Perspectives

I didn't sleep well at all last night. Every hour or so I was awake listening for the chatter of the guinea fowl, but of course there was no early warnings and of course the fox was kept safely out of the little knot of coops on the field. I found another uneaten corpse yesterday afternoon, hidden under the snow, so the death toll officially was 8 birds dead with only one survivor, Rose.who got away without a scratch.
Early this morning as I was returning to the cottage I saw a neighbour, Joanne walking by with her large dogs, before I waved I was stopped by her expression, and I just knew that her father,(another close neighbour of ours who had been unwell for quite some time) had died.
There is something quite distinctive that passes over someones face when they are suffering from grief. I had witnessed it time and time again at work and indeed personally, and I can only describe the physical manifestation as a sort of "crumpling" of the features, when the face kind of disappears in on itself.
It is aways an expression that pulls a person up short!
I had a few words with Joanne and said sincere but usual platitudes of support, but as always at these times, there is very little one can actually do to be of any help.
Later I would drop off some flowers and a card to Joanne and her mother Pat, a gesture that would be mirrored tenfold, I am sure, by other neighbours from the village over the next day or so.
Today I have popped into Prestatyn to do some banking, then I collected more feed before walking the dogs on the gop. As I returned home I spotted a man at nearby bungalow, which is situated a couple of fields away from my field. I know the chap has hens so I called in to introduce myself and to warn him that a fox was around.
He was friendly and chatty and thanked me for the warning but informed me that the fox already had snatched several of his hens and a cockerel over the past few days.
Seeing that he had lost his cockerel, I immediately offered him Jesus, the smart male that had been abandoned with us on Boxing day and pleased as punch he agreed to pick him up next week...which was a nice result and conclusion to a miserable day or so.

Chris is working away tonight in Manchester
I am due an early night me thinks

11 comments:

  1. Take a vacation. You need it.
    ~Randy

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  2. a week in sitges would be lovely............
    with my hens of course!

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  3. I agree with, Randy. Sounds like you would benefit by taking some time away.

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  4. No, I wish it were. It is a small two bedroom mobile home that is older than I am. But we will have it paid off in about 5 or 6 years. Then we will look at building here.
    ~Randy

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  5. gawd do I sound that bad??????

    xx

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  6. I agree you need to take some time off, its all doom and gloom around you at the moment.

    Even I am still shaken up about those poor hens of yours. I was even telling my dad about it on the webcam today, and he's vacationing in Alabama. Shows what an exciting life I lead!!

    Gill in Canada

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  7. I'm sorry to hear about your neighbor John. My husband saw your blog Saturday and commented that he was sorry to hear about your hens as well. I agree that you need to "get away" but if you can't at least treat yourself to something "fun" and preferably expensive--It usually works for me along with something fattening! :-) Take care, I hope you are able to get some rest!

    PS: Glad you found a home for Jesus...

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  8. Just wanted to let you know how much you and what you wrote about losing your hens stuck with me. Since reading about the loss of your sweet hens everytime I go out with mine your words echo in my head. This evening after eating dinner, cleaning the kitchen, I sat down ( it has been an exhausting day) and started watching some mindless entertainment on tv. All of a sudden your words hit me hard. Why do you ask? Because I always lock my girlies up every evening right after dinner and tonight I didn't. So I jumped up, ran out and made sure everyone was okay and counted for, then locked them up for the night. See, we do get overwhelmed or overly tired and forget our daily routines. Take a break! Unwind. Clear your head. And thank you for writing about your hens. If you hadn't, well, chances are I would have forgotten to lock mine up tonight. Now go put your feet up and relax.:)

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  9. Oh, my! I had to work on keeping a bobcat from my flock, so a fox can't be any bit of a good thing, either. Thinking good thoughts for you! Take care.

    Cat.

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  10. Sorry to hear about your birdos,but agree with you that we have to put things in perspective. Your poor neighbor lost her father. I'm sure your kind words and gentle deeds were of comfort John. Oh silly you don't sound pathetic! Just a bit overworked and harried due to the events of the past few weeks.
    Phoenix is indeed sunny most of the time. Summers are hellish but winter is quite nice. Soon the citrus blossoms will be in bloom and the air will be thick with that sweet smell.This is the time of year to visit our desert city.

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  11. Your village life sounds charming. I love hearing how you interact with your neighbors.

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