a routine before she came around. She remained skittish her whole life, but once i gained her trust, it was one of the most humbling and heart touching things i've ever experienced.

    I have two sets of mittens like that--storebought and polar fleece rather than lovingly knitted--but they are absolutely brillant. I'm sure you'll love them.

    megan

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  25. I love that picture of Mabel. She does look as if she's smiling although she has sad little eyes. It must feel quite strange for her, but with George around and all the TLC she gets from you, John, she'll be part of the family in no time, I just know it.

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  26. Ah so you do have a cat, and thanks to Megan for reassurance on cat be-friending.
    Interesting to have the ignoring-the-dog-advise. I wonder if that's why my sister's new puppy thinks I like her (I do really,) and gazes adoringly into my eyes once she has stopped bouncing all over me.

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  27. Anonymous8:19 pm

    the finger/mittens are excellent...perfect for taking care of your menagerie...and keeping your hands super warm!

    with your patience and George to help meld her into the pack...Mabel's going to be OK!

    I like it when people leave flowers candles and other items in memory of some they've known who is deceased (usually tragically)

    enjoyed your post!

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  28. John
    I too fork out for my annual NMC registration, monthly Royal college fees & £22 for the pleasure of parking at work!
    Mabel is fab!
    Do you want a pug ? He's a little shit lol
    Jane

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  29. jane
    I would LOVE a pug.. but chris would disown me!

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  30. POur AHpRA (Australian Healthh Professional Registration Authority) has witheld my registration application this year - after 48 years a registered nurse - 'cos I retired 3 years ago and have to demonstrate 'continuing competency'in order to be on the roll. I feel like responding and telling them to shove it and that 48 years of experience will be their loss!

    I could take a 'non-practicing' registration but that is a 'nothingness' and I consider the suggestion insulting.

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  31. Mabel is lovely and so are you for accepting her into your pack. Seems to me she's landed butter side up this time...and has a pretty face too. Good girl.

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  32. OH Mabel is a cutey! I have been on a trip and just now catching up on bloggies... She is a cutey John. I am totally sure she has landed in a wonderful home and will love it there!

    What wonderful mittens you received!

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  33. Mable has been blessed to find a home with you.

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  34. Glittens!!!!!

    I love glittens.

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  35. Hope Mabel relaxes soon. Love the mittens.

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  36. `Mabel` is an English female christian name derived from the Latin amabilis meaning "lovable, dear"...

    'John' is an English male christian name derived from the Moldovian johnis meaning "big softie"

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  37. Mabel is lovely and I love the glittens, but the floral tributes are very sad. Poor man...

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  38. The mittens are great...but won't you thumb get cold?

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  40. What a brilliant idea! Has Mrs Hopkins patented the finger-mitten design? Shall we see her in the Dragon's Den?

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  41. Welcome Mabel! You landed in the best spot ever...

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  42. I want some of those - the mittens I mean - not the flowers or the dog

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  43. Love Mabel and the mittens! :)

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  44. New follower! Thanks for the dogs! I'm debating on finally getting one. You see, I have a problem with ocd. I have a hard time relaxing unless everything is just right. I know more than anything a dog would be great, but I just can't pull the trigger. I guess until then, I'll keep looking at the adorable faces on your blog.
    Thanks!

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  45. Did I really not know you had a cat. Shows how blinkered one can get, 'cos I remember noticing Albert on your sidebar, when I first found your blog. He's black like my Aelfwise, but he doesn't make it into your story-telling (until now). Is he camera shy?

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